I am becoming convinced that able-bodied people do not actually know what experiencing pain is like based on the way they talk about it.
To me, developing chronic pain gave me this moment where I was like, "Oh, this is what being in pain is ACTUALLY like. I am 24, and I have to learn how to be in pain." Sure, I've had twisted ankles, I broke my arm, I've had the flu. Temporary pain hurts and is valid, but you don't learn how to actually be in pain until you are in it all the time. It's a hard lesson to learn.
I can always tell when teachers have kids of their own bc I always make them switch from teacher mode to parent mode. Earlier today, my pe teacher was said his normal chill "Have a good one" to my classmate, then I walk by defaulting to my whispery please-don't-yell-at-me voice and he immediately is all like "Yeah ^-^ You have a good day kid :)" like sir u have a toddler don't u.
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Call me harsh but if your argument is 'but aro people can still date/asexual people can still have sex!' when we're talking about a character who's canonically repulsed... You're a moron.
The same people bending over backwards to erase aro and ace rep, sometimes actual writers on that media, are the same ones who'll piss themselves if a character with no confirmed sexuality is headcanoned as aro or ace.
If you have no issues with a confirmed repulsed character getting shipped romantically or sexually then you shouldn't have an issue with characters who have had romantic or sexual relationships getting headcanoned as aro or ace, but you do, because you who can't handle that some people's lives don't revolve around getting laid or being in a relationship.
AND YES I HAVE MADE MULTIPLE POSTS ABOUT THIS TOPIC BECAUSE IT ANNOYS ME. IM PETTY. IM WHINY. SUE ME.
Sometimes, I like to think that people are the product of their time alive. A conglomeration of experiences. It hurts me to think that way because then I would be nothing more than a photo album full of fear and abuse. Other times I think that maybe there is something innate to a person. Some part of them that can't be taken away. It hurts just as much to think like that. To think that maybe there's some part of me that's locked away, or torn to unrecognizable shreds. Most of the time I think it's both. It hurts, but I live with it.
Being AuDHD I keep having these super big religious awakenings and then like completely forgetting about it.
Getting up in the middle of the night to drink the coldest glass of water I can make through a metal straw so quickly the ice doesn't even begin to melt.
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