I Thought This Was A Given For Most Of Us...

Yup. I just wish she'd use it.

Bring it on.

Let's change the memes

There are so many captioned images out there in circulation, but they are all running off one common thread, using the same formula:

They are fantasy situations intended for the stag/cuck to feed our hotwife fantasy. None are for the actual hotwife's enjoyment.

Let's change this!!!

Instead of re-posting other people's memes, let's rather make our own. Let's make them intended to send to our wives encouraging their hotwife desires. Let's make posts that we can send to our wives as naughty sext messages. It seems wrong to send her a pic of another hot woman propositioning me to be my hotwife. It should be of a big cock being offered up for her pleasure. (or similar)

We keep talking about how we do this Hotwifing thing out of compersion, that it's all for her enjoyment, but these memes are so obviously for our own pleasure feeding our own fantasies that they feel a little hypocritical. Let's start a new wave of memes - memes we can send to our wives. memes that they will enjoy and expand their thinking.

So, who's on board?

(BTW, I'm a graphic designer, so if you want me to make a few for you because you have the ideas, but not the tools to make them yourself, just pop me a message)

Absolutely.

Whew... how I wish I would hear this from my wife.

It would be awesome to know that someone is getting off to my posts.

Yes I wonder 🤔🤔🤔

How are you progressing toward actualizing the lifestyle in your marriage?

It's going well. It's still at fantasy stages, but she hasn't gotten bored with it and plays along nicely. Last week, I took my daughter to a school event. My wife worked late and we met back at home around 8pm. I asked if Robert (gym hotty) had come around while we were out. She ran with it completely, telling me how she had to kick him out early when I messaged that we were on our way home. I love my wife when she does stuff like this.

This week's fantasy: my wife has an online boyfriend.

So my fantasy right now is for my wife to have an online boyfriend. He's not a local so she can't meet him in person. She has progressed past the stage of texting and is now having video call sessions. I want to watch her, but she says she's too self-conscious to have me watching her as she can't let her guard down and just enjoy him. As a result, I let her do this in private.

She sets up her laptop in the bedroom and I have to leave. I sit in the next room. I try to listen in, but can barely hear anything through our thick walls. My imagination goes wild. This feels like it lasts a lifetime as I struggle to understand my feelings. I'm a bit jealous and feel left out, while still feeling very much part of this sexual encounter and incredibly arroused. It all feels so right because as her husband, I'm responsibly for her sexual satisfaction, and this is how I can give it to her - by not denying her this deep need she has. I even feel proud of my strength and trust.

When she's done, she calls me back in. The bed is covered in abandoned sex toys. She pushes them to the side and I get onto the bed. We kiss passionately and we have awesome sex. She's hot, sweaty and very wet. I reclaim her, but I'm certain she's imagining herself having sex with him as an extension of her online session. I'm the human touch she craves with him but couldn't have. When we're done, we cuddle, recommitting our love for each other. She tells me about what they did online, but a few dreamy pauses hints that she's not telling me everything. Clearly he releases a side to her she doesn't want to reveal me. Things she can't say or do with me since I'm her husband, loving life partner and father to her daughter. That's fine since I want her to enjoy her sexuality as much as she possibly can.

After this, she doesn't speak of him again all weekend. She's tucked him away. It's as if he doesn't exist and I'm, once again, the only man in her life.

This is how our Friday nights play out... and I don't even know what he looks like.

My sexy hotwife getting ready to be taken again with me watching!!

Kinky vs selfless

I'm still trying to understand my feelings and why I find the idea of my wife having sex with another man in front of me to be such a huge turn on.

At first I thought it was just another kinky fetish - something new to keep the sparks alive.

Then I thought it was the logical argument of "sperm competition" that makes the husband rise to the challenge of other attractive men.

But now I think it might be selflessness. It's less about the act of sex in front of me that I find arousing, but rather seeing her revel in arousal, pleasure and freedom of expression. To see her throw off the shackles of societal norms and just do what she wants.

This sexual freedom is a gift I can give her, rather than an act she performs for me.