That's My Lady - Go Take What You Want.

I think I need to take her shopping.

Yup. I just wish she'd use it.

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This is exactly how I picture that stud looking after a session with my wife. The next question is... who's going to clean up that mess?

This is amazing. There are some posts that I feel should be collated into a kind of official guide, and this is one of them. Well done and thanks for your effort.

Suggestive Dirty Talk Options

I find that the biggest obstacle in dirty talking is how to start it. That first thing you break the ice with. It can feel a bit awkward at first, but you’ll quickly get the hang of it. I’m a big fan of something I call the and then what technique. Basically you just start with a rather innocent question or statement and then evolve into the next natural thing that would happen. So you say something, and then pretend someone asks you “and then what” and then you answer that question.

So let’s pretend for a second you’re on top of your man, riding him cowgirl style and you want to spice it up a little.

Simply starting with a “you like the way I fuck you?” Is enough to break that awkward ice. He’ll answer yes of course. And then what? “then imagine how Mark (using names of actual guys you know works amazingly) would feel if I fucked him like this”

And then what?

“I would bounce up and down his cock just like this. He’ll get to feel how tight your wife’s pussy is”

And then what?

“then I want him to….”

You get it.

Reliving the past

My husband is very much into hearing stories about guys I used to fuck so this one is his favorite type of dirty talk. The way it goes is when I give him a handjob, blowjob or even ride him, I would say something like “you like the way I stroke your dick?” (asking if he likes it is always a great way to break the ice and initiate dirty talk without feeling awkward). This always gets me a very enthustiastic “YES!” to which I answer something like “this is exactly how I used to stroke [name of guy I used to fuck]’s cock…” (pause for dramatic effect) “except… His was a lot bigger than yours”. This line alone is usually enough to almost bring him over the edge, and if not it’s a great way to go into more details - how did it feel to stroke a much bigger dick, would you do it again, perhaps the guy used to get so horny that he would fuck you before you could finish the handjob, etc. Details, details, details, I can’t stress it enough.

Fair warning: not everyone is into hearing about your past! Make sure your husband is into that before springing this on him.

The commentator

This one is super easy because you don’t feel like you’re talking dirty, you’re just saying what’s on your mind. So the way it works is to watch porn with your man and simply make comments about the movie playing. Particularly about the guy and what you like about him. Compliment his dick, go into details about what you like about him, think out loud like “I really wish I could get fucked like that one day” / “look how big his dick is. He would make me cum so fast with that”

If you’ve fucked someone who reminds you of the guy, by all means tell your husband about it. Watching a porn with a guy who’s fucking some girl senseless and hearing your wife drop the bomb that the guy is the exact same size as some dude she dated in college is a sure way to make your husband look at the porn and all he will see is you being fucked right there on the screen. Very hot for both of you.

The yes ladder

This is a really simple but very effective technique that is easy for new dirty talkers and is guarantueed to drive him crazy.

In a nutshell what you do is ask him some questions that all leads to a yes. With each question the intensity in what you’re asking increases. There’s something crazy hot about this almost confessional way of talking dirty and being “forced to admit” your deepest fantasies. This is a great way to get yourself going, and to test out boundaries.

Optional: let him know ahead of time that you’re going to ask him questions and if he says no just once, he don’t get to cum. See what he’s willing to say yes to - just remember these are forced and horny yesses expressing what he likes in the heat of the moment. They don’t necessarily count in real life.

Example of a yes ladder.

“you like this huh”

“would you like it if i did this to another guy?”

“would you let me pick any guy i want?”

“what if i want a guy who’s bigger than you, would you allow that?”

“do you want him to fuck me hard?”

“what if he makes me cum really hard, can you handle that?”

“what if he makes me scream out his name, can you still handle it?”

“can I fuck him right here in our bed?”

“would you allow me to fuck someone I’ve dated before?”

“even if he really knows how to fuck me good?”

“what if I want him to fuck me while you wait in the other room, will you do that?”

You get it, just continue like this. Make the questions increasingly more provocative and test his boundaries, maybe even cross them if you know he can handle it.

The O-bomb

This method works extremely well if you’ve been teasing and playing with him for a while, keeping him right on the edge and he’s SO close now that you can make him cum any second.

All there is to it is asking him “do you want to cum?” he’ll answer yes almost pleading. And that’s when you drop the O-bomb. The O-bomb is some of the blue thought you put into his head and force him to cum to before he can even react.

