Be Kinder To Everyone. You Never Know What’s Going On Behind Doors. Love Your Family A Little More

i got everything i want just because i wanted it

THE FORBIDDEN FLOWER (2023) | EP 1 dir. by Zhao Xiao Lei, starring Xu Ruo Han and Jerry Yan

✨How to become a it girl✨

🎀 Take care of your health

Avoid junk food. Poor diet tragically affects your skin, body, health, sleep and your well-being. Replace junk food with fruits, vegetables. Beef and pork replace with chicken and fish. Sodas replace with water. Healthy diet has positive influence on your hole body and mind. It increases focus and energy during the day.

🎀 Mental health

Spend less time on social media. In the stressful situations stay optimistic and do things which calms you down. Read, spend time with yourself, meditate, write in your dairy, take a deep breaths, do yoga. This things will help you clear your mind and increase positive energy.

🎀 Beauty

Take care of your beauty. Do a skincare, haircare. Wear clothes in which you feel confident. The same with your make up. This things help you incease your self-confidence and make you feel comfortable.

🎀 Take care of your body

Do sport. Yoga, pilates, gym, walks any kind of physical activity will give you a boost of positive energy. Sport will incease your dopamine levels and it will lower cortisol level so it help with stress and lower mood. Also it will make your self esteem go higher.

🎀 Personality

Be kind. Treat others like you want to be treated. Smile often and spread love and positivity. Good personality attracts people even more then looks do. Also be kind to yourself. Its good to make a misstakes, do not put to much pressure on your self it isn’t good for your mental health

XOXO

PS. Sorry for any language misstake. I’m from Poland and my english is not very good 😔

“what’s there to be scared of?”

“i’m scared to death right now.”

this is the summer of putting yourself first.

long walks, meditation, journaling, spending time with people who give energy, new hobbies, regular movement, limited screen time and having genuine love and compassion for yourself no matter what stage you’re at!

© 网剧夏花官微 

stop being second choice

Start with your relationship with yourself. If you see yourself as second choice, others will see it too. Learn to love yourself and put yourself first in your own priorities.

Learn to love yourself. You can't expect another to fulfill all your affection needs if you're not already enough for yourself. Take time every day to pamper yourself and do the things that bring you happiness.

Dare to take your place and say no when someone asks you something you don't want or can't do. Your time and energy are valuable, don't waste them on others.

Believe in your own worth. Don't let anyone make you doubt your worth. Or you give the impression that you are not “good enough”. You deserve a relationship where you are respected and appreciated for who you are.

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"The first symptom of true love in a young man is timidity; in a young girl, boldness. This is surprising, yet nothing is more simple." - Les Miserables by Victor Hugo.

THE FORBIDDEN FLOWER ( 2022 - EP3/EP4)

soft 𓂅 delicate 𓂅 romantic 𓂅 magical

entering in my nyc rich girl era..

i’m learning another language

i’m shopping at the best stores

i’m using the best skincare products for my face and body

i’m eating the best, nutritious foods

i’m traveling to the hottest locations

i’m buying quality over quantity

i’m working out daily (pilates, barre, cycling)

i’m reading classic literature

i’m looking model ready

i’m dressing up for every occasion, big or small

i’m being high maintence

i’m in touch with high-end fashion

i’m meeting high profile individuals

i’m creating luxury around me

i’m working on a successful brand

i’m drinking the nicest champagne

i’m getting my weekly and monthly beauty treatments

i’m spoiling myself with whatever i want, whenever i want it