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do not stop talking about Palestine!

there are Shut It Down For Palestine actions planned for Friday, look for one in your area if you can. they're not all registered on the Shut It Down website, so check social media as well as their list.

this post is gonna talk about pro-shippers btw

So, i dont get why pro-shippers are bad? but i also dont get why they do it at the same time, so i would like to hear from both sides as to why they should do what they do, and/or why the other side is bad

i want to be educated and i will do my own research, but i want peoples opinions

thx! (please be RESPECTFUL to everyone responding)

Here’s a friendly reminder!

You are allowed to say ‘no’.

You are allowed to hang up the phone.

You are allowed to ignore calls.

You are allowed to delete emails, texts and messages.

You are allowed to ignore the doorbell.

You are allowed to decline invitations.

You are allowed to lie about why you can’t / won’t go. 

You are allowed to refuse gifts or give them away.

You are allowed to prioritize yourself or your friends over family.

You are allowed to leave. 

You are allowed to leave without saying goodbye. 

You are allowed to withhold politeness to those who disrespect you.

You are allowed to express your anger.

You are allowed to shut someone out. 

Solidarity Summer is well and truly ramping up. AS IT FUCKING SHOULD.

gender and sexuality is a fickle thing. sometimes two gay cisgender men will be dating for decades and one of them will turn out to be a transgender woman. a lot of times that won't work out but sometimes it will. her partner may still choose to identify as gay. She might even identify as gay, and they continue to be happily in love. Queer politics isn't going to get any better if you don't accept that situations like that happen every day.

HELP needed covering rent and bills. Please spread!

I was already kind of screwed over monetarily with my hours getting cut back to about half of what they were but it got worse. Tuesday (09/19/23) I got into an car accident while on my way to work.

While I walked away mostly unscathed I received a minor fracture on my right hand and my scooter (my primary transportation to work) is totally busted.

I only really need about $250 to make it cozily through this bill cycle without facing any late fees.

The fracture is unfortunately on my dominant hand so I can't comfortably offer commission or sketch requests until the splint is off unless you're fine with waiting.

All the links, @'s, and etc

CashApp: $neroangelus

Paypal: @leonleonhart

Chime: $leonleonhart

Ko-Fi: leonleonhart

Link to my doodle tag if you would like to send a request through DMs or Ko-Fi

Believe me I am so grateful to have been able to pick myself up and walk away from the accident it's still screwed me over for the next couple weeks.

picture of roommates cat as compensation for your time

Proof and such under read more if that's something you need

after visit release and splint

my poor poor scooter

The more I get back into liking, loving and lusting on people, the more I'm reminded what a sanitized, segregated lie queers have been built into.

I've met the sweetest, prettiest queens who tell me "Well, I'm a transsexual. Sometimes I call myself a transman because both my trans self and my manhood are me."

New friends tell me about the sexcapades their closed polycule gets up to that they just watch because they're a kinky ace.

There's staunch lesbians who helped the love of their life transition as a transmasc, gay men begging to be topped by trans men with the fattest tits.

Older queers don't hesitate to shout "oh, like Prince!" when I tell them I'm androgyne. Vanilla questioning men will text me day after day before shyly confessing I'm their dream guy. Closeted trans women ask to kiss me because I'm their dream girl. Doms and subs who melt when they realize I'm both and neither, and they didn't know somebody like me existed.

There's vanilla lesbians on Grindr and acearos who have shown me love deeper than I thought possible and guydykes kissing girlfags and MtFtMtX elders and throuples that have so much affection that they just collectively parent babygays who got disowned.

Everybody is so beautiful! There is so much love! It is no wonder a cruel world has a vested interest in suppressing queerness when humanity is so expansive to us.

we are in a media literacy crisis