Me: I want to be a stay at home wife/mom because of my husband!!! I love having the opportunity to serve him as often as possible and makes his life easier whenever I can by taking care of the kids and our home
Society:
“WhY wHat doEs He dO fOr yoU??”
“WHy ShoUld yOu haVe tO SuBmit, thAts sO SeXist”
“ThAts sO wRong, whY aRen’t yOu a FeMiniSt tHis iS wHy tHe paTriaRcHy iS sTill aRouNd”
I know if I tell my very traditional husband about traditionalism and all that, he'll be bemused... "me ? But I'm just a husband."
His "just a husband" is so much more... He takes his responsibilities seriously, providing, protecting etc. But for him, it's not a big deal... it's what being a husband is.
What do you think is the best part of embracing a traditionalist dynamic?
I think the best part is being able to truly step into my femininity. I spent most of my childhood & teenage years being told that I was (effectively) a broken man and needed to girlboss. I wasn’t able to express how much I wanted to be a wife & mom and how much I wanted to devote myself to my family or heavily prefer dresses and skirts. I feel like I’ve always been told I’m a defective boy, but with the more traditionalist dynamic, I’m told I’m a woman, and that’s a beautiful thing to be.
if you are a woman who wants to be a wife and a mother its actually important that the man you say yes to date, be in a relationship with, and marry actually has skills, resources, and drive. its important that he is honorable and his actions show it. its important he is *actually,* not just conceptually, capable of making a life for you both and any children. him just wanting to be with you, or worse - simply agreeing to be with you....is not enough. that is the ground level. please do better!
Beauty schedule from 1952 💄👗🎀
Noooooo don't indoctrinate your own children into your family's system of beliefs and values you have to let us indoctrinate them into the state's system of beliefs and values that includes rejecting their family and parents' instruction you are literally evil for wanting to raise your own children in your own home without letting us undermine you nooooo
Remember and take some time today to pray for those that feel like they're unworthy of prayer.
„You look so beautiful today.“ Me:
✨ 22✨ USA 🇺🇸📍✨ Happily Married 💍✨ ✨ Homemaker ✨ Catholic 🇻🇦✨ ✨Mother ✨
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