The Most Definitive Post So Far.

That would be awesome. My wife's tits are her sexiest feature.

I'm holding thumbs for you that the stars align and things happen.

Another Guy Returns

Recently, my wife ran into an old acquaintance of ours. We got to know him and his wife when our kids were at the same school. I went camping with him, we went over to their house for pool parties, it was a great connection. My wife had a crush on him. I encouraged it. I was into his wife. It was a lot of flirty fun. Not just the usual couple get togethers. It all seemed mutual. As our kids went to other schools, it faded away over time.

My wife told me she ran into him. She made it sound like I might not remember him, but I reassured her I did and told her how I thought he was an interesting person. She had made plans to go out for coffee or “something.” I told her that makes sense—the two of them work in the same field. However she pointed out that he doesn’t really work in her field. he’s a “dilettante.” I offered it would be fun to make the personal connection since he is interesting. She smiled. She got what she wanted to hear. I was very happy for her. This is something she would not have done in the past. She wouldn’t set up a get together with another man.

In the beginning of our journey, I would be a little nervous about her meeting a guy, possibly going out with him. Now I’m realistic about the whole situation. The stars need to align to make it work. Even though my wife and the other guy have a lot in common and enjoy each other's company, there are other factors. In this case, he would need to discuss it with his wife. Our rules are simple, we prefer to have it known what is going on vs sneaking around. Some others have similar ideas. Getting to the topic is delicate, it happens slowly or quickly if they are in the lifestyle.

In the meantime, I’m encouraging her to get a glass of wine with him. Something to reduce the tension. Something where it’s perhaps a little personal.

This cartoon was what inspired me to do a few drawings of my own. I realised it expresses the idea better than most of the re-purposed photos circulating here. It's very easy to identify with it because he could be anyone. Thank you to the author.

This is an awesome story. I so wish it was mine.

The beginning

When I first brought up this fantasy to my wife I think she was confused. Her concern was why would I want to share her with another man. I must admit, I kinda felt the same way. I mean I wasn’t even sure why I felt the need to see her with someone else. The thought of someone’s hands all over her body would make me feel all kinds of mixed feelings. On one hand, the naughtiness and lustfull feeling of my fantasy coming true would get me really excited, but on the other hand the taboo feeling and the way people would judge us if anyone found out would scare and make me feel wrong. All my life society has taught me that a man should marry have children and live a monogamous life, but what I felt was not that much different. I felt as if I could have all that and still have this secret sex life with the person I loved. I explained to my wife my thoughts on this fantasy, how I felt sex was just that sex. No strings attached no feeling involved and as long as we were both OK with it there was nothing wrong. We were not hurting anyone.

After the initial conversation we made the mistake of only touching the subject when we were fooling around. Up to this point it was just a fantasy nothing more than dirty talk and a bit of role playing. I think I enjoyed it more than she did, I would later come to find out this was true. Even though she played along she was still skeptical about the whole thing. A couple of months went by and I really wanted to make my fantasy come true.

At this time I was working as a security officer at a factory. The majority of my time during my shift consisted of me sitting in a booth with my supervisor who was only a few years older than me. We would just talk about all kinds of random stuff. One day… not sure how but my fantasy came up during a one of our conversations. This was the first time I had ever told anyone outside of my relationship about how I fantasized and how I felt about it. I told him how much I wanted to see my wife with another man, and how my conscience and morals made me feel like I was doing wrong. We talked about it for a while before he said to me something that launched my emotions into overdrive, he said to me “look man I don’t want you to take this the wrong way but I think your wife is beautiful” he then paused and said “I would love to be in your fantasy if you would allow me to” at that moment I felt a bit jealous and angry. This was the first time anyone had ever told me that they would love to fuck my wife, but at the same time I was really turned on by the fact that he wanted to. We both joked about it and left it alone.

A few days went by and then one night while my wife was her knees giving me a blow job I told her about my conversation with my supervisor. Her reaction was not what I expected, at first she thought I was kidding or just trying to talk dirty. I told her that I would really like to see this happen. It took me some time to get her to go along with it, but when she finally said OK I couldn’t wait.

