[ID: screenshot of a Reddit comment by stayinur_laneboy that reads:
"I feel like a lot of trans people feel this imposter syndrome, for a variety of reasons. So I'll be here to affirm you. The toys you played with as a kid do not determine your gender. The way you felt as a kid doesn't even determine your gender. My concept of gender now is much more developed then the concept I had of gender as a toddler. I played with dolls as a kid, a lot -- I still collect dolls. I like them. I'm also a man. Sue me (laughing emoji)
When I was a teenage "girl," I wanted a boob job. I wanted to have porn star gigantic boobs. Currently, I bind until my ribs bruise (don't do this). For me, looking back, I didn't feel like I was a girl, but I desperately wanted to, so I could be "normal"— in my 14 year old head, if I had gigantic boobs, I could prove to myself and everyone else that I was a woman, and feminine. Every trans person has a different path, and that doesn't make it fake. Not everyone has the exact same experiences."
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Begging you to stop degendering multigender people.
Begging you to stop using they/them when I’ve told you my pronouns are he/she.
Begging you to stop acting like I can’t relate to women experiences because I’m a man.
Begging you to stop acting like I can’t relate to men experiences because I’m a woman.
Begging you to treat me like my genders.
Begging you to realize the girl part of boygirl is as trans as the boy part.
Begging you to stop grouping multigender people as girl multigender or boy multigender.
Begging you to recognize multigender people who aren’t binary genders.
Some nonbinary people don't have a gender.
Some nonbinary people are a third gender.
Some nonbinary people are both a man and a woman.
Some nonbinary people are between man and woman.
Some nonbinary people are a few genders at once.
Some nonbinary people change their gender periodically.
Some nonbinary people have different amounts of gender.
Some nonbinary people have a little bit of a certain gender.
Some nonbinary people don't understand their gender.
They are all nonbinary.
(I'm sure I missed some, and for some more than one may resonate. Add in your own!)
everyone leaves you eventually. the truth of it all is: we are alone. born alone and die alone. the only person who can save you is yourself.
2,121,566 people are not Amanda and counting!
We’ll find you Amanda.
My favorite part about being sapphic is when the things I love about other women become things I love about myself. One day I was tracing another woman’s stretch marks in a dim bedroom light. And then, seemingly by accident, I was doing it to myself in my bathroom mirror. I loved the feeling of a full hand of flesh when I grabbed a woman’s hips, and then mine didn’t need to be so skinny anymore. I looked at a woman’s lower stomach pudge and thought it was so soft and cute, then never wanted a flat stomach again. Loving women can be so healing when you come from a world that doesn’t.
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