It’s Ok To Like Problematic Things. It’s Okay To Enjoy Things That Are Bad. Please Just Have Fun

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You guys are so wholesome despite what antis say. Have an awesome day proshippers 💗

You know, for a fandom who head cannons them characters as gay and bi so damn much, there sure aren’t a lot of “x male reader” things for keith and lance ,barely any in fact

(but honestly lets face is it, this is true for just about every fandom ever 😒)

(I edited it lol)

Sonic fandom selfshippers ILY btw 🫡🩷

(coined this because i couldn’t find a blankqueer term with both of the things i was looking for)

(coined at 4am so still a work in progress)

Dollqueer

A blankqueer stance that believes in self autonomy and consent above all else

Beliefs

➻꒰-Consent is key; Only you can say what is best for you and what you want to do with your life-꒱

➻꒰-Everyone should be able to make whatever choices for themselves as long as they don’t (non-consensually) harm anyone-꒱

➻꒰-live and let live-꒱

Pro

➻ all transids including transharmfuls

➻ Paras

➻ Muds

➻ darkshiping

➻ kodo/loli/shota

➻ MAD pride

➻ Mogai

➻ Xenoids

➻ Alterhuminity

➻ Age regression

➻ kinks and fantasies

➻ all consensual relationships

➻ choosing to recover

➻ choosing not to recover

➻ transitioning

➻ non-harmful delusions

➻ all coping mechanisms

➻ safe contact

➻ everyone’s right to choose

Anti

➻ non-consensual acts

➻ Bigotry

EXACTLY! this is what people are not getting. I am not afraid to say moana 2 was great, if not even better than the first one.

MILD MOANA 2 SPOILERS AHEAD

I saw Moana 2 as a Polynesian person. I thought it was INCREDIBLE. I know many people already don't really like it, but I think it's because THIS specific movie, they went harder on the Polynesian culture.

The music is even more Polynesian, and written pretty much solely by Polynesian people. The culture is even more included in it's narrative and in the details, they show more tattoos, the Kava ceremony, speaking more of the Pacific Islander native languages, even some the humor is very Polynesian humor.

I personally really enjoyed the storyline, and I liked that it introduced a "morally gray" character to help guide Moana into realizing that you have to just embrace what's given to you. It's a great representation of what the ocean is. It's sometimes not as reliable and friendly as Moana expects it to be, and has grown accustomed to. So when she asks for the ocean's help and receives no answer, she's better prepared to face it as it comes, and adapt, and embrace it.

Not only that, but in terms of Polynesian deities, there isn't just one "good" or "bad". There are complicated morally gray deities. Pele, for instance, is a goddess known for volcanoes and destruction, but she is also known as creation and rebirth. The Earth is scorched by the flames and lava to make way for new land and healthier vegetation.

The songs aren't as "memorable" to those who aren't fully embracing the culture. For me, I got chills hearing the music. It felt authentic and from the heart and soul of the Polynesian people who sang it. Sure, many outside of the culture can't "sing along" to it, but that doesn't make it inherently bad, just because it's not marketable TO YOU.

For someone who's waited forever to have representation, and grew up with Lilo and Stitch being the only one (which wasn't that much in terms of representation.) To then seeing Moana come out when I was 16, and cried then. For then Moana 2 to come out tonight, and I cried AGAIN at 24 years old. My inner child was so excited to hear and FEEL what that representation sounds like, looks like, and means.

The original Moana was tippy-toeing into Polynesian culture, where it could still be marketable so everyone could enjoy it. Because they didn't want it to flop. It feels the same as a Polynesian person having to cater to tourists who only see the Polynesian culture as something they can exploit and be entertained by.

That doesn't mean that it was bad, it was moving tides in that time, and I would take that representation over the crumbs we've had before.

But this movie? Moana 2? This was for US. This was for the Polynesian cultures. This felt like a love letter to us, as a culture, to unite and know that we have community, and to feel seen, in all of our glory, and not a watered-down version to be "marketable" to others outside of our culture.

So, I expect people to not like it. But I also expect it to be because it's coming from a place where they don't understand how it feels to experience, love, embrace, learn, and educate others about Polynesian culture.

I love my culture, and I love my Polynesian siblings as a Kanaka Hawaiian. I love my Maori, Samoan, Tahitian, Tongan, etc. siblings. I love seeing a mix of all of our cultures come together and be represented.

For those who aren't a part of our culture, truly listen to our history and our struggles and successes. Educate yourself on how to be a better ally and find cultural appreciation (not appropriation) for our culture. We are real people with real stories. Not some fictional character (or Halloween costume/party favor/etc.) you can write off and only look at as "entertainment" and can only hold value when we're catering to you. That includes our music, our language, our dances, and our stories.

That's all for now. ❤️ I'll be willing to have adult, civil, conversations with others about differences in why you didn't enjoy it as much, but hate will be deleted and blocked. ❤️

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"you can't like caitlyn after that!" i'll support a lesbian through anything idgaf