A Great Advice

A great advice

Thank you!

We have been married 18 yrs, and we have fantasized about hotwifing for about 8 yrs. Our sex life is great, and we always act out the hotwife idea everytime we have sex by dp and dirty talk. We have discussed about doing it for real several times, but she is too worried about something going wrong like std, moral values, etc. I have gotten very serious about wanting to do this but she wont plan it, although she is showing signs that she really wants to. I have thought of just making it happen.

No no no…. The basis of cuckolding is absolute openness and honesty. It’s not something you can start with deception and hope it ends well. If you want it and she wants it but she can’t pull the trigger then she’s just not ready. If you try to manufacture it without her knowing you open the relationship to resentment and guilt. Even if you could make it happen what happens if it doesn’t go well or she regrets it and blames you? These are things that need to be talked about before hand. You have to be on the same page about everything. That being said there are ways to coax it along. Playing the “would ya” game. “Out of all the people we know who would you fuck if you had the chance?” That kind of thing. Get her talking about it in a real life sense.

Also play the bar game where you go and watch her from afar while she flirts. She doesn’t have to fuck anyone. You could come over and “win” her away from the guy and then go fuck like bunnies. It’s a gradual thing. A frog in a gradually heating pot. Baby steps. But she has to be in agreement as to what the rules are.

But at the end of the day if she can’t do it then she can’t do it. At least you have a sexual wife that you love who is willing to fantasize with you about your deepest desires. There are tons of men who would give their left nut to have what you have.

Play the game but never be deceptive.

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7 years ago

Great way to start a fantasy! Congrats and thank you for sharing your story.

Our First Step - True Story

This story is a little bit old. We never posted anything on the blog about this event when it first happened because we weren’t really sure how muchof our journey we wanted to chronicle but we’ve recently decided we want everything that can be on the blog to be on it. Its not quite as dirty as the last two either, but its a very important chapter to Amy and me. This was our very very first time of trying anything involving sharing and was the point when we knew it was something we definitely wanted to pursue.

Anyway, avid fans may remember around June Amelia and I disappeared for a few days. We went up to Edinburgh (Scotland for foreign followers) for a few days to celebrate our engagement. While we were there we had a guy from kik offer to meet up with us for drinks at some point during the holiday. Amy wasn’t too sure about this (bear in mind it was literally only a few months previously that I had told her about my fantasies) but I was up for it. After a bit of discussion we decided it was a good opportunity to meet someone new and we were under no obligation to actually do anything with him so we agreed to meet.

We met the guy in a pub and had a few drinks. Amelia was wearing a gorgeous corsetted top that showed off her big tits and neither me or the guy we met were able to keep our eyes off her cleavage! We all hit it off really well and had several drinks together. In fact we got on so well with him that, while he was off getting another drink, Amelia and I were disccusing what we should do with him. We really appreciated him making the effort to come meet with us and wanted to give him something to remember, so we decided Amelia would give him a goodbye kiss. I know that doesn’t sound ground breaking, but keep in mind, this would be the first guy Amy had kissed (that wasn’t me) for seven years and the first time I would see her with another man in any form.

Unfortunately he had to get the train home so we had to cut the party a little shorter than we would have liked. We walked him to the train station and said our goodbyes. Amy gave him a hug and, as he went to move away, pulled him in for what was, in my opinion, the perfect kiss. It was sudden enough that there was no way he could have expected it but lasted long enough for him to know it wasn’t an accident. Then we went out serperate ways. The walk back to our hotel was agonising for me. Just seeing her kiss the guy made me incredibly horny. I was full of energy and unable to stand still. I’m not sure I slept much that night because of the adrenaline!

The next day we decided we had enjoyed ourselves so much the night before that we asked him whether he wanted to meet up again that night as well. He agreed and we made plans to buy alcohol and bring it back to the hotel room this time. We made it clear to him that it wouldn’t go as far as sex but we left the possibility of other things happening open. We met at the same pub as the night before and had a drink there before heading back to the hotel.

