In My Opinion, And You Can Agree Or Disagree I Don’t Care, “aging Up/aging Down” Aren’t A Thing.

I forgor. to reblog the post.

Anywayyyyyyyy my main dr is my NCT DREAM dr I’m stealing Jaemin’s entire identity lol (I am uncreative and relate to him) and my s/o is Renjun but it’s an open relationship because why be in group of pretty men and only kiss 1. I’m shifting to early 2021 (no pandemic) and yeah. Other things I changed:

Governments in general aren’t absolute shit

SM (company nct is under) doesn’t suck

Mark never left 2018-2020

same discography

No other nct groups exist (only bc if they did i would be in multiple)

Yeah!!

(Help that's so real, I was wondering if you just didn't wanna answer but it would have been fine)

Hell yeah I love that🪄💫 Pretty men kisser is so real😔 and I agree with literally everything that sounds so fun‼️😋

Pink Pick-A-Pile (from 08.28.2022)

LMFAOOA IDK WHY I USED THIS PICTURE!!

but before reading, please realize when i made this, i was in a My Hero Academia reality shifting community. Currently, I am no active there, so if you find these posts,,, yes they were me. LMFAOOAOAO and some of this blog has been edited for my sanity.

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hi lovelies!! changing what i did last time for a pick a pile, im going to be doing a more motivational one!

by no means does it mean im going to be all nice, im just going to praise you and all that you and all you’re doing. its just gonna be less about WHAT and more about HOW you can change it and also motivating you to do more/what other things you can do to help you shift faster (if you’re still working to your first attempt) or how you can positively change your shifting journey. also you guys know i can be kind of blunt and then the alice in wonderland tarot is BRUTAL but im using the White Numen deck this time (which honestly is my nsfw deck LFMAJSUHNTE BUT I WANT AN EXCUSE TO USE THEM FOR A PICK A PILE!!!)

breathe in...

and out...

now please, pick a pile or two

Pile 1

Hello pile 1 and welcome to your reading!!

confirmation for this pile: 1111, angel numbers, reunions, supernatural dr, stability, not changing ‘im not seeing results’, pisces, water signs, christmas/yule, holidays, “its just out my reach”, unstable perspectives, cows, animals, outdoors

cards: the hanged man, knight of cups (r), six of wands, ace of swords

not even gonna lie, at first i got 11 cards.., i shuffled the 11 i got to make this pile smaller so i dont drain myself during the first pile jaoishtioeh

this pile is in either a state of waiting or a state of wanting change. you’re waiting for it and you’re working on it but its almost tiring? maybe you’re loosing the hope, motivation, the fire under your ass because of this waiting. i just remember that one blog that said that sometimes shifting is like a waiting game, i feel like thats the place you guys are right now.

in the kindest way possible, your emotions are out of wack. i feel a lot of stress, anger, hurt and just instability in emotions. maybe doing shadow work, vent art, sharing your feelings, poetry, etc. dont avoid these feelings because once you confront them and move on with life, it will be much easier.

again with being creative and venting in a not natural (?) way, ace of swords and six of wands is kinda like a ‘yeah do this.’ a nod in the right direction. being creative and changing the way you develop and think about things will help you a lot. you got this babes! you’ll get the big change you want when you start thinking outside the box. dont do the things you always used to do, but change the way you approach them and how you look at things. glass half full not half empty.

thank you pile one! i hope this resonates!! 

Pile 2

hello pile 2! and welcome to your pile

heres confirmation:  burning bridges, coming to an end, breaking negative cycles, “i know how it is”, not trustworthy, being pissed off and arrogant, 555, spiritual connection (soulmates, twin flames, etc), 888,666, snakes

cards: Temperance, the hierophant (r), 10 of wands (r), the lovers

okay wow the first thing i have to say is so many major arcana cards - literally i thought the would ALL be major

this pile seems burnt out in a way (no pun intended based on the pile image) and you need to find a way to light your flame again. dont give up, and dont be scared to ask for help. if you’re struggling with spiritual beliefs/shifting/your journey PLEASE ask for help. dont cry in silence. break free from any cycle you’ve been in. cleanse your energy and the energies around you. break ties with people who aren’t helping you in any way. who are negative in your life. hold your ground and speak what you think and know is right. dont let someone else control and manipulate you in any way. be powerful, because you are. you’re in control.