For example: he just said yes he wants to cum. You then say “good. I want you to cum while you think of me cumming all over (name)’s big dick” and then you simply force him to cum before he even gets a chance to react. As he’s cumming you keep feeding him the thought over and over until he’s done. “yes, cum while you imagine how he makes me scream” etc.

The story

My personal favorite. One thing is to talk about imaginary stuff that could maybe some day happen. Another is to talk about stuff that actually already happened simply by telling him a story about some incredible hot sex you’ve had, either because the circumstances where hot, because the guy knew what he was doing and fucked your brains out or the guy happened to be seriously hung.

This is also super simple for you because you dont have to make anything up, you simply just tell what happened and describe the situation.

Don’t worry about elaborate descriptions or anything. Trust me he’ll ask you to elaborate when he hears something he likes. Just describe what happened and how it felt for you. Especially the “how it felt” part is very important.

The talk

Now in the safety rules i told you to talk about what he likes and dislikes without touching him so his arousal won’t reflect his answers. This time you do the exact opposite. Simply have a conversation about what he likes while slowly touching his dick. There’s something really hot about just talking while casually stroking him. And you’ll be able to measure his response simply by the way his dick throbs, which is incredibly hot.

How to start it: just casually ask him a question about his likes and as he answers you slowly start touching him while asking him more questions.

The close your eyes and imagine

Sometimes it can be a lot easier if your husband can’t see you when you talk dirty.

Example:

“close your eyes. Do you like my hands on. Your dick? Now imagine i was doing this to another guy. Stroking his big dick just like this. I would be so turned on knowing it isn’t you. My pussy would want to feel him inside me. Imagine how he would push me down and fuck me. Imagine how i would gasp when he starts to stretch me. How I would scream when he goes deeper than you.”

Do you see how the above also make use of the and then what technique to tell the next part of the story?

Putting it all together

Now, I know reading about it and actually doing it is two very different things. When you’re first starting out I actually advice you to plan out your dirty talking. This might not be as sexy and spontaneous, but while you’re still getting the hang of it it’s nice to be a little prepared so you don’t run out of things to say. I would also advice you to start off doing it while giving a handjob, as you will have a much easier time focusing on what to say than if you were giving a blowjob or having sex.

Let’s break the ice with an innocent “do you like the way it feels when I stroke your cock?”

When he says yes I would then say something like “good…. Now close your eyes” wait for him to do it.

Then: “would you like it if I did this to another man?” - “yes”

Then: “you know, [name of ex / bull / fantasy guy] used to love when I stroked his dick. Of course his was a lot bigger than yours, I could barely close my hand around it”

Then: “do you like that, thinking about how I used to stroke his big cock?” - “yes”

Then: “having that big cock in my hands always made me feel so tiny and horny”

Then: “do you want me to show you how I used to suck him?” - “yes”. Then put all your effort into giving the best head you have ever given.

Then: “mmh… Can you imagine how good his cock must have felt in my mouth? I used to suck him just like that until he came in my mouth”.

By now he should be getting pretty close, so it’s time put on the finale. Ask him “do you want to cum?” - “yes”. Start stroking him faster.

“tell me…” - make him say that he wants to cum.

“I want you to cum while you think of me getting fucked by [name]. He would always make me cum so hard. Imagine how I used to scream his name” - if you really want to go all out you could start moaning the name of this other guy, whether that’s your bull, an old fling, your husband’s friend or who ever you like to fantasize about.

Do you see how easy it flows from do you like it, to imagine it’s someone else, to describing how you used to do or would do it on someone else?

With time it will come naturally and you won’t have to plan ahead, but to begin with it’s nice to have an idea of how you want to start it, how you want to end it and how you bridge that gap.

There you have it. My secrets to driving your husband wild. Now go… Make him lose it.

This is an awesome story. I so wish it was mine.

The beginning

When I first brought up this fantasy to my wife I think she was confused. Her concern was why would I want to share her with another man. I must admit, I kinda felt the same way. I mean I wasn’t even sure why I felt the need to see her with someone else. The thought of someone’s hands all over her body would make me feel all kinds of mixed feelings. On one hand, the naughtiness and lustfull feeling of my fantasy coming true would get me really excited, but on the other hand the taboo feeling and the way people would judge us if anyone found out would scare and make me feel wrong. All my life society has taught me that a man should marry have children and live a monogamous life, but what I felt was not that much different. I felt as if I could have all that and still have this secret sex life with the person I loved. I explained to my wife my thoughts on this fantasy, how I felt sex was just that sex. No strings attached no feeling involved and as long as we were both OK with it there was nothing wrong. We were not hurting anyone.