Remember, this is the first time we had ever done anything like this, so we were both a little nervous. We knew we wanted something to happen but were a little lost as to how to initiate it so we came up with a bit of a plan. I would go to the bathroom leaving the two of them alone, wait a few minutes, then by the time I came out hopefully stuff would be happening.

The evening went on and we continued having a good time and a laugh. Finally, about an hour before the guy had to go get his train, I got a text from Amy saying simply, ‘Go to the bathroom’. I followed her instruction and waited for a few minutes full of nervous excitement. This was something I had wanted for a long time and it was surreal to me being so close to it. I listened at the door intently, desperately trying to hear what was happening. I could hear them talking but couldn’t make out what was being said. Eventually I had to just leave the bathroom, otherwise I’d have looked a little weird, so I pushed open the door to be greeted to the sight of Amelia making out with him!

She was sat on the edge of the bed, him in a chair next to it and she was proper making out with him. I had to stand in the doorway for a few minutes to take it all in. After a while he moved onto the bed next to her. He had a hand on one of her boobs while she sat on his lap but she grabbed his hand and moved it down between her legs so he could rub her through her tights!

“I saw that, Amelia, you fucking slut,” I said to her with a smile.

“You love it. And so does he,” she replied with cheeky smile before going back to making out with him. Well she definitely wasn’t wrong! I remember this bit vividly. It made me lightheaded and super horny watching her move another guys hand to her pussy!

They were so preoccupied Amy didn’t noticed me move behind her and undo her bra. She slipped it off and let him play with her tits a bit before straddling him on the bed. I got comfy on a chair nearby and watched as she undid his pants and played with his cock while his hands explored her entire body. She spent a bit of time licking his balls (which were really big and nice! Amy said she loved how big and full they were) and started sucking on his cock while he held her hair.

We all wanted to stay like that but we were quickly running out of time so the two of them had to tear themselves away from each other. There was enough time for us to finish our drinks and for Amelia to show us a sexy outfit she had brought up with her before we had to walk him to the station.

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This one!

We left our room and they made out more in the lift. Then we walked to the station and they made out more on the platform. Once again we were both incredibly horny but we were forced to say our goodbyes and part ways. The guy said one of the guards watched him and Amy make out, then me walk away with my hand on her ass and gave us a funny look. Hahahahaha!

We still keep in contact with our friend and were very lucky to have found such a nice guy for our first time. I can’t imagine where we would be right now if the meeting had gone badly. It could have put us off the whole thing! 

So, that was our very very first first time doing anything with another guy. And look where its led us! Amy and I are closer than I ever thought possible and we’re hurtling towards my ultimate fantasies coming true!

I just hope we’re able to meet our Scottish friend again so I can thank him for his kindness by letting him fuck the hell out of Amy! ;) - D


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7 years ago

Si se polarizara la misma fantasia un extremo seria llamado "Stag" y el otro "Cuckold".

Aqui hay una buena descripción del segundo termino. Agradezco que la publicaran.

¿ ERES CUCKOLD DE VERDAD?

Si respondes afirmativamente a los siguientes ejemplos entonces lo eres:

• Te gusta lamer el semen sobre tu esposa, aunque no sea tuyo

• Te excita que tu pareja te cuente sus experiencias sexuales pasadas

• Tu pene se pone duro solo de pensar en otro hombre follando a tu pareja

• Estas consiente que tu pene es más pequeño que el resto de los hombres

• Te excita a ver a otros hombres coqueteando con tu pareja; de hecho, prefieres que ella se vista como puta para obtener más atención.

• Prefieres ver una gran verga penetrando a tu pareja incluso más que tener sexo con ella

• Fantaseas con darle sexo oral a tu pareja mientras otro hombre eyacula en tu cara.

• No te importaría besar a tu pareja aunque su boca este llena de semen de otros hombres.

• Sabes que no tienes lo necesario para complacer a tu pareja, así que no te importa solo observar mientras otros se la follan.