with temperance and the lovers coming out i feel like this is almost why you’re shifting/what keeps moving you to shift. its moving into your god/goddess energy. being that powerful being you are. being assertive and knowing what is right for you. when you’re shifting/thinking about shifting/making an attempt remember why you started. remember your past self and who you want to be in the future, and who you want to surround yourself with. the people? are they different? know how to control and change the situation if you need it. you got this okay? you’ll see who you want to see and be who you want to be.

thank you pile 2! i hope this resonated

Pile 3

hi pile 3!! literally accidently typed 333 so anyways

confirmation: 333, childhood, hello kitty, red, actions speak louder than words but its more about the effect on you life rather than what they did, water, ocean, 555, penguins

cards: five of wands (r), three of pentacles (r), death (r), the chariot, five of wands

okay first things first we have 3 reversed cards and thats like kinda?? because pile 3, accidently typing 333 and three of pentacles?? but lets move on

you’re moving away from hardships and being stuck in your own head and coming to terms and being at peace with your cr/or. you’re letting go of the things that made it bad and accepting them as memories and just things to hold on to and never let go of. more about the people than what they did.

are your goals not written out pile 3 and your true intentions behind them? or are you just not working to them? you may know your goals and not work to them, are you burnt out? take a break then! take care of yourself. you guys are the stubborn time but you need to listen to me when i say TAKE A BREAK ITS FOR THE BETTER! you may even shift on your break. you need to take a moment and be still because it will actually boost you forwards in the long run. sometime taking breaks helps you move forward. being able to take time and relight your candle. this will lead you to a peaceful and good ending. you can see the shore and you’re about to pull up.

honestly five of wands seems out of place to me, i ask spirit to give me cards in a way thats comprehensive and makes sense with the cards near/around it. it represents rivalry, conflict in a way. maybe spirit is saying on this break fix your relationship with someone, stop fighting and going back and forth. hold your ground, agree to disagree, and let go. also shifting isnt a race or competition, so dont rush it or you can get thrown off course.

thank you pile 3! i hope this resonated

Pile 4

confirmation: water, water signs, oceans, harmony, boobies , feet?? IN WATER??, “the universe must have divined this” - dove cameron’s ‘boyfriend’, bo burnham, “i gotta get out of here”, deities, blue, white, red, AMERICA

cards: two of wands, four of cups, six of swords, three of cups

okay so something i noticed right off the bat is there is a LOT of water i mean even in a card that supposedly represents air signs, shes in a boat in the water. anyways you guys are PLANNING unlike the last pile, you guys have a set out plan, goals, and reasoning. now you have a decision to make, are you going to look to external sources or work with yourself? i was called to get an oracle card bc you guys are different.

I got two cards actually, a time to give rather than take, new moon in virgo and a time for healing balsmic moon. so these cards, surprisingly, are saying the same thing. a change is coming, it may seem like its slow but its coming. i promise, and it will be surprising when it happens.

back again to tarot, because i actually only got to one card(!!) you guys are reevaluating and reflecting, i feel like you have been for a while, thinking and dwelling on the things you can change, have changed, and how far you’ve come (NOT GOODBYE BY BO BURNHAM COMING ON IM DONE walks out door ok im back.. but anyways) stop romanizing everything and look at it in worse case scenario vs best case. the best case was already stated, now look at it as the worst thing that can happen. make that like the fuel for your flame and dont let it hold you back, let it drive you forward. this is where six of swords comes in, you ARE moving forward and you will keep moving forward the more you do. you will heal (ORACLE!!) and you are healing. six of swords can also be interpreted as an escape. maybe shifting is an escape for you?

for the last card, 3 of cups is all about harmony, friendships and community.

i know a lot of people (AND I MEAN A LOT OF PEOPLE) have left the MHA shifting community recently, but keep close to the ones you need/have made an impact on you. maybe they’re leaving/have left but yk what you do? ask around. search and find. it reminds me of a bible verse “ask and you shall gain” or something like that. keep close to those who help you, keep the positive in your life not the negative. keep friends close okay? and talk to them, dont let go.

okay pile 4!! thats it, hope this resonated and you have a great day! also little side note, throughout writing this pick a pile i saw the lovers. so that may be important to some of you. im not putting it in confirmation because if you get this far down that means something for you.