After the initial conversation we made the mistake of only touching the subject when we were fooling around. Up to this point it was just a fantasy nothing more than dirty talk and a bit of role playing. I think I enjoyed it more than she did, I would later come to find out this was true. Even though she played along she was still skeptical about the whole thing. A couple of months went by and I really wanted to make my fantasy come true.

At this time I was working as a security officer at a factory. The majority of my time during my shift consisted of me sitting in a booth with my supervisor who was only a few years older than me. We would just talk about all kinds of random stuff. One day… not sure how but my fantasy came up during a one of our conversations. This was the first time I had ever told anyone outside of my relationship about how I fantasized and how I felt about it. I told him how much I wanted to see my wife with another man, and how my conscience and morals made me feel like I was doing wrong. We talked about it for a while before he said to me something that launched my emotions into overdrive, he said to me “look man I don’t want you to take this the wrong way but I think your wife is beautiful” he then paused and said “I would love to be in your fantasy if you would allow me to” at that moment I felt a bit jealous and angry. This was the first time anyone had ever told me that they would love to fuck my wife, but at the same time I was really turned on by the fact that he wanted to. We both joked about it and left it alone.

A few days went by and then one night while my wife was her knees giving me a blow job I told her about my conversation with my supervisor. Her reaction was not what I expected, at first she thought I was kidding or just trying to talk dirty. I told her that I would really like to see this happen. It took me some time to get her to go along with it, but when she finally said OK I couldn’t wait.

The following day I decide to invite my supervisor to come over for a beer, he had no clue what my intentions were. The plan that night was for my wife to try and seduce him, she was nervous but since she knew that he liked her she wads ok to try. After a few beers she began to get closer to him and began to be flirtatious. As I watched this happen I could feel my cock begin to throb I was so excited. A few minutes of this went by then my wife pulled me into the kitchen and told me she couldn’t make a move, she felt nervous with me being there watching. I decided to give her some space and walked into the bedroom for a while. I stood by the door for a few minutes trying to listen to what was happening in the living room. When I finally decided to walk out the first thing I saw was my wife sitting on my supervisors lap and him sucking on her tits. At that moment I felt like could’ve exploded in my pants. My wife looked over at me with a look I could only describe as lustful, she told me to sit and watch. I sat their and watch her take off her shirt and yoga pants, he immediately pulled her panties off and began to eat her sweet pussy. As they began to fuck she asked me if this is want I wanted to see, to wich I responded yes many times. I watched them fuck until she told me to pull my cock out and started sucking it. We took turns fucking her pussy and mouth until we came. We all got dressed and called it a night I didn’t know what repercussions this night would have.

Since this experience we have had many other great sexual adventures and partners. Not all have been great but the majority have been full of naughty fun.

The best of both worlds.

Let's change the memes

There are so many captioned images out there in circulation, but they are all running off one common thread, using the same formula:

They are fantasy situations intended for the stag/cuck to feed our hotwife fantasy. None are for the actual hotwife's enjoyment.

Let's change this!!!

Instead of re-posting other people's memes, let's rather make our own. Let's make them intended to send to our wives encouraging their hotwife desires. Let's make posts that we can send to our wives as naughty sext messages. It seems wrong to send her a pic of another hot woman propositioning me to be my hotwife. It should be of a big cock being offered up for her pleasure. (or similar)

We keep talking about how we do this Hotwifing thing out of compersion, that it's all for her enjoyment, but these memes are so obviously for our own pleasure feeding our own fantasies that they feel a little hypocritical. Let's start a new wave of memes - memes we can send to our wives. memes that they will enjoy and expand their thinking.

So, who's on board?

(BTW, I'm a graphic designer, so if you want me to make a few for you because you have the ideas, but not the tools to make them yourself, just pop me a message)

I really do enjoy your posts. Thanks.

Hello to all the followers of my blog, from today I thought I would post an article about the hotwife lifestyle every day. Today's article is:

What is a Hotwife?

The term “hotwife” has a specific meaning in the context of certain adult, sexual, and relationship dynamics. It refers to a married woman who has the freedom and permission in her marriage to pursue sexual relationships with other men, often with the knowledge and encouragement of her husband. This lifestyle choice is typically consensual and part of a mutual agreement or understanding within the marriage.

