I Mean... My Type Is Bastards Who Have The Potential To Be Tender And Loving Towards Their S/o. •Qilby

alpha and omega

[speedpaint here]

Sometimes, although our words or actions may hurt others, they might understand. It's important to have support to help you get better with this kind of thing. If someone in your life - be it a friend or a partner - can't help you but still cares enough to put up with it, and you care about them enough to change, then you have almost a full balance there. You'll just need another friend or a partner who understands what you're going through enough to be able to help you in the ways you need.

Speaking from experience, I have a brother who was that way. He left to live with his girlfriend, and that actually emotionally wounded our mother. After realizing what he'd done, and hearing that I was having trouble at home, he starting visiting more often on his days off from work and teaching me by telling his experiences so that I wouldn't make the same mistakes he did.

I'm glad he took the time to do that, because since he started, I've shown much more improvement.

Thank you, Tyler.

Unpopular opinion, but sometimes it feels like ND positive posts can make the assumption that our actions don’t impact other people. 

Like “it’s ok if you can’t meet a deadline!” If I don’t keep up with my grading and lesson planning, that negatively impacts my 128 students. 

“It’s ok if you can’t reply to texts! Or hang out with your friends!” Other people (even NT people) have feelings. 

Honestly, I think the message should be more “you’re not a bad person for these things” and less “it doesn’t matter.”

If you can’t keep up with deadlines, you’re not a bad person. But you do have to consider what career you go into so you aren’t screwing over other people in the process. 

You aren’t a bad person if you can’t keep up with friendships, but your friends shouldn’t be expected to just wait around until you can. 

I think this is the biggest disconnect between me and the “ADHD is a gift!” movement. I laugh it off when my ADHD impacts me. Like, when I forget to bring my lunch to work or walk into my bedroom multiple times forgetting what I needed many times in a row. 

But it crushes me when my ADHD hurts my students or coworkers. 

Maybe I’m missing something here, and I hope I am, but I think we desperately need to re-evaluate the way we talk about neurodivergence.

https://youtu.be/v4pxws00tr4

Now is as good a time as any to show you: Cover image and theme for the Warmer Winter AU!

do you think Skrael's last name is north?

this accidentally lined up just right

Every time a war breaks out, one person is charged with the sacred duty to hunt down the God of War in his current incarnation and slay him.

In this war, it’s your turn, but there’s one slight problem; you are the one who started the war in the first place.

Bellroc, you've had enough whiskey-

Guess what they found.

Now I'm just thinking of the news reporter who held the rooster and when it started flapping its wings he ran away screaming

galacta knight is chicken no i will not elaborate

Thanks?

-Mod Susie

i completely understand what you mean but no.

-Mod Galacta

Technically, he got chicken wings... could be tasty

-Mod Taranza 🕸

spooky chicken

-Mod SKirby

Bellroc would throw a molotov cocktail at a fucking Dunkin Donuts for getting their order wrong

For the ToA kids

I can't get over the first one

she just

vibing in the sandbox

nomming on an apple

Pony Town Arcane Order aesthetic shots

Nari:

Skrael:

Bellroc:

Bonus!

Douxie:

I cried

Just watched 'Weathering with you' and I love the concept of a bunch of runaway siblings from royalty, living together in a cramped apartment, trying to survive a large city.

And also i like putting modern stuff in HK.