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7 years ago

This deserve to be readen

I like all of the "kinks" you explore on your blog and tend to agree with you about how they are natural and evolutionary advantageous. I would love my wife to partake in bareback with some else than me, group sex, multiple partners, threesome, and double vaginal-however, there are also evolutionary reasons why culture has developed to limit these tendencies-STDs-viruses, bacteria, & other microorganisms! An argument can be made that prudish cultural norms took hold to limit our cheating urges.

Real talk for a minute. You should be getting tested, and verifying that the partners you hook up are tested too. 

Most clinics have an online portal so you really just need to go in, pee in a cup, and let them draw some blood. It’s not expensive and you can screenshot the results to prove you’re clean. Women can often just request these tests when they go in for their pap smear.

If your future fuck buddy doesn’t want to get tested then they are either dirty, broke, or lazy. 

Bareback is better, but I don’t play roulette with my health.

#get tested or GTFO


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7 years ago

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7 years ago

Genial aportación; mil gracias.

El antro

Soy una mujer casada y con dos hijos Mi marido Es un hombre muy trabajador y tiene su propria empresa donde en el trabajo el Es muy profesional y creo que eso le stressa. En la Casa Es muy buen padre y le encanta sexo. Nuestra vida sexual Es buena pero tenemos limitaciones pues con niños no Es fácil. Tengo un buen cuerpo y me gusta sentirme bien con la ropa que pongo, mi esposo siempre que vamos a salir, me pide que me vista con ropas apretadas o bien cortas. Siempre me pidio que vistiera sexy para salir y habla que mi culo y piernas hace parar a la pinga cualquiera. Hace meses dejamos los ninos con una ninera y fuimos a tomar unas copas y me puse bien caliente por el clima y el tambien donde me dijo que tenias muchas fantasias comigo que una de ellas era que alguien nos mirara haciendo el amor. no soy muy fantasiosa pero eso me excito, tampoco siento la confianza de hablar de eso pues era algo nuevo entre nosotros otro día cuando que hacíamos el amor el me dijo cosas en el oido que al inicio me molestaba, el me decía que quisiera metérmela en cuatro mientras mamo la verga a otro. me pareció raro en ese momento pero con el tiempo hable con varias otras mujeres y percibí que eso era bien normal claro nunca he comentado a ellas sobre mi marido y sus fantasias pero he escuchado que a ellas sus maridos son asi y que les encanta, desafortunada aquellas que tienen maridos celosos a punto de no dejarte vestir sexy. Un dia fuimos en una disco y me vesti como mi marido me pide solamente por complacerlo, me puse un vestido bien corto, tacones y un maquillage bien lindo que cuando me vio no lo creia. Al llegar en la disco percebi la mirada de varios hombres y me digo que eso le excito, Mi marido y yo tomabamos drinks yo le calientaba la verga al ritmo de la musica, bailando bien sexy. Habia mas parejas bailando como nosotros, yo le dije que me gustaba la disco y allí habia personas bonitas, al pasar del tiempo nos emborrachamos y mi marido me dice en el oído y te reto a quedarte sola bailando por un tiempo mientras yo voy al baño y a comprar unas bebidas, y me confesó que le encantaria verme provocar la erecion de un desconocido en la disco con mis nalgas y yo le dije que no jugaras con fuego pues estoy bien caliente. El volvio a insistir que eso lo excitaría mucho. Me dejo solo y yo me quede bailando sola como soltera en la disco y 15 minutos se pasaron y nada de mi marido , cuando miro estaba el tomando su drink mirandome sola y me hace una senal con una sonrisa picosa como que preguntándome donde esta el show? Entonces decidi seguir el juego y 5 minutes despues percibo un hombre bien parecido bailando como que acercando a mi y me empezaron a sudar las manos y pensé que hago? Mi adrenalina subio al cielo pero bailando lo deje acercar y pase la nalga sobre su verga gruesa y bien parada y mire a mi esposo que me miraba atónico donde me dejo bailando con el desconocido y debo decir que realmente eso fue super rico y yo estaba asustada por