— SCRIPTING YOUR FAMILY. ( i swear it can work even if they’re not dead )

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— DISCLAIMER. script what you want !! this isn’t judgement or an attempt to convince you of anything. i still have ded family in some realities, don’t worry :^)

alright, so a lot of shifters skip right to scripting their DR families straight into the afterlife. gone, nonexistent, dead and buried. this is for a myriad of reasons, though for me and everyone i know, it has a lot to do with backstory, or the idea that family ties are going to cramp our style or get in the way of our dream life and the plot. but, for anyone who’s interested, let’s flip the script (pun intended) and talk about why creating an original, unique family for your desired reality can actually make your experience richer, more meaningful, and a whole lot more fun !!

WHY KEEP THE FAMILY DRAMA?

first off, let’s address the elephant in the room: family can be a lot. but scripting them out entirely can be like throwing the baby out with the bathwater !! there’s tons of potential to consider there. a family offers plenty of opportunities to add depth, lore, and a whole bunch of emotional layers to your DR. think about it—what’s a life without a little family drama, a bit of cozy love, or even a quirky aunt who always brings the laughs? it doesn’t have to be a big, happy family—it can be whatever you feel like you need, whatever fits

HOW TO BUILD YOUR DR FAMILY

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— SIZE MATTERS ( but not really ) .　　. 　 ˚　. when scripting your DR family, start with size. do you want a big, loud, chaotic family with siblings running around, or something closer to a small, tight-knit crew? maybe you’re an only child who’s the apple of your parents’ eyes, or perhaps you’re in the middle of a bustling household where everyone’s got a role to play. there’s no right or wrong—just what feels right for you, and what you feel like you need in that specific DR

— CHOOSE YOUR ROLES .　　. 　 ˚　. who’s in your family? a loving, supportive mom who’s your biggest cheerleader? a cool dad who’s kind of your best friend? maybe a set of grandparents who tell you the most insane stories about their youth, or a mouthy sibling who keeps you on your toes. think about the roles that would enrich your life in your DR. remember, these people are there to support your life, not unnecessarily complicate it

— CONNECTIONS .　　. 　 ˚　. now, here’s where it gets fun (in my opinion): your relationships. are you super close with your mom, the kind of close where you can endlessly gossip and have deep life talks? is your dad the type to give you space but always manages to have your back when it counts? maybe you have an insane sibling rivalry that spans over a decade. the relationships you script can add so much flavor to your DR—it’s all about creating connections that resonate with you, and support you in all the ways you want to be supported

FITTING INTO THE LORE ( making it make sense )

if your DR has a specific lore or world-building element ( Hogwarts, Marvel, etc. you know ), weave your family into it !! maybe your mom’s a legendary witch, or your dad’s a top Auror. perhaps your family runs a magical bakery, or you’re part of an ancient lineage with a complex magical or academic heritage. the point is, your family should feel at home in your DR, adding to the story rather than feeling like an afterthought that detracts from it

SOME IDEAS FOR YOUR DR FAMILY

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( just to get you started )

— MAGICAL LINEAGE .　　. 　 ˚　. your family has a rich history tied to your DR’s lore—maybe you’re descendants of a powerful wizard, or you’ve got a long-standing feud with another powerful family. drama

— ECCENTRIC GROUP .　　. 　 ˚　. a family full of eccentric or seemingly ridiculous people—a dad who invents magical gadgets, a mom who’s an expert potion maker, siblings who are always concocting some mischievous or downright strange plans

— TIGHT-KNIT TEAM .　　. 　 ˚　. quiet and likely unassuming—just a small, close family who’s been through everything together together. you lot might not be flashy, but their love and support are solid and you know you can always count on them

— CHAOTIC CLAN .　　. 　 ˚　. a massive, bustling family where everyone’s got their own unique role. maybe you’ve got siblings with vastly different personalities, parents that always have something insane to say, or aunts and uncles hailing from faraway places. family gatherings are always an ordeal

DON’T STRESS THE DETAILS

here’s the deal: scripting your DR family is about enhancing your experience, not stressing you out or detracting from all the things you wanna do. whether you want to create a sprawling family tree or just script a few key members, it’s all up to you. and remember—at the end of the day, your DR is personal to you. it’s about what makes you feel connected, supported, and ready to dive into the adventure of a lifetime

so, build that dream family !! whether they’re magical, mundane, or somewhere in between, totally supportive or bringing never-ending drama to spice things up, at the end of the day they’re there to add richness and depth to your DR. and trust me, it’ll make your journey all the more special if you let it !!