The concept of a hotwife is often associated with the broader context of non-monogamous relationships and can be seen as a form of open marriage or ethical non-monogamy.It's important to note that such lifestyles and choices are deeply personal and vary greatly between individuals and couples. They are based on the principles of consent, open communication, and mutual respect.

As with any relationship dynamic, the key elements for a healthy and respectful hotwife arrangement are clear communication, consent, and established boundaries that all parties agree to and are comfortable with. It is also important to approach such topics with sensitivity and respect for individual privacy and choices.

Introducing Your Partner to Hotwifing

The concept of hotwifing, where a married woman engages in sexual relationships outside her marriage with the consent of her husband, can be an exciting and fulfilling aspect of a couple's sex life. However, introducing this idea into your relationship requires careful consideration, respect, and open communication. This article provides guidance on how to approach the topic with your wife in a sensitive and respectful manner.

Step 1: Self-Reflection and Research

Before initiating the conversation, it's crucial to understand your motivations and the implications of a hotwife lifestyle. Research the lifestyle thoroughly. Understand the emotional and physical aspects, and consider how it aligns with your current relationship dynamics. Being informed will help you address any questions or concerns your wife may have.

Step 2: Open and Honest Communication

The key to introducing your wife to the idea of hotwifing is open, honest, and non-confrontational communication. Choose a comfortable and private setting to bring up the topic. It’s important to approach the conversation with sensitivity, ensuring that your wife feels safe and respected.

Step 3: Express Your Feelings and Desires

Clearly and calmly express your desires and the reasons why you think hotwifing might be an exciting addition to your relationship. Be honest about your feelings, but also be prepared to listen. This isn’t about convincing or persuading; it’s about sharing a part of yourself.

Step 4: Listen to Her Perspective

After you've shared your thoughts, give your wife the space to express her feelings. Listen attentively and respectfully. Her initial reaction might be one of surprise, and she may need time to process the information.

Step 5: Address Concerns and Misconceptions

Be prepared to answer questions and address any concerns she may have. It’s likely that she will have many, ranging from the impact on your relationship to issues of jealousy and safety. Be patient and provide reassurance.

Step 6: Emphasize the Importance of Consent

Make it clear that her consent and comfort are your top priorities. Reiterate that exploring this lifestyle is only an option if she is genuinely interested and comfortable with the idea. There should be no pressure or expectation for her to agree.

Step 7: Take It Slow

If your wife shows interest, it’s important to take things slowly. Start by discussing boundaries and rules. Communication should be ongoing and transparent. You might want to begin by simply fantasizing together during intimacy before moving on to any real-world actions.

Step 8: Continual Check-ins

Regular check-ins are vital. These conversations should focus on her feelings, experiences, and comfort level. Ensure that she feels she can always say no and that she has control over how and when to proceed or stop.

Step 9: Professional Advice

Consider seeking advice from a relationship counselor, especially one experienced in consensual non-monogamy. They can provide a safe space to explore these ideas and address any underlying relationship dynamics.

Conclusion

Introducing your wife to the concept of hotwifing requires a foundation of trust, mutual respect, and open communication. It's a journey that, if pursued, should be embarked upon together, with both partners feeling valued and heard. Remember, the goal is to enhance your relationship and explore new dimensions of your sexuality in a safe, consensual, and enjoyable way.

MiriamHotwife

Our Gym Hottie game

So this morning I challenged my wife to strike up a conversation with her Gym Hottie and swap names. To get his name and give him hers. No more being complete strangers, just watching him across the room.

She said she's game and will do it!

I'm so aroused and excited! I love my wife...

A little sexy fun on holiday

My did something amazing this weekend. We were away on holiday (whole family came along, so nothing naughty could really happen), but on the Saturday night, we were making love and she starts telling me about this guy she met at the bar that afternoon while I was out cycling. How she flirted with him and pressed her body up against him and felt his hard cock push back. How she brought him back to our cabin and let him fuck her hard and then sent him away before I returned.

I know it was just a story and it hadn't actually happened, but hearing her talk about it was so amazingly arousing. Needless to say I didn't last long. This was really fantastic and is sitting in my mind, days later.

I have an awesome wife and love her to bits!

I can't wait for this to progress to the real thing, but I'm in no rush and this has to come from her - I can't push her to do something she's not ready to do.

Does anyone have any advice or ideas to help smooth along the process?