no saber la reaccion de mi marido pero a la vez super mojada por la situacion. Luego deje el hombre ahí, le agradecí al amigo al final de la canción, el me detuvo y me dijo soy Roberto eres una chica muy sexy me gustaría conocerte más, eres muy linda fui a donde mi esposo estaba y beso y volvimos a bailar toda calenturienta yo nunca había sentido tal aventura y al oído me dijo mi esposo que estaba muy excitado con lo que vio, yo le sentía la verga más rígida que nunca, al pasar tiempo mi esposo todo excitado ya estaba muy borracho pues tomo de más estaba muy borracho para manejar camino a la casa así que me lleve el carro, y en el camino sobre la carretera estaba el amigo con quien había bailado estaba parado a la orilla de la carretera su carro se había averiado, y como mi esposo estaba tan borracho ya se había dormido, decidí acercarme al amigo Roberto y ofrecí llevarlo, gustosamente subió, íbamos los tres en el carro y mi esposo dormidito yo toda nerviosa sin saber si había hecho bien o mal solo esperaba que no se despertara mi esposo, voltie por el retrovisor y Roberto se sobaba la verga , a lo que dije que dejara de hacer eso o que no se me iba antojar, después de un rato seguimos en camino hasta llegar a su destino el cual le pedí que se bajara él se bajó y al despedirse me dio un tremendo beso que no me di cuenta y tomo la llaves del carro y me comento que no me las iba a iba a dar a menos que le diera otro beso, me baje un poco temerosa a pedírselas ya que mi esposo podía despertarse en cualquier momento, accedí a darle el beso, solo que ahora fue un tremendo beso de esos que te dan ganas de coger y yo con mi vestidito zapatillas toda cachonda, deje que me manoseara todita ya estaba toda excitada y fuera de control y a lo que yo pensaba era que mi esposo así lo hubiera querido, Roberto me volteo me bajo mi tanga y comenzó a penetrarme con una enorme herramienta que pegue un grito a lo que voltie a ver a mi esposo entre el carro y ya estaba despierto con su verga de fuera y masturbándose, me puse más caliente porque ya no había limitaciones pero si pena a lo que fuimos detrás del carro donde me hizo suya completita, Roberto parecía que no había cogido en meses me cogía bien rico incluso me cargo a dos manos detrás del carro y seguir penetrándome bien rico se la mame completa y también me la mamo incluso hasta mi anito me chupaba así bien rico, me quiso dar por mi ano pero estaba muy cerrada y me dolió mucho a lo que insistió mucho y sin querer ya estaba dentro era un joven todo loco con todo el poder y con un fuerte empujón me dio toda su leche por mi ano con dolor y placer grite, al terminar me dijo que le encanto conocerme más y que ojala se repitiera y me dio una nalgada de despedida y se metió a su casa yo toda adolorida y con toda la leche aun dentro busque mis zapatillas me acomode el vestido y por cierto no encontré mi tanga, me subi al carro, y no traia interiores y el todo emocionado y con la verga de fuera hasta que llegamos a la casa hicimos sexo y el me perguntaba se a mi me gusto lo que hice y yo le hablaba que me encanto sentir la pinga del desconocido en mi interior. Luego en el otro dia pense que mi marido me iba cobrar lo que hize pero al contrario toda vez cuando tenemos sexo dice que quiere repetir lo de la vez pasada y eso me vuelve loca. Ya le hablo de fantasias y Siempre planeamos algo morboso donde el me pueda exibir para otros hombres. Descobri que a el le encanta y excita y a mi igual pues yo soy la estrella en todas las fantasias, ya me he desinhibido y varias hemos hecho cosas como ir a un hotel y pedir una pizza y yo atender la puerta solo de toalla donde el entregador me mire y ya llegue a dejar caer la toalla, mi marido Mira de un rincon donde no lo ven. Eso paso a ser algo mio y de el , un secreto solo de nosotros dos lejos de la sociedad. Amo mi marido pues percebi que amar no es de celos pero si confianza, decidi que vamos a un resort swinger a mirar y entender pues tengo un marido amigo y hago toda las picardillas por el y el por mi. Bueno espero que yo alla ayudado parejas en la misma situacion y les digo a las mujeres no pierdan tiempo en su morbo, si tienen un marido como el mio, lo disfrutes pues somos muy afortunadas pues estos no estan buscando mujeres por ahi pues nosotras somos sus fantasías