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My bad g

very does not look like a word

⦻ ⋮ Creepypasta DR moodboard ⸝⸝

𓎟𓎟 “would you die tonight for love?” ♪

hi just discovered a shifting superpower and it's called "going into the void state visualising what happened BEFORE you shift into the dr"

for example i always shift to when i wake up in my dr, so i was in the void state, imagining what happened while i was falling asleep

TELL ME WHY i literally got VIOLENT FLASHBACKS, LIKE ACTUAL MEMORIES, OF WHAT HAPPENED IN THE DR BEFORE I FELL ASLEEP

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and it felt so much like i was already in my dr, like i was my dr self thinking about a memory, and i could see everything and EVERYTHING AND—

and then i got pulled out of it because i REALISED i felt like i was in my DR, and it kinda felt like that one transition where everything zooms out and then everything is just. black.

but MY EYES DIDN'T OPEN, EVERYTHING WAS LITERALLY JUST BLACK. i've been in the void state but THIS WAS DIFFERENT. it wasn't just a meditative state, it felt like i was for real in a completely black space, no up or down, nothing tangible around me

and then i got pulled back into the CR.

i will now be assuming that i'm a prophet and i only didn't manage to shift this time so that i could share the method with the masses and then shift the next time

what am i calling it?

THE RECAP METHOD

how do you use the method?

pick any number to count to. the number isn't what matters, what matters is your intention; "i will enter the void state once i count to this number." if you get distracted/reminded of the CR while counting, start over.

you're in the void state. don't think about it too hard, don't go "wow i can't feel anything," because then you'll likely start to feel again, which will ground you back in reality and out of the void state.

while in the void state, pick a scenario for how you got to the point you'll shift to. play it out in your mind, visualise it; did you drink hot cocoa in the kitchen before coming back to your room for the night? was it tasty? did you talk to anyone? how were you feeling emotionally? did you fall asleep immediately? did you toss and turn? are you in bed alone, or with someone else, or with a pet? or maybe you're not in your own bedroom at all — you're with your S/O after a freaky (or not) night, or you're in the hospital after a car accident. it doesn't matter where you are, just make sure you know how you got there. you're not imagining, it already happened, it is done; you're REMEMBERING.

things might start feeling really real around here. that's fine. focus on the present; you're already in your DR, it's no big deal, you already shifted. right? right.

anyway, once you get to the target point, focus on that. affirm where, when, and with who you are, how you're feeling emotionally, etc. (for me, i affirm that i'm asleep in x place in my dr, so i'll wake up naturally when the shift is done). get in the mind of your DR self, and know, in your heart, that there is no difference between your DR and CR self, because you're already in your DR right now.

it's just normal shifting from here. ground yourself in your DR. rant to your subconscious about what you have planned for the day, how you feel about the people in your life, if you're excited for the outfit you preplanned today, if you hope it'll be a sunny day or maybe a rainy one. hell, use the 54321 method for panic attacks and tell yourself what you're seeing/feeling instead of checking if you're in your DR/checking the 3D for validation. just be your DR self, and your DR will appear around you. congratulations, you've shifted.

(a/n): this is based heavily off my two best shifts, as well as @sheeezu's method. if you ask me, the key to shifting is literally just being your DR self (which @stilljuststardust explained better in their post). that's why this method (remembering) worked so well for me, that's why my last shift happened while i was thinking about my childhood in my DR, and that's why many people tell you to imagine being your DR self/getting in your DR self's mind so you can shift. someone once said your 4D/consciousness shifts first and the 3D/surroundings/senses follows after, and i think that's the best way to put it. of course, what works for me might not work for everyone, this is just based on my personal experience.

Oh dear mutual, thank you for asking. Dearly. (I'm about to yap)

Well first I actually wanna know where to start because rn I'm focused on my sk8 dr bc... yes [drawing myself bc I think I'm sooo cool in my dr whatever whatever]

But! I wanna hear what thee wishes to hear :]

NEBULA'S REASONS TO SHIFT ; #3

✧ My love interests/s/o in my DRs! I adore them dearly

NEBULA'S REASONS TO SHIFT ; #6

✧ To reunite with old friends

what is up my dudes/dudettes/dud(preference)

legit just gonna tag who comes to mind (sorry if ya didn't wanna get tagged you have my full permission to hire a hitman or sum)

@realityshifter138 @stvrl0st @mastershifter666 @nyxtheghostboy @xandershifts @yumeshiftss @elysias-realm @ anyone else who sees this :9)

 A friend threatened me to repost so I will!

