see, because of how systems are expected to still act like a singular person, we're very used to alters not really being percieved or cared about on an individual level? and i mean, whatever. but now, because of that, any attempt to interact with a specific alter will make us love you forever. so be warned
the future should be plural
children should not be abused to the point of their brains physically altering itself and shattering itself to protect itself. Children should not have trauma. Children should not have to go through this. When we say the future is plural it means having a society that supports plural folks and works to make sure people have spaces to heal from trauma. No one is obsessed with traumatizing children to make new systems. Anyone who thinks that doesn't think very highly of children. Just no.
system role the sleeper. guy that sleeps. creature that honk shoo honk shoo
🌕 - If Your System Has A Name, What Is The Story Behind It?
🌔 - Do you Have Any Nonhuman Or Human Adjacent Headmates? Any That Are A Unique/Non-Typical Species?
🌓 - What Is The Most Unique Name A Headmate In Your System Has?
🌑- Does Anyone In Your System Have Food Preferences That Differ Greatly From Others In Your System?
⭐️ - Who Is The Most Social?
💫 - Does Anyone Celebrate A Birthday Different From The Body's Birthday?
✨️ - Who Is The "Problem Child" Of Your System? (Not Necessarily In A Negative Way)
🔭 - Anyone With A "Non-Typical" Role?
🚀 - Are There Any Headmates With Wildly Differing Interests From The Rest Of The System?
☄️ - Do You Have Any Alt Headmates? (Emo,Goth,Etc)
🌍 - Do You Have Any Introjects From Obscure Sources? (Not Including Oc-tives)
🪐 - What Is The Age Of Your Oldest Headmate? The Youngest?
🌙 - What Is The Most Ridiculous Thing Your System Has Argued Over?
👽 - The Strangest,Most Off Putting,Or Silliest Thing A Headmate Has Said?
🌌 - Is There A Headmate Who Likes To Play Pranks On The Rest Of The System?
🌠 - Who Is The Most Noticeable When Fronting?
🛰 - What Is The Strangest Way You've Discovered A Headmate?
🌝 - What Is The Strangest Purchase Someone In The System Has Made?
Do people forget muscle memory exists
"Why do you and all your alters write basically the same way?"
Perchance because our hand has been writing that way since we learned how to write. Just a thought though
Singlets will think having headmates is this horrible thing or whatever but really the worst part is when you don't hear from them
Plural tip for systems that track fronts; be lenient on tracking who may be active. Like, this is your brain, not the tax office. You don't have to perform a bunch of extremely specific checks just to make sure a headmate is truly active; you can just acknowledge their presence in whatever form that may take. Trust that they'll talk to you if they want something, and just let yourselves be. Even if they don't do anything, it still gives them history. Your headmates will appreciate having a place in your system's history, even if they don't remember exactly what they did or said in every single instance.
And even your front history isn't entirely accurate? They'll likely still appreciate that you think about them.
There’s a chance our first fictive from a popular source will be Szeth son-son Vallano. Our only previous fictive is from a tiny tiny source so I need to get my feelings sorted out* before this presence I feel ends up becoming someone xP
*I just don’t know what it will be like to have a mainstream fictive, and uncertainty makes me anxious, of course I’ll treat any new headmates as well as possible
Aragorn Elessar, King of the Reunited Kingdom - The Lord of the Rings
An alter who's role is to protect the body from pain, typically by fronting to endure or relieve the pain themself; A combination of a protector and a pain holder. Flag base by @/gorefix
F2U -> credit is appreciated but not required!
Not super active because plural communities intimidate me (the host, Jay) but trying to be more open so I don’t suppress things Again. No clue how my system formed, but I’m definitely endo supportive.
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