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Techniques for Hotwives: by my wife

I absolutely love being a hotwife. One of the best parts for me is driving my husband insane with lust for me by giving him just the right blend of teasing and reassurance. Not only do I get the freedom and variety of choosing my own sexual partners, but I also get a husband who burns with desire for me. For the purpose of this entry I’m going to use the term hotwife for any wife with permission to play, cuckoldress for a hotwife who emphasizes her dominance in the sexual relationship, huband for the hotwife’s primary partner (could easily be a fiance or boyfriend), and lover for the other sex partner who’s not the husband.

Here are some techniques I regularly use that I’ve found hotwives and cuckoldresses can use to make their encounters extra fun for their husbands and for themselves.

When Husband is Watching You with Another Man

Eye Contact* - Nothing will arouse and tease your husband like strong eye contact with him. Eye contact says, “Look at me!” and makes it impossible for either of you to ignore or trivialize what’s going on. Eye contact can be gentle or fierce, depending on your style and the message you’re trying to send. I prefer to lock eyes for a long time, then wink or smile right before I look away. I like to lock eyes with my husband while I’m blowing my lover.

Smile* - Smiling is both a tease and a reassurance. It says both, “Look how much fun I’m having!” and “Everything is OK.” I love to smile at him when I’m riding my lover cowgirl-style.

Say Something* - You don’t have to jabber away, but it’s fun to say things now and then. I love dirty talk with my lover while my husband’s watching. I also like to interact with him, asking, “How are you liking the show?” or “Don’t you wish you were doing this?” I also encourage my lover to talk about how good everything feels and how much fun he’s having. Moaning, screaming, crying, laughing, giggling, etc. are all great things to do, too. It’s also cute to call you husband by terms of endearment like honey, baby, etc. when you’re being fucked by another man.

Dress Up* - High heel shoes, lingerie, nicely done nails, and perfume all say, “I’m putting effort into looking fucking hot for my lover!” You husband will be aroused by your appearance and jealous of the effort to look good for another guy.

When Husband is Listening from Another Room

Go Nuts* - Scream, cry, moan, laugh, beg, talk dirty, giggle, and slurp. Encourage your lover to slap your butt. These sounds will float through the closed door and to your husband’s ears, driving him wild with desire and jealousy.

Emerge, then Vanish* - Take a break from fucking. Go out into the room where your husband is: hair a mess, makeup smeared. Have a glass of water. Say hi to your husband. Then, go back to the bedroom. Close the door. Lock it.

Make a Movie* - Film your bedroom romp. Hook the camera in your room to the TV in the room where he’s sitting so he can watch live feed! He’ll be scratching at the door in no time.

When Husband is Not Around

Call Him* - It’s fun to call him and put the phone on speaker phone while you’re getting railed. Then, husband can listen! Even more fun (for you cuckoldresses) is let your other guy call from his phone instead. It’s more humiliating.

Texts* - Like above, but text dirty things. What you’re doing, feeling, etc. Have your other guy send husband dirty pics of what you’re doing.

Get Caught* - I love having my husband walk in on me when he’s not expecting anything. Just make sure that you know he’d be OK with this, and that your lover is also OK with this. Some people don’t like surprises.

Leave Evidence* - Your lingerie lying around the bed, sex toys on the nightstand, or a condom in the garbage all remind your husband of what you were doing in his absence.

Make a Movie (pt. 2)* - Film your bedroom romp and leave the recording on the nightstand for him.

Muy buen relato de como se puede descubrir este tipo de placeres. Gracias por compartirlo.

Como empezó mi fantasía parte 1

Hola a todos los que nos siguen, como muchos saben somos una pareja de México de 28 y 27 años y hoy quiero empezar a contarles como empeze con está fantasía de que otro hombre se cogiera a mi esposa.

Pues déjenme decirles que fue algo raro ya que yo era una persona muy celosa pero todo cambió el día que descubrí que mi esposa tenía contacto con sus amigos y pues como dicen la curiosidad mato al gato, así que revise su celular y pues encontré que charlaba con un compañero en un plan algo cariñoso más no sexoso debo decirles. Hablaban del hermano de el y mi esposa decía que era su cuñado y el amigo le seguía la corriente diciéndole que si.

Sentí coraje pero fue entonces donde noté que también estaba muy excitado y eso que no hablaban nada de sexo. Poco después descubrí una conversación entre el hermano del amigo de mi esposa y ella donde el le proponía un acostón pero mi esposa lo rechazaba pero no por mi si no porque ella le decía que si algún día ella le diera las nalgas sería a su hermano, esto me enfureció pero se me paro la Verga de inmediato y mi mente empezó a imaginar a mi esposa cojiendo con otro y casi me vengo. Unos días después le reclame pudimos arreglar las cosas y aunque me pidió perdón la idea ya se me había quedado en la cabeza.

Si les gustó el relato haganmelo saber para subir la siguiente parte prometo que irá mejorando y les aseguro que es 100% real

Who Knew “Just Watching” Could Be So Much Fun?

To Those Men Who Want To Watch Or Enjoy Watching Their Wife With Someone Else:

Until recently it’s been the prevailing opinion that the desire to want your wife to be fucked by someone else makes you a weak man…a pathetic & effeminate loser who lets his wife do whatever she wants to him.

But we know now that’s not true, is it?

Thanks to pioneers like @stagnationhw , @hotwivesandgames, @allaboutthehotwifelife, @oursexyexploration, and many others—we know now that there exists throngs of other men who have the desire of wanting to share their wives, sans any humiliation*. These other men are strong, independent, masculine, & secure. 