Basically, there r tons of fake asses on tumblr who just want comments and followers, so someone started this to see who's actually a good friend. Everyone I tag better repost (and tag other people and preferably threaten them in a creative way as well) bc I'm high on caffeine and newfound lesbianism and will resort to violence.

@ey-theys-was-coronas

@fangirlhehe

I would tag more people but they're the only ones I've really interacted with-

How does your DR family perceive you?

- PICK A CARD READING MADE BY @DAISYS-REALITY -

This was requested by one of my followers, I hope you enjoy it! 🤍 DR stands for desired reality and your 'DR family' ist the family you have in your desired reality. I guess you could also read this while having your 'normal' family in mind. But I was focusing more on the reality shifters and their DR families. If you like to read more PAC readings from me, feel free to check out my masterlist ! Also, for your information, I don't own any of these beautiful pictures, I just edited them a little.

PILE 1

six of pentacles + lamb + dragonfly + blue chalcedony 

Hello pile one! Your DR family sees you as a very giving person, someone who is generous with their time and energy (also perhaps with your money and talents). To them, you seem to like sharing what you have with your family. You invest in what you believe and in the future you want to live in. You seem very harmonious and very balanced. Or you bring harmony and balance to your DR family in their opinion. They appreciate you very much. Because there is this equal give and take energy with you, your DR family might also enjoy giving to you (ex. through financial support or gifts). You seem like someone who embraces the things coming into your life with such grace and ease - they might admire that aspect of yours. In their opinion, you’re a good listener and like a good friend to them (perhaps to your DR siblings if you have any). You never seem secretive with advice and you seem quite socially aware. You usually are very open with others/them as well but you also know when you should not overstep. They notice that you seem to enjoy the finer things in life. You might be quite sensitive. But the connection with you feels usually very intimate but also kind of laid-back if that makes sense. Your DR family also notices that you love making others feel comfortable and at home which they appreciate. You inspire them with your generosity. In their eyes, you have a kind heart and are very sincere. You usually don’t ask them for anything in return openly but they always want to give back to you.

Other aspects they see in you are that you are very peaceful, patient with them and honest. They are usually grateful for your advice because they see you as someone wise or someone who has an inner knowing. But you’re also good at listening to them (/to their problems etc.). They feel that you’re very gentle with them. When you’re out of balance they can see that you sometimes get quiet and timid and easily concerned with things. You might overthink a lot too in those times.

They also notice that you have a very active mind. You seem to be always mentally moving and changing. Sometimes your mind might be too busy and you struggle with concentrating but usually seem to have a very good perception of things! You also awaken a certain sense of wonder in your DR family with your energy. They think you are good at creating illusions - you might be very good at keeping a facade or it might be difficult at times for your DR family to clearly see what’s going on inside your head lol. Sometimes you seem restless, other times you seem still; sometimes you seem very dreamy and other times crystal clear. It’s a bit confusing for them. You might often be the one who can bring peaceful resolutions to conflicts whether inside or outside your DR family. It’s like you have this peaceful assertiveness and are very endurant. You’re good at guiding others and helping them with problems of negative thinking or self-doubt or emotional turmoil. Overall, you are someone joyful and very magical to them! They are grateful to have you and they respect you a lot as a person. ❤️

PILE 2

six of swords + hummingbird + green calcite 

Hello pile two! In your DR family’s eyes, you seem to go through a certain transition in your life. Times change with the rise of the tide and right now you’re doing your best to stay afloat. They acknowledge that. They know that change is not always easy (for you) but they think this is a necessary transition in your life. You sometimes go the difficult path to search for something ‘bigger’, something you strongly believe in. It’s not easy to describe but you seem to have this inner goal in mind which you’re striving for. They can see that new or strange environments might leave you feeling adrift especially without your core humans and the comfort of home. They want you to know that you can always come home to yourself when you start to feel overwhelmed. Of course you also always come to your DR home but they want you to know that leaving your home base will allow you to grow and expand in unexpected ways! Opportunities might have been limited in the past in your DR, and you ventured off to new territory to better your future. That’s how they see it. New land means a new perspective, as the environment shapes us into who we are.

Your DR family might think that traveling overall is a healing experience to you. Because you’re the type of person who focuses on the journey rather than the destination. They see you as someone who carries a mostly active, assertive but not aggressive energy! They might also just see you enjoying spending time outdoors.They think you are very self-accepting and easygoing but someone who is in the process of healing or focuses very much on healing and self-improvement. To them, you are a future-oriented person. Although you’ve gone through your fair share of challenges, you still choose to remain optimistic about what is yet to come. THey truly admire that aspect of yours. With your presence, you make them feel just as calm and mellow as you are. You appear not only positive but also very enthusiastic. You seem to have an endless amount of energy within you. Which might baffle them at times but they think you just learned how to nourish yourself correctly and how to gain your energy back - like for example through nature, creative activities or maybe even through exploring spirituality! The way you live your life seems sweet/abundant and your DR family thinks that the moments they spent together with you are worth savoring. 

