The Jetsetting Chick And IT Girl Guide

Top Three Places To Freestyle

1. Steakhouses

Who doesn’t like a medium to medium well Filet Mignon with a glass of champagne? Your best days to go are on Wednesday, Thursday or Friday.

2. Cigar Lounges

Cigar lounges has an specific type of ambiance that draws attention, not to mention, you will get a different type of crowd and the crowd I’m talking about are men from foreign countries. Think about the men from Dubai, Italy etc. These men are often in groups of 6 or more due to personal experiences, men from foreign countries are often generous.

3. Hotel Lounges

Whether you would like to go to The W for Happy Hour or Four Season, just know that when you go to a hotel that has a bar, it’s a no brainier that these men are visiting, therefore these men are great to interact with simply because they are traveling for business or pleasure.

You never know, he may want you to travel with him to his next destination.

I’m so scared to tour. The thought of being alone in another state scares me. But I want some REAL money and my city is such a cheapskate

How do you manage all your clients?

I have a reminders app on my phone. Plus I don’t take as much clients because I prefer to be low volume.

When he says he doesn’t feel comfortable with allowances...

Here’s something that’s been in my drafts folder for a while. Based on some of the posts I’ve read recently, I think it might come in handy…PLEASE DO NOT COPY AND PASTE. READ CRITICALLY. Take bits and pieces, make it your own, or summarize it in some way as a come back for those messages, texts, or dinner dates.

Him: Hi. Thanks for reaching out to my earlier message. Your pics are beautiful. While I completely understand the importance of chemistry…but should we get to a point where this matters, I’m a little uncomfortable with having our relationship defined by allowances. As I said in my profile, I am quite generous, and understand the importance of ‘spoiling my partner’ but still, the set allowance would probably not work for me. I hope you understand my thoughts….

Me: Thank you for your thoughts. I understand that you are in search of an escape and so am I. My escape would involve a real connection and a refined lifestyle. I am a little uncomfortable with having a relationship that is only defined by sex… especially when the guy is attached and somewhat unavailable. I’m a beautiful young woman with no lack of suitors. I have a busy social life and I’m currently working to build a business/ pursuing my degree. I chose this kind of relationship in part because I have so little time for love. That’s not to say that my (romantic) time is not very valuable to me. It is. What I don’t value are shoes, handbags, and/or expensive dinners. These are things that I can purchase myself. Furthermore, these do nothing for me in the long run as much as say you investing in my company/ education would. I hope you understand that I’d need tangible showings… actions that illustrate I am valued… that my companion wants to put a smile on my face/ make me feel special/wants the best for me. AN ALLOWANCE WOULD DO THAT FOR ME. By the same token, I want my companion to feel comfortable telling me specifically how I could put a smile on his face/make HIM feel special/ valued. In any case, I am a rare catch and therefore am in no rush to find the man who “gets it” and me. Good luck on your search!

Now doesn’t this sound better than saying “Bitch Please! I am hot and young and you want me to spend my time on your old ass while your wife gets the unlimited credit card and I get nada! FUCK YOU!”

What’s your workout routine/ diet. Because that body is goals sis 🤩

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Well recently I’ve been on a champagne diet and that’s not good 😆 But I try my best.

Eat raw vegetables at least once a day. No salt, no oil. Cut a bunch of veggies green peppers, celery etc and chew your food properly. You need to chew your food slowly!

There’s sugar in everything: ketchup, sauces etc keep that in mind! And do not drink soda! Soda truly is poison. I understand that it’s close to impossible to get away from the sugary drinks completely. I got hooked on Starbucks green tea matcha latte lol But I’m very careful and only order it every 3-4 days as a dessert.

I fast once a week meaning I only drink water that day. Sometimes if I’m too tired or dizzy while fasting, I’d eat a piece of protein ( e.g. a small piece of chicken breast or a boiled egg).

I’m a professionally trained ballet dancer. I did ballet from the age of 5 till 16. So I’m used to extreme dieting. I attended ballet school where I lived Monday - Friday. They’d weigh us and take measurements every week, sometimes every other day! So I’m very disciplined when it comes to my diet.

I do ballet workouts at home and attend classes/workshops for dancers with a ballet background,like me every other week, sometimes more frequently. I also do reformer Pilates with a personal trainer. And HIIT classes every other week. 100 push ups every day . A lot of stretching.

Typically I don’t eat anything 5 hours before going to bed.

If you need to lose weight, it’s better to concentrate on your diet and then figure out your workout regimen. It’s really quite simply you need to create calorie deficit meaning you need to spend more calories than you consume. It’s always uncomfortable and WILL make you tired and hungry. It’s important not to go crazy with it but there’s no other way and it will be uncomfortable. But doing both diet and working out as you’re actively losing weight is very difficult, and I wouldn’t recommend it. It’s too much. Depends of course how much weight you need to lose.

𝐀𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐍𝐞𝐰 𝐘𝐞𝐚𝐫 ✨

- I am my top priority.

- I do not feel guilty when I reject offers that do not benefit me.

- I allow myself to live a life of luxury.

- I start every day from a place of gratitude because I recognize how blessed I am.

- I am selective with the friendships that I cultivate because I realize not everyone is supposed to have intimate access to me.

- I protect my time, because I know it’s nonrefundable.

- I protect my energy, because I know I cannot give what I don’t have.

- I allow others to do for me graciously.

- I allow myself experience beautiful things.

- I am working towards becoming my highest self every day.

- I am worthy of selfless love.

- I am worthy of good things.

- I am precious.

- I matter to the world.

- I am a lady of luxury.

 i really luv girls who spoil themselves and who are self-absorbed and cocky and know that they’re fly and popping like ugh yes

How do you phone reverse?