The following day I decide to invite my supervisor to come over for a beer, he had no clue what my intentions were. The plan that night was for my wife to try and seduce him, she was nervous but since she knew that he liked her she wads ok to try. After a few beers she began to get closer to him and began to be flirtatious. As I watched this happen I could feel my cock begin to throb I was so excited. A few minutes of this went by then my wife pulled me into the kitchen and told me she couldn’t make a move, she felt nervous with me being there watching. I decided to give her some space and walked into the bedroom for a while. I stood by the door for a few minutes trying to listen to what was happening in the living room. When I finally decided to walk out the first thing I saw was my wife sitting on my supervisors lap and him sucking on her tits. At that moment I felt like could’ve exploded in my pants. My wife looked over at me with a look I could only describe as lustful, she told me to sit and watch. I sat their and watch her take off her shirt and yoga pants, he immediately pulled her panties off and began to eat her sweet pussy. As they began to fuck she asked me if this is want I wanted to see, to wich I responded yes many times. I watched them fuck until she told me to pull my cock out and started sucking it. We took turns fucking her pussy and mouth until we came. We all got dressed and called it a night I didn’t know what repercussions this night would have.

Since this experience we have had many other great sexual adventures and partners. Not all have been great but the majority have been full of naughty fun.

Just her body... her heart is mine.

She's onboard!

Woo-hoo. She's agreed to opening a Tumblr account. I'll continue to keep you all posted. (We'll probably do it this weekend).

Any symbols for Stags to wear?

So we've only just started this exciting journey. I've designed an emblem that represents our Stag & Vixen relationship, had it engraved onto a heart charm and presented it to my wife as a "Hotwife Proposal" as an anklet. (I happily announce she said "yes". I was more nervous over this proposal than when I first proposed to her 25 years ago).

I'd like to wear something that indicates that I'm married to a Hotwife without it being some kind of humiliating cuckold message. Perhaps a piece of matching jewellery that other Hotwife couples will recognise.

Is there any accepted jewellery for Stags, like anklets are for Hotwifes?

Wow! Very insightful.

Hotwifing Saves Marriages.

What is hotwifing and how can hotwifing save marriages? Contrary to pornography lore, hotwifing, hot wife or hotwife is not a physical description, it is a powerful emotionally supportive state of marriage. Any woman can be a hotwife regardless of their physical attributes. To define, a hotwife is a married woman in a strong committed marriage who makes herself sexually available to other men for hotwife dates either with or without her husband present. She does this with her husband’s full knowledge and consent. In hotwifing the husband yields the traditional role of sexual dominance to his wife. The husband always remains willingly and faithfully monogamous to his hotwife which is referred to as a stag husband. All of his sexual desires are focused on his wife having sex with other men and all of his pleasures are derived in the intimacy his hotwife provides him. Hotwives may wear very sexy clothing, usually purchased for them by their stag husbands and flirt outrageously with other men in order to achieve the hotwife date. Hotwives may openly display hotwife jewelry that lets men know they are married and available. She may desire her husbands help in arranging her dates. In any case the husband cedes the decision as to whom his hotwife has sex with. Hotwifing is not about humiliation or denigration, it is rather a form of loving emotional control both psychologically and physically. The hotwife always balances her husbands physical needs and wants and her psychological control of him in her role as the hotwife. A stag husband may desire to watch, participate or happily await the return of his hotwife from her date so that she can share all the details of it with him. The stag husband is given secondary, but equal, sexual importance. The hotwife builds and caresses his ego through her dominance and she never forgets to give her husband sexual satisfaction. So how can all of that save your marriage?

For couples that have experienced infidelity like we did, hotwifing allows them to renew their vows of commitment to each other and start their marriage from a new point together rather than apart. Most importantly it leaves the past in the past because in the new vows the couple commits to focusing exclusively on the future and each other.

Hotwifing gives women the ability to fulfill their wildest sexual fantasies with the encouragement of their husbands. Research has shown that many couples have hotwifing fantasies, but most of them are unable to express themselves because they fear what their partner might think of them. This single misunderstanding of sexual desire is one of the leading causes of the high divorce rate. For a woman one of the many potential benefits of hotwifing in a marriage is the open and uninhibited fulfillment all her sexual desires within the realm of real and honest marital commitment from her husband. It is really simple, stag husbands won’t cheat because they have no need or desire to. For men it boosts their understanding of female sexuality and it frees them of jealousy, which is the number one poison to relationships. Imagine a life free of jealousy and you will find true happiness and peaceful harmony in balance with unlimited love for one another.