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7 years ago

Gracias dir the advice, the bar part is so true

Hello, do you currently live in Italy? I was wondering if you could give us some advice. We're Americans travelling to Rome in a few months and the wife wants to find a guy for a night of NSA fun. Basically we're looking for a third for MFM threesome. Are Italian men open to this sort of arrangement? Any suggestions on where to find someone other than a bar?

HiDifficult to answer. I think most of the guys you can find in a bar will be open to have a ride with the wife, but perhaps not that open to a threesome with another man they never met.Even more important, if you rely on this kind of casual encounters you won’t be able to filter the guys, and you won’t know who you end up with.

I’d say it’s better if you get registered on a local swingers/cuckold/hotwife site, creating a couple’s profile; that will give you the opportunity to look for an experienced man (and you’ll be able to choose the one you like the most, too) and to set up a date for when you’ll be in Rome.

Have a look for example on www.thecuckold.com (it should have an English version too, and it’s basically free), or www.annunci69.it .The second one is far bigger, probably the biggest website of this kind in Italy, but the first one sometime is better.In case you might need it, Rome is in a region called Lazio (Italy is divided into regions, similar to US states even though on a smaller scale of course). It might be useful to look for singles and bull coming from this region, if not only Rome.Good luck ;)


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6 years ago
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7 years ago

Great advice

We're young, and I really do think she's the one, but that makes me worried I'd ruin things by being open about wanting to see her fuck someone else. I know it's kind of contradictory, like if we are meant to be our relationship should be fine after experimenting with sharing, but it's still tough getting the balls to admit it to her.

Most hotwife blogs will tell you not to go through with it given those feelings, but this is not a hotwife blog. I think a little bit of jealousy is hot. And when two dudes are grunting away like a couple of cavemen to satisfy one vixen, I think it’s arousing.

So you don’t want to look weak right? Trust me, if you say something like,

“I think it would be hot competing for you against other alpha males. I would love to prove to you why you married me over and over again. I like the thought of putting you on a pedestal and I feel a flutter of excitement and jealousy when I catch guys looking at you.”

Now stop being a pussy and go eat your wife’s.

#want to share her


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7 years ago

Your blog gets me sooooo wet. I’ve always loved the thought of banging multiple dudes. Then my hubby admitted to wanting to share me and when I asked how long he said he’d never even been interested in wife sharing until he met me and that turns me on in itself. Trying to work up the courage to post a pic of my big pierced tits on here and see how many guys would be willing to fuck me ;)

Some women are naturally sluttier than others. These women have a high libido and can basically have anything they want once they realize the power of their pussy. Your husband realized this and put you on a pedestal fast. He wants a HotWife not a cheating wife.

And yes, show us your tits, but also show us that freshly fucked pussy once in awhile so we know you’re not all talk.

#slut confession 


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7 years ago

Pure wisedon for husbands

had a threesome with my bestfriend and my girlfriend. she moaned so much more louder with his dick in her wet warm pussy. and she tells me that she fucks her better than i did

Glad you got the courage to share your girl. Now that you know he can fuck her better I hope you are taking this as an opportunity to up your game.

Watch tutorials on PornHub and eat her pussy more, start a healthy diet so your loads are bigger, and work out more so you can pound her harder. 

You need to show your female that you’re competing for her at the highest level. Otherwise, what’s the point?

#prove yourself


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