Other aspects of yours which they notice are that you’re smart, curious and you love to learn! But sometimes when you’re in a bad mood, you can get a little pushy/insistent and maybe even sharp with your words (- which can hurt quite a bit). However, all in all, you provide energy and vitality for your DR family. But also calmness and compassion with your loving energy. They truly appreciate that. You have a healing energy and you improve the communication within your DR family bringing also transition from a stagnant to a positive situation. Your DR family cares a lot about you and is very grateful for your existence in their life. ❤️

PILE 3

ace of cups, the hierophant + dragon + green aventurine

Hello pile three! Your DR family sees you as this very creative and emotionally expressive person. Someone who flows freely, if that makes sense. They think you spread love in your DR family and always bring in refreshing opportunities. In their eyes, you have this desire for compassion and connection which inspires you to lend a helping hand to those in need. I feel like your DR family might not be very expressive or openly affectionate, perhaps that’s why they appreciate those traits so much more. They enjoy seeing you sharing your gifts with the world because you become much more open about who you are and the unique talents that you bring. They think your energy is contagious. You seem very generous with your affection and compassionate to them. Some might even think/assume you’re spiritually aware or even blessed. You inspire them. You seem to be always brimming with ideas and you can’t wait to put them into action. You have a kind of innocent vibe in certain aspects. It could also mean that some people of your DR family see you as somewhat naive maybe.

However, they also notice that you are pretty good at keeping your emotions contained, but also you don’t seem to be afraid to express yourself where appropriate.They think you are not cynical about the nature of humanity (like perhaps some other members of your family). Your DR family perceives you as someone who loves what they do for a living. Another thing they appreciate is that you treat the elderly with kindness!

You might be quite conventional actually. You might honor the traditions or rituals in your DR family and in your life. They like that about you. Those traditions might even help you feel grounded. They think you might be drawn towards joining a group or community that has certain rules you’d have to follow. And they believe that by joining, you broaden your scope and expand your knowledge. They assume that being a part of a community allows you to feel a sense of acceptance, unity and even an identity. You might be someone who likes looking at your lineage of ancestors or religion and doing research to shine light on the wisdom of the past. You seem to like absorbing as much information as you can. In their perception of you, you are wise and value your personal values a great deal, like you seem to be someone who identifies strongly with your belief system or religion, whatever you consider your “religion” or reality - for some of you, your “religion” may even be science and reason!  And this aspect plays a major role in your life, it may even be the center of your world. It influences your outlook and decision-making considerably. At least that’s how it seems to your DR family. I think your DR family consists of vastly different people (including you) and even though all of them are so different you somehow are able to make them all feel comfortable around you. They see that you like comfort, and you’re all about giving that experience to people. Your DR family believes that you’re non-judgmental and more interested in making everyone feel accommodated. They truly appreciate this about you. You are friendly and willing to listen, learn, and teach. You’re rarely interested in “converting” anyone to your belief system or lifestyle, you just want to be tolerated and, likewise, you tolerate others. In their eyes, you’re someone who leads by example, someone who is able to perceive ‘everything’ around them and who sees beauty everywhere. To them, you’re very intelligent and courageous with a strong inner fire. You’re a visionary and a guide. Your energy can be pretty grounding to others, and your DR family thinks that you bring stability into the family. You might have a tendency to overthink or ruminate over situations and get stuck in your mind but in those times your DR family is actually willing to help bring you back to your physical body and the present moment and your connection to your world/life/environment. 

You provide strength, confidence, courage, and even happiness to your DR family. As I said before, you inspire your family and your energy is contagious in their opinion. You renew their optimism for life and you push them to take action to acquire what they want in this world. And you also urge them to get out of their comfort zone and take on new opportunities. Your presence in their life helps them release old patterns, habits, and disappointments so new growth can take place. Your family learns a lot from you. You’re truly inspiring to them - I can’t say this often enough lol. All in all, your DR family has respect but also a lot of affection for you. They want you to know that even if they can’t express this very well, you are very dear to their heart. ❤️