One particular girl is incredibly undervalued since she only asks for affection from people who write handwritten notes, buy her a bunch of flowers, and do the bare minimum. She reads novels and develops a romantic relationship with the imaginary world. She loses herself in poetry and romance novels instead of the real world since she is aware that people here want to be in immature relationships that will never lead anywhere.
Girl friendships>>>>>
while glorifying males and their unmatched loyalty in friendships, we forgot where we learnt friendship from and ironically we learn it from our girl friends. People say that men are big at their heart and they would do anything for their "bros" but the truth is I've never come across a single woman who would not become a saviour every time I would need a pad in a public loo, and mind you, we may not even know each other. People say women gossip a lot, but my girls were the ones who sat through the nights with me listening to my unhinged stories when I felt like I would never feel understood. People say women fight over petty things, but my girls were the ones who helped me get out of bed every morning when my depression would be so bad and the world would say I'm overreacting. People say women easily get jealous, but somehow it's always these girls who are catching me up if I miss the lecture some day and every time I compliment a girl's dress, she would tell me where she got it from, or if I tell a girl her lipstick looks fine, she would give me the exact shade code. People say women are silly, and I agree, because only my girls would sit with me and listen to my silly conversations with my silly crush again and again and give a proper reaction every time. I could tell a guy friend the biggest problem of my life, and the most he'd say would be: "it'll be okay, bro", but my girls? I'd tell my girl friends about my slightly disturbed bowel movements, and after running a detailed analysis on why that could be, she would continue to ask me follow up questions for weeks, even when I'd have forgotten it. Women are honestly the creatures of heart, no one can do love and friendship better than them, but somehow the society has fooled us into believing that its uncool to be a woman, and that men have better, durable bonds with each other. Not to compare or anything, but the world suicide rates suggest otherwise. I'm grateful every day for being a woman, and for my girlies ♡
Its really important!
You see a post like this? Where OP might hurt/kill themselves? You hit that button that I circled
Hit that.
Click Suicide or Self-harm Concern
Yes.
Fill in the rest of it, and hit submit. The "content you reported" will fill itself in
Tumblr will follow up and help them.
This could SAVE SOMEONE'S LIFE.
heart - shaped scallion found In pho . reblog for good luck & yummy soup 500000 forwver
Appears to be a typical nerd with impressive academic brains. But he is the source of brightness in my otherwise dreary life. Although everyone thinks he is a bookworm, in my opinion, he is a poet who is hopelessly romantic but don't show it. He must be treated with care because he has a pure soul.
Getting two likes when you share a piece of your writing while that shit post you made at 3am gets 200 notes really is a different kind of pain. We need to reblog each others writing more. Much much more.
"I made a mistake in what I did. The past few days, I didn't feel like myself. I was being brutal and rude. According to what you've told me, all the men in your life—aside from your father—have treated you cruelly and crudely. And I've devoted my entire being to avoiding being one of those. Unfortunately, I have in fact joined that group. I apologise." (a note found in a guy's diary)
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[from left to right] 1. shashikant dhotre / 2-3. s. elayaraja / 4. a. ramachandran / 5-9. s. elayaraja