Hotwifing empowers wives with freedom. The wife gets the freedom to enjoy the full experiences of sex. Women often desire and routinely fantasize about having sex with men other than their husbands. In the old taboo society they rarely got that chance because of deep seeded jealousy. When a man freely encourages his wife to enjoy the sexual pleasures of other men, he is undeniably giving her his heart and soul. He is directly displaying trust in their marriage. The husband enjoys the ability to control his normal feelings of jealousy so his wife can experience a new kind of intimacy free of guilt. This can be of great spiritual and emotional comfort to both the husband and wife.

Hotwifing frees wives from the jealousy of their husbands. It is a proven fact that jealousy is one of the major reasons many relationships fail. Insecurity is a leading contributing factor in disagreements and breakups that result in divorce. Hotwifing can help to rid the man of his feelings of jealousy, and when he gives his wife the freedom to be who she wants to be, she knows her husband has her best interests at heart, which helps her to increase her trust in him. Hotwifing creates trust and communication within relationships. Solid relationships are built upon trust and open communication. If you want to be in a happy, lasting relationship, you must ensure that you understand each other and also give each other the chance and freedom to be yourselves. These kinds of open and honest conversations increase trust and communication between the couple and bring them closer together. 

Hotwifing makes wives feel beautiful and desired. As a man, you will feel that you actually have the hottest woman on earth, and it’s every man’s desire to have a woman who is another man’s dream. Hotwifing gives men the perfect chance to appreciate how beautiful and desirable his woman is, which typically serves to increase both his love and respect for her. Ultimately hotwifing can help a mans libido. In some instances it has been known to assist a husband to overcome some forms of E.D.

Hotwifing boosts marital confidence. It gives women a real chance to express themselves to their husbands. When a woman knows that she has the support of her husband to do whatever she desires, she feels incredibly self confident about herself, which helps to change her perception of the traditional societal roles of husbands and wives

Hotwifing increases intimacy by giving both the husband and wife the perfect chance to gain important knowledge about themselves and each other that can help increase the intimacy of their connection. The new adventures and the wide variety of options dramatically deepen a couple’s marital bond making it strong, confident and trustworthy.

Hotwifing provides a greater sense of sexual confidence and satisfaction for both husband and wife. Hotwifing actually saves marriages. Yes you heard that right, it can save a marriage. I can tell you without hesitation that it saved mine even if it took my husband nearly 20 years to realize it. Hotwifing creates a perfect platform for couples to attain both mental and physical satisfaction. The wife is able to have sex with men she desires, which quenches her thirst that in a traditional monogamous marriages might otherwise lead her to affairs and betrayals.

Even after feeling the sting of betrayal couples can use hotwifing to regain trust, because hotwifing requires 100 percent honesty from both husband and wife. Honesty is the one element of hotwing that is non negotiable. Gone are the days of living secret lies and affairs. Women have said that while they knew their husband thought they were beautiful, being desired by other men was even more validating to them. “Your husband is supposed to think you’re beautiful.” When wives feel they are no longer perceived as beautiful they can become depressed and cheat to make themselves feel wanted again. Couples that can together successfully negotiate the absolute intimacy and unique boundaries provided by hotwifing can easily save even the most troubled, stale and dissatisfied marriage. It gives couples a new freedom to describe to each other their most base, deepest secrets and sexual desires. Couples say that after the wife has sex with other men, their own sex lives were newly fueled, and the couple had sex the way they did when they first started dating.

Scientifically the fuel to this fire may be found in the neurochemistry and biology of sperm competition. Hotwifing couples essentially subvert mechanisms intended to prevent illicit pregnancies, co-opting our basic biological processes to serve a role in fanning the flames of the marriage long past the time they might have normally subsided into a relationship where sex is ok on occasion but primarily viewed as not necessary by one or both. Sex at 40, 50, 60, 70 and beyond can take on new exciting prospects that can be of well documented health benefits for the couple. Research has shown that older couples with a healthy and frequent sex life are often happier and tend to live longer more fulfilling lives. Overall the positive effects of hotwifing in marriage are far greater than many people could possibly imagine.

Hotwifing is no longer a dirty little “secret” confined to swingers clubs by adventurous 30 somethings. It is rapidly becoming a mainstream norm for mature couples to help rescue their failing marriages and keep them forever secure.

#IAMHOTWIFE

Feel free to share and keep adding to the saved marriage story with your own success in hotwifing. Keep us posted though. Thanks

Whew... how I wish I would hear this from my wife.