*no judgment or shade towards men who do like humiliation

We know for them that it’s not about letting your wife walk all over you because she can and because you’re too “weak” to control her, no…

Rather it’s about giving your assent, your consent, your “permission”, your encouragement and support to her so she can embrace her inner naughty side… the “darker” or “sluttier” shades of her sexuality, so to speak.

It’s about being secure enough in yourself and who you are, in your relationship with your wife and with what the two of you share so that you can identify and embrace and explore this desire you have.

For you, it’s not about weakness. It’s about strength.

It’s not about getting walked on; it’s about not being afraid to walk on the path less trodden.

It’s not about a lack of choice; it’s about a willing decision.

You’re a Stag, a Stag Cuckold, a Hotwife Husband. You are what you choose to call yourself. 

But what’s more is that you’re more of a man than those who criticize and judge your desires and choices because of their own fears and insecurities.

I say fuck closemindedness, and fuck the outdated Puritanical constraints society tries to impose upon you and shackle down your desires.

I say embrace them, because that’s what being strong is all about!

A brilliant thought.

I was about to send a message about how this is a hot fantasy when I remembered that last year my boyfriend was depressed for a month and I took it personally and ended up sucking off a guy I had just met at the bar with my best friend. I ended up dating them at the same time, but was really confused at 1. Why a guy would seriously date me after swallowing the first night and 2. How I felt such little guilt. I will never tell my boyfriend because this really did happen and it would kill him.

Let me answer those two questions for you, cutie pie.  

1) Why would a guy date a girl who sucked him off on the first night who also has a boyfriend? That’s easy. Because you’re a slut. Promiscuous women will always be more sought after. Guys won’t admit it, but everyone wants a vixen.

2) How I felt such little guilt? Sweetheart, why on earth would you need to feel guilty? You did what your body asked you to do. Something that happens in nature shouldn’t make you feel guilty. Do you feel guilty for eating and drinking? Don’t be silly.

#slut confession

Un video interesante, util para un corneador. Interesring video for a bull (in spanish)

Our Rules

Today a Hotwife in the making asked for advice on how to be successful in the lifestyle and immediately my first suggestion was to establish strong and sustainable rules. As a couple our relationship is the absolute TOP priority, which is why our rules are very important to us. With that being said I figured I’d share our rules to help any other couples or singles who are looking to establish some of their own 😊

1. Any potential playmate must be verified (video message etc) and agreed upon by both parties

2. We do not ever compromise on our standards, wants/needs or quality of playmates (quality over quantity).

3. No playing with someone that you have daily contact with (friend, colleague, gym partner etc)

4. No playing or messaging with a playmate if we aren’t in good standing (fighting, upset, sad etc) or you/us arent of sound mind (tired, drunk, high etc)

5. Don’t give too much personal information to playmates - family, friends, address, real name, workplace unless ABSOLUTELY certain they can be trusted.

6. Do not seek support of problems from playmates and/or talk about our relationship issues.

7. If a playmate starts to catch feelings or visa versa it’s over

8. The pace of daily communication with playmates should be managed by us. We should not feel obligated to respond to messages daily out of courtesy.

MEETING UP

9. Let your partner (and/or someone else) know where you are when you go meet someone or host someone alone (Location name, address etc)

10. Text them when you arrive at the meeting/playdate and when leaving the meeting/playdate (or when they leave)

11. Be aware at all times with NEW playmates. Don’t drink from opened alcohol or take anything that could compromise your thought process or awareness (i.e. getting too drunk or high)

12. No bondage, handcuffs, or restraints of any kind with NEW playmates. You need to be able to leave whenever you want.

13. No pain, degradation, humiliation or disrespectful name calling EVER!

14. Take lots of pictures and/or videos when playing solo for your partner to enjoy so they can feel like they are involved even though they aren’t there. **ONLY USE OUR PERSONAL PHONES TO TAKE THEM**

15. If a playmate is looking for an on-going relationship, they should have that relationship/friendship with the both of us. If the playmate has a problem with that then there is an increased risk that they won’t respect these rules or arrangements

Ultimate list of couples and females by Kilippcpl

A worth sharing post containing most of the hotwifes on tumblr, this kind couple keeps the list up to date. Thank you Kilippcpl :)

Enjoy:

 http://kilippcpl.tumblr.com/post/153511874482/the-ultimate-tumblr-list-of-couples-and-females

Great advice

Thank you

Hi!!! As a couple, were you always at the same page... Specially in sex?? If not, what do you think is a good thing to bring back "that" feeling?

We have been together for over two decades, so we have been all over the pages at times. The thing that keep us getting to same page is open communication and really listening what the other has to say. We try to focus on our common goal = to be together and have awesome sex. Basic things like instead of judging the other, we tell what our needs are and really listening when the other is expressing them. Good exercise is to sit with an eye contact and ask the other “tell me in two minutes how you want be loved” and then just listen and then you switch turns. The book that we have mentioned several times in our blog “Tantric Secrets for Men: What Every Woman Will Want Her Man to Know about Enhancing Sexual Ecstasy” by Kerry Riley. has played a big part in getting back to “that feeling” and way beyond. It is not just about sexual ecstasy, but it has helped a lot on the communication and connection. Communication and Connection equals better and more frequent sex. ;) We usually make love two to three times a day, because we love each other and really enjoy to intimate connection. - Sunshine and SexMagic

How it started, tnks 4 sharing