Your soul knows. It will let you know when it's time to distance yourself from people who no longer align with you mentally, emotionally, physically, or energetically.
Having an emotionally mature partner is TOP TIER. You're able to express yourself freely and openly. They don’t insult you. They don't give you the silent treatment. They don't become aggressive or manipulative. They listen, they respond—they patiently hold a safe space for you.
Normalize not forcing people to choose you. If they think they can find better elsewhere – let them. Respectfully.
“Life changes.
You lose love. You lose friends. You lose pieces of yourself that you never imagined would be gone.
And then, without you even realizing it, these pieces come back.
New love enters. Better friends come along. And a stronger, wiser you is staring back in the mirror.”
~Preetham Mohanty
Who sees all beings in his own self and his own self in all beings, loses all fear.
— The Upanishads
“the realization or fulfillment of one's talents and potentialities, especially considered as a drive or need present in everyone.”
“Be conscious of yourself, watch your mind, give it your full attention. Don’t look for quick results; there may be none within your noticing. Unknown to you, your psyche will undergo a change; there will be more clarity in your thinking, charity in your feeling, purity in your behavior. You need not aim at these—you will witness the change all the same. For, what you are now is the result of inattention and what you become will be the fruit of attention.”
— Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj
Maintaining mystery is a lost art in the age of social media and distractions.
As a collective, we are constantly being pushed to overshare, show off and rush into relationships, jobs and experiences, just to feel relevant. This mentality isn't healthy, it is basic insecurity.
Mystery however, shows inner comfortability and self confidence, which is a character trait that captivates. Like a slow burning flame, take your time instead of rushing against the clock to burn out.
IN SEDUCTION TIMING IS KEY
Most relationship taught me the more chances you give someone, the less they value you. They aren't afraid to lose you bcoz they know no matter what, you won't walk away. Never let anyone get too comfortable disrespecting you. Love yourself & choose distance over disrespect.
Go towards your fears don’t run from them.