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I am not on here to find a husband. I am not on here to encourage the sexualization of traditional values.

I just enjoy posting about femininity and homemaking, neither of which are inherently sexual. If you'd like to message me to chat about those topics, I welcome the conversation! Otherwise, don't bother.

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How to Make Your Husband Feel Valued and Appreciated

Marriage is a beautiful partnership, and showing your husband how much he means to you strengthens your bond. Here are some thoughtful ways to make your husband feel loved and appreciated:

1. Speak Words of Affirmation

Compliment him often—whether it’s about his hard work, his character, or how much you love him. Simple phrases like, “I’m so proud of you” or “You make me feel so loved” go a long way.

2. Show Gratitude

Say “thank you” for the little things he does. Whether it’s fixing something around the house, being a great listener, or helping with chores, let him know you notice and appreciate it.

3. Plan Quality Time Together

Make time for intentional one-on-one moments. Whether it’s a date night, a walk, or just sitting and talking without distractions, giving him your undivided attention makes him feel prioritized.

4. Surprise Him with Acts of Service

Do something thoughtful that shows you care, like making his favorite meal, organizing something he’s been meaning to tackle, or leaving a note in his lunch.

5. Encourage His Dreams

Support his goals and aspirations. Whether it’s a career milestone or a personal hobby, show that you believe in him and cheer him on.

6. Pray for Him

There’s no greater gift than praying for your husband. Lift him up in prayer daily, asking God to guide, protect, and bless him. Let him know you’re praying for him—it will touch his heart deeply.

7. Be His Biggest Cheerleader

Celebrate his wins, no matter how big or small. Show enthusiasm for his achievements and let him know you’re his #1 fan.

8. Be Physically Affectionate

Never underestimate the power of touch. Hold his hand, give him hugs often, or leave a kiss on his cheek—these small gestures convey warmth and love.

9. Respect and Honor Him

Speak well of him to others, especially in public. Your words and actions should reflect how much you admire and respect him.

10. Write Him a Love Note

Leave a heartfelt note for him to find, expressing your love and appreciation. It’s a simple but meaningful way to make him feel cherished. 💗

Making your husband feel valued doesn’t have to be complicated. A little intentionality and thoughtfulness can go a long way in showing him how much he means to you 🌷

With love,

Thatgentlewife

I think housedresses are a thing we need to bring back in a major way. Flowy, loose dresses are so comfortable and great for house chores. I also am of the opinion that if you take time for yourself to look good, you are more productive, happier, and confident. You also don't even need to do much to look put together, just wear a dress and put your hair in a ponytail and you look great. Also, almost all of my housedresses from the 50s-70s contain pockets.

This hit me deep

Me: I want to be a stay at home wife/mom because of my husband!!! I love having the opportunity to serve him as often as possible and makes his life easier whenever I can by taking care of the kids and our home

Society:

“WhY wHat doEs He dO fOr yoU??”

“WHy ShoUld yOu haVe tO SuBmit, thAts sO SeXist”

“ThAts sO wRong, whY aRen’t yOu a FeMiniSt tHis iS wHy tHe paTriaRcHy iS sTill aRouNd”

Howl's Moving Castle dir. Hayao Miyazaki | 2004