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so bearing in mind that t4t was invented by, to be about, transfems, how would you have transmascs who connect with that concept go forward from here? would you want us to come up with our own thing or just try to handle using t4t with more like, awareness and respect and stuff? if youd like to pitch in

genuine question and you definitely dont have to answer, if you answer harshly i wont take it personally haha

listen, there's no reason to give up using it. that cat is out of the bag and it's not really possible to make the space exclusive again, and personally i don't think it would be better that way. all i want and what the transfems i've also seen talk about this seem to want is for the transmascs and straight trans women who use t4t to remember its history and not feel the need to step up and correct or shut down conversations that are being had by transfem 4 transfem lesbians, we do still have our own little community even if it only used to be called t4t and we should remain an autonomous party in conversations about both t4t and our own community. basically don't butt in like that last anon did.

and thank you for asking that's absolutely the right question to ask when you find out your terms are taken from a marginalized group you don't belong to, the answer will vary depending on the situation but the question is always good

"get a job" "unemployed behaviour" okay but like. girl your ableism

One thing about me is I will never abide by anyone who calls themselves "detrans" with any level of pride

really interestingly damaging theme in my relationships with cisgender women and tme trans people (b4 i got wise) was a monopolisation on suffering. it was implied where it was not outright stated along an ideological line that might as well have been womanhood (from which u r excluded) is suffering. this was completely inseparable, by the way, from the inordinate amount of unpaid care work i was expected to perform to show due sensitivity as a boyfriend partner. care work that has by exhausting me since seriously compromised my health. carework that, when ceased, repeatedly collapsed relationships with it.

okay i want you to imagine a cylinder that is infinitely long. okay now i want you to start rotating this cylinder in your mindnim ruoy ni rednilyc siht gnitator trats ot uoy tnaw i won yako .llat yletinifni si taht rednilyc a enigami ot uoy tnaw i yako

A recent post breached containment so I think it's time for some rent lowering:

Trans children should have the right to undergo the correct puberty at the same time as their peers.

Puberty blockers were only ever a compromise and should not be seen as the end goal of trans advocacy.

'you wouldn't pirate a-' i would steal anything from any company. anything in the world. i dont even want it i just hate you

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