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Manipulation tactics in apologies

So, this is half writing advice, half life advice.

We all need to be able to recognize when an apology is manipulative, on both a large and small scale. I think we're all aware of the most recent large apology. Quite a few of these apply to that.

But also, feel free to use this as writing advice, too.

Not all of these are necessarily manipulative on their own. If you have apologized to someone for a mistake and done any of these, it doesn't mean you were trying to manipulate them. A lot of these can be completely unintentional. But, put more of them together and take them to more of an extreme, and then you begin to have a problem.

Third person. Especially in reference to the past, using third person to refer to yourself in an apology is a form of detachment. It's dodging the mistake and shifting the blame onto a false 'past self' to avoid taking responsibility.

Hyperbolic self hate. In a casual apology, a little self pity isn't out of place. If you're usually self deprecating, it's normal. It becomes dangerous when it's less like "sorry, I suck at remembering times", and more like "I'm a horrible person, I'm so stupid and terrible and cruel-".

Hyperbolic consequences. On the same note, it's also manipulative to say "I should die/be hurt/be abandoned". It's forcing the listener to feel guilty and feel as if they have caused feelings of depression.

Blaming, not explaining. Often, when apologizing, we want to explain why we may have done something wrong. That's normal! But a good apology should make the other person understand why you made the mistake, not tell them that you didn't make the mistake because you couldn't control it. This is also a form of guilt tripping.

Selective addressing. This one applies to if the apology is for more than one issue. A manipulator may fully address one point, but disregard or gloss over another, then use this to pretend that they fully addressed both, or that they don't need to apologize more than once.

Forced relatability. To make someone feel bad for them, a manipulator may place blame on things the listener can relate to going through, or has sympathy for. This makes them feel as if they cannot criticize them without acting as a hypocrite, or insensitive.

Gaslighting. I'm sure you all know how this one works, but it isn't always "that didn't happen"- it can be "that wasn't as bad as you say", or "you didn't get that it was a joke?". It twists reality to downplay events.

Strawman/subject changing. These are together because they function the same way. A strawman is a falsified or exaggerated arguement that can be easily disproved, and usually has nothing to do with the topic at hand. This can make it seem like the situation has been addressed, and demonizes the victim.

Triangulation. This is when another person is involved in an arguement, usually by the manipulator. This can be to make the victim jealous, focus their attention on the other person, or force them to side with their abuser in disliking them. There is little to no communication between the victim and the added person, and can be used in apologies to shift blame or distract from the issue.

Love-bombing. Less of an apology, and more of a substitute for one. Instead of owning up to their actions, a manipulator may shower the victim with affection and praise, attempting to create a sense of loyalty or a feeling that they can't be as bad as perceived.

That's all I'll get into, but there are far more than I've listed. If you think you're being manipulated, I urge you to research further.

HAPPY HALLOWEEN!

Sorry, I know I am a day late but honestly I did not even realize what day it was until I woke up this morning. It’s been a very hectic time for me lately, But I am coping. Hope y’all are doing okay as well in these crazy times.

If you’re looking for a little extra motivation this October, I hope this helps!

Text Version:

OCTOBER 2020 PROMPT SET

1.     Alone

2.     Shadows

3.     ‘Didn’t anyone ever tell you not to play with your food?’

4.     With a final breath

5.     Fog

6.     Ancient

7.     Stories

8.     “A Mask tells us more than a face”- Oscar Wilde

9.     Candle

10.  Forest

11.  ‘Haven’t you ever watched horror movies? This is how people die.’

12.  All eyes on you

13.  Invitation

14.  “Our dead are never dead to us, until we have forgotten them” -George Eliot

15.  Shatter

16.  Offerings

17.  To cost an arm and a leg

18.  Curiosity

19.  “Death is a very dull, dreary affair, and my advice to you is to have nothing whatsoever to do with it.”- W. Somerset Maugham

20.  ‘Well, this is not how I thought I would die, but I can work with it.’

21.  Delirious

22.  Bad Blood

23.  Whispers

24.  Maze

25.  Sleep

26.  “To him who is in fear everything rustles.”- Sophocles

27.  Shaking

28.  ‘I don’t think we’re supposed to be here’

29.  All in your head

30.  Caught

Cross my heart and hope to die                            

Theme Week #3: Our Friends In the Dark 🕯

Welcome travelers! Inspiration took us to some interesting places this week as we’ve got the hint of a couple subthemes emerging. Initially “Our Friends in the Dark” was supposed to be about allies ( or supposed allies) for all of our travels through the shaded places of the world, whether that be underground or through the night on mischievous deeds. 

