Noooooo Don't Indoctrinate Your Own Children Into Your Family's System Of Beliefs And Values You Have

Still working on the “wearing dresses” part.

I want traditions. I want good china and cutlery that we only use on special occasions. I want to go on holiday twice a year. I want my hair and nails done once a month. I want to make you dinner every night and serve you first. I want an allowance. I want to ask permission for big purchases. I want to be the type of woman who says “I’ll have to ask my husband.” I want you to choose what I eat in restaurants. I want you to make the big decisions and I want to defer. I want to look after your every whim. I want to be your idea of perfection.

More importantly, I want you to want that too.

something: is pink

me: i’m fucking sold

Literally no one in the pro life movement actually believes miscarriage care, ectopic pregnancies, and pregnancy complications are equivalent to abortions. That’s a pro choice fantasy. Here’s proof from the laws themselves:

Credit to Minnesota Citizens Concerned for Life

Why I love being a traditional wife

I get to decorate our house the way I want to(my husband has left that to me in its entirety+it helps we have similar aesthetic tastes)

I don't have to bicker and nag him about doing the chores in an "imperfect" way

I can create my own schedule and switch around chores, hobbies and rest

I can volunteer and learn new things in a more relaxed manner than I would if I had a day job

I can put more effort into my appearance and demeanor and inculcate a sweet attitude as most of my worries are quite minor

I can give my husband an organised lifestyle and more detailed care and affection

I can host dinner parties or entertain family or friends on his behalf and help him maintain good societal relations

I can care for his family members when he's not around so he doesn't have to worry about them as well as they don't feel neglected by their son

I wouldn’t be where I am today if it weren’t for the grace, love, and mercy of God.

Good reasons to not be Catholic:

If it’s not true. (But it is.) (So there’s actually no good reasons.) (So you should look up your local parish and contact them about RCIA.) (Heck you can even just go to one of the Masses today and ask the priest afterwards.)

Anonyme, Vierge à l'Enfant, Nostre Dame de Grâce, v. 1451-1475, Musée des Augustins, Toulouse

Update: he was SO over the moon when we finally got to eat it, he said it’s the best he’s ever had. I will have to be careful and save it for special occasions or else I will end up with a chubby husband 🤣💕

Something I never thought I’d do:

My husband mentioned before we got married that he loves cheesecake. I took a mental note but was too busy working to actually do anything about it.

Since I came home in October, and he came home from deployment, I’ve been less stressed and happy as can be. So what did I do tonight?

I baked a cheesecake simply because he likes it.

That is something I never thought I’d do.