It’s easy-First you want to google the number using quotations as in “444-44-4444” - That will allow searches of all the variations of that number.The searches should provide you with all the results were the number appears or is registered .Spokeo is a golden mine. The service costs 0.99 the search or 7$ the month - it will allow you to reverse any number and find the name, address, criminal charges, property records ect.The free option of Spokeo only gives you the carrier it is registered to, and the location of the user (which is sometimes all you need to back up someone’s story)But if you want to go free - They are far better options- White Pages : my favorite - it is a people and public record search. It allows a phone reverse search or simply a name search. It provides you with name , criminal records (as little as traffic ticket), employers, education, address (city-state), and relatives (if registered)- Anywho: another alternative to White Pages with weekly updated database - same information provided.-Www.addresses.com offers similar services- Spydialer: one of my personal favorites. It allows reverse with cellphone names and even emails (you can use that option to see which other site the emails was linked with and find linkedin facebook ect) - Spydialer will also provide available pictures (another fact-check)-ReversePhoneLookUp.com : it does not always come up with accurate results and in that case it will provide general location - call complaints and phone service.While it works better with landlines than cells - it offers : name, location of number registration, email and owner’s address.

If none of these work - Social media is your best bet- Facebook: simply type the number in the facebook search bar. If it associated to an account, the latter will pop up regardless of privacy settings or friends status (you don’t need to send them a friend request to view the profile to which the number is linked to)

Hope this helps.If you have any other questions please feel free to ask me !

Capitol xoxo

Keeping Regular Escort Clients

Keeping regular clients is one of the most important things you can do as an escort. When I was making $30000 a month as an escort before I retired, $25000 of that was from regular clients and $5000 was from random clients calling and booking an hour here or there. If I never had repeat escort clients and I always depended on seeing new clients, I would have never been able to scale back from seeing 5 clients a day to only 1 a day. Having regular clients who you can depend on seeing makes your job so much easier.

One of the easiest ways to turn a client from a one timer to a a regular client is by asking when you’re going to see them again. Tell them how much you enjoyed your time with them and let them know you’re dying to see them again. You’ll be surprised by how many clients actually ended up booking you again and again from just saying that. If I didn’t tell a client that (because I forgot) it was almost 50/50 on whether they would call me or not. If I told them something like

“Wow, I really loved our time together. When can we see each other again?”

They’d reply “Ummm, I’m not sure.. I’ll have to check”

“Of course, sorry I didn’t mean to put you on the spot… I just got a little excited! Would it be okay if I emailed you?”

If they agreed, I’d shoot them an email almost immediately from my blackberry saying how amazing they are and that I can’t wait for the next time. I’d keep in touch via email and it was almost 99% of them that I’d end up seeing again, and then again and again. Sure, it was aggressive on my part, but this is a business. If you can’t be a little pushy in order to get your foot in the door then you’re in the wrong business. There’s 1000s of escorts working in every city and if you offer a good service but can’t make the effort to keep in touch with clients then they will simply move on. But if you make that extra effort to keep in touch with them on a personal level it will extend your ROI on your advertising dollars.

It’s important to say though that if you’re disinterested in the conversation, in bed you’re lazy and unenthusiastic and then you try and keep in touch afterwards it’s not going to help you out. You need to make as strong of a connection with them as you can in your time together and then follow it up.

There are a lot of other ways to turn clients into regulars, but I think it’s just a lot of common sense. If someone books for an hour, stay for an hour and 15 minutes or an hour and a half. Don’t watch the clock. Be on time, every time. Make sure you’re always fresh. Cater to fantasies, wear school girl uniforms, bring handcuffs and a blindfold, remember your clients birthdays and special dates. All of this stuff builds up a relationship between you and your clients and the strong they feel your relationship with them is, the more likely they are to give you gifts, take you on trips, book you for 5 hours instead of 1 hour, etc.

The biggest problem you’re going to run into is your clients asking to see you off the clock. I would have two different responses to this.

One response was for clients whom I felt weren’t that wealthy and were looking for financial relief from our relationship.. I would simply tell them that I’m a very busy girl and I can’t afford to take time off the clock. I will clear my schedule for them any time because I prefer to spend time with them over any of my other clients, but I just can’t afford to make time for any man that’s off the clock cause I’m losing money twice. They usually get the idea.

My other response is if I feel they’re just looking for a deeper connection but they’re very wealthy. In that case I tell them I have the same types of feelings towards them and I’d like to see them off the clock as well, but I’d need to make sure that I’m being taken care of. If they agree I would ask them to take care of my monthly bills and let them know that you have other long time clients whom you cannot stop seeing, maybe at some point in the future but not now. So essentially if they’re willing to give me 5k a month, I’ll see them off the clock one or two times a week. I find this to be very mutually beneficial and if you can get 3-4 clients in this type of arrangement you’ll end up making a lot more than if you only stayed on the clock.

As I am writing this I am feeling that what I am saying involves a lot of deceit and cold heartedness and so I just want to take a moment to say that although it may come off that way, it was never my intention to be like that with any of my clients. Take for example your local corner store, if you go in there every day and buy a cup of coffee or whatever, and then one day you walk in and tell them you’re moving to the other side of town, they’re going to say “awww, that’s too bad – we’re going to miss you” They’re actually thinking shoot, we’re losing a regular customer. I know being an escort involves intimacy and so exchanging a hello and good bye on a daily basis with the owner of your local corner store is different then someone you’re having a sexual relationship with. However a business is a business, and a service provided is a service provided. You need to be able to care about your customers in an intimate way, but ultimately be able to take a step back and make decisions that are business orientated. I didn’t start escorting to fall in love with a client. I started escorting to make money and I never took my eyes off the goal.

Dating a broke man is stupid, marrying a broke man is even dumber and having children with a broke man is child abuse.