The D(r )ead Citadel: Follow a questing knight into a demon infested fortress, only to discover that the knight is a witless ghost caught in a death loop, and that the fortress itself is far more sinister than its demon occupants. This prompt also connected with a rewrite I did on The dead god Orcus, bringing him back to his mythological roots as a god of oaths and curses, and giving him a bit more thematic depth when it comes to writing campaigns. 

Rhoghor Slatebreaker and the Vault of Forgotten Verdicts: Team up with orcish Indiana Jones and go on an expedition to a long abandoned tomb in the depths of the underdark. Discover a multitude of treasures and weapons placed in the tomb as tribute to the warlord buried there, including a sentient adamantine hammer that causes earthquakes when it dreams. 

The Innumerable Crimes of Gladhand Galloway: Try to claim the bounty on the world’s greatest (luckiest) thief, or perhaps stumble your way into apprenticing under him. A rival or mentor for the ages, all underpinned by tragic love and the thrill of a well planned heist. 

Sister Gissella, the Angel of the Catacombs:  Beneath a temple made famous by her healing abilities, a vampiric scholar hides away in the shadows. Too good and faithful a person to fall to the curse of undeath, and sheltered by a cabal of secretive clerics, this palid priestess’s quiet existence may be at an end when outsiders discover her formula for an elixir of life. 

Port Lancercost, the Throne of Knaves: This immensely wealthy harbor is rife with crime and dissolution, providing an amazing backdrop for a party’s roguish enterprise. While you’re at it, why not explore the numerous burnt out districts, or befriend the charming rivefolk that work the canals and barges that supply it? 

I hope you’re all doing well as we close in on the darkest time of the year. I’ll be queuing up adventure prompts for the foreseeable future, so don’t expect any drought of inspiration over the holidays.  

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Medicine

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Comas

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Broken Bones

Burns

Unconsciousness & Head Trauma

Blood Loss

Stab Wounds

Pain & Shock

All About Mechanical Injuries (Injuries Caused By Violence)

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Portraying a kleptomaniac.

Playing a character with cancer.

How to portray a power driven character.

Playing the manipulative character.

Portraying a character with borderline personality disorder.

Playing a character with Orthorexia Nervosa.

Writing a character who lost someone important.

Playing the bullies.

Portraying the drug dealer.

Playing a rebellious character.

How to portray a sociopath.

How to write characters with PTSD.

Playing characters with memory loss.

Playing a pyromaniac.

How to write a mute character.

How to write a character with an OCD.

How to play a stoner.

Playing a character with an eating disorder.

Portraying a character who is anti-social.

Portraying a character who is depressed.

How to portray someone with dyslexia.

How to portray a character with bipolar disorder.

Portraying a character with severe depression.

How to play a serial killer.

Writing insane characters.

Playing a character under the influence of marijuana.

Tips on writing a drug addict.

How to write a character with HPD.

Writing a character with Nymphomania.

Writing a character with schizophrenia.

Writing a character with Dissociative Identity Disorder.

Writing a character with depression.

Writing a character who suffers from night terrors.

Writing a character with paranoid personality disorder.

How to play a victim of rape.

How to play a mentally ill/insane character.

Writing a character who self-harms.

Writing a character who is high on amphetamines.

How to play the stalker.

How to portray a character high on cocaine.

Playing a character with ADHD.

How to play a sexual assault victim.

Writing a compulsive gambler.

Playing a character who is faking a disorder.

Playing a prisoner.

Portraying an emotionally detached character.

How to play a character with social anxiety.

Portraying a character who is high.

Portraying characters who have secrets.

Portraying a recovering alcoholic.

Portraying a sex addict.

How to play someone creepy.

Portraying sexually/emotionally abused characters.

Playing a character under the influence of drugs.

Playing a character who struggles with Bulimia.

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A student once asked anthropologist Margaret Mead, “What is the earliest sign of civilization?” The student expected her to say a clay pot, a grinding stone, or maybe a weapon. Margaret Mead thought for a moment, then she said, “A healed femur.” A femur is the longest bone in the body, linking hip to knee. In societies without the benefits of modern medicine, it takes about six weeks of rest for a fractured femur to heal. A healed femur shows that someone cared for the injured person, did their hunting and gathering, stayed with them, and offered physical protection and human companionship until the injury could mend. Mead explained that where the law of the jungle—the survival of the fittest—rules, no healed femurs are found. The first sign of civilization is compassion, seen in a healed femur.

— Ira Byock, The Best Care Possible: A Physician’s Quest to Transform Care Through the End of Life (x)

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