Astarion Slaps Volo

Yes, that's the secret communication system💕

artists drawing Harry Du Bois with his stray hairs like this is my fav. he gets to telepathically communicate with Kim.

Thought Project: Relapse (pt 1)

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I wonder what would have happen that they found themselves in that situation?

I think i find it a bit funnier if Kim is the reason for all that, not Harry (for once) :")

Or maybe it was some kind of joke on Kim when he transferred... Obv that would be Harry's idea

hmm, what do you think?

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Hii, I'm opening commissions! I'm raising money for my top surgery, if you want to help me and get an art at the same time, here's my chart:

(if you can't get a commission - consider reblogging my fundraiser and/or this chart, this means a LOT to me and it will help me tremendously!)

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more silly hAAdes stuff ... promise its out of my system now 🫶

i’m gonna lovingly throw his greasy ass into a bathtub

Baldur's Gate in Darkest Dungeon style, two of my most favorite games!! This isn't my usual style but I've absolutely fallen in love with it after creating this piece! I may make more work like this in the future!

I got hella DD vibes from the Shadowlands in Act 2, which inspired me to make this!

"Un jour je serai de retour pres de toi"

One day I'll be back near you

Hii, i'm back, i've made a little art from sketch of it years before (maybe you recognize it :>) in gouache. Had a lot of fun creating it, i missed making things like that Link for Bluesky *it's brand new account, I'm gonna be here too from now on, it's gonna have more posts soon!

I'm getting around to start posting again, I'm open for commissions if you'd like to get anything, info's here

And since I'm trying to raise money to be able to get top surgery /and or to cover additional costs of health care around it - here's my fundraiser if you want to help ! Link for fundraiser post on Tumblr or directly on fundraiser site

i've realized that a lot of the things people who abide by the social expectations say are from their own perspectives and they cannot be accurately applied to my trans experience.

'don't transition, you're just insecure/mentally ill/traumatized(/whatever other reasons they have)' are all the failed attempts of a cis person empathizing in a way that ranges from inconvenient at best to transphobic at worst, depending on where they take their assumptions, and these perspectives don't take dysphoria (or euphoria, on the contrary) into consideration as a reason someone might want to transition, because cis people don't know the extent of our dysphoria, as well as the other experiences that we experience alongside it.

this attempt shouldn't be taken too seriously; it happens with many other people as well. 'you're just lazy' (against disabled people) 'you'll meet the right one someday' (against aspecs) 'just go outside, you'll feel better' (against mentally ill people and those facing worser issues besides mere depression) 'just go ahead and try it' (against neurodivergent people as well as those with physical disabilities), 'you'll be grateful when you get older' (against people who faced parental abuse), do these perspectives sound familiar? they all come from the people giving you advice in a way that worked for them, as a person abiding by the social expectations; many people aren't sure what empathy really means, and ao they empathize by giving eachother advice. those answers genuinely work for others like them; they won't for us. in worser scenarios, we're judged or hated because of their failed empathization. and because we're kept near the sidelines, and they manage to help eachother, anyone who doesn't empathize in the way they do is thrown out. people with low empathy and those expressing it in different ways also suffer from this. but even those who abide by the social standards aren't entirely accurate with their empathy, if they have it.

and i just wanted to share this, for anyone who's suffering from internalized transphobia (and perhaps other self views about other parts of your identity), in case it might help you distance yourself from it and worry less about whether they're right. they're not, because they're judging you from their viewpoint as a cis person. try not to take it to heart; you're fine the way you are, i promise.

Submitted May 27, 2023