I Don’t Know If A Term Like This Exists Already So I Made My Own And I’m Sharing It

Hey! We’ve got a headmate who’s still coming together and could use some help finishing up. They don’t really have any preferences, but they want to be inspired by the song ‘The Whole Being Dead Thing’ from Beetlejuice—just the song, not the characters.

If it’s not your thing or you can’t help, no worries! Have an awesome day! :)

Yes I can! :D

change anything you don’t like, and be sure to tell me what you think! :) I’m looking to improve and want your feedback

Name: Aeron, Donn, Hades, Hel, Odin.

nicknames: The Dead One

Honorifics: The Dead, The Guide

pronouns: He/him❣️ they/them❣️ They/them❣️ he/him❣️ dead/deads/deadself❣️ zom/bie❣️ chaos/chaos’s/chaosself❣️ attack/helicopter❣️ (see antigender in gender)

typing quirks: using forms of punctuation incorrectly, often being sarcastic even if it’s to no benefit of them, just to annoy people.

gender: Demiboy🧟, livingdeadboycorpse🧟 https://pin.it/4KP0uLLct , deadboy🧟 https://pin.it/2eOPMCnPb , Rotgender🧟 https://pin.it/3agoVfMAZ , genderbouffon🧟 https://pin.it/ZnSoMSNt7 , Villochaotic🧟 https://pin.it/1GpQJ3au5 , Antigender🧟 https://pin.it/1yK2CIjtZ , Chaosgender🧟 https://pin.it/7npxEvVEG , Questioning🧟

orientation: aceflux❣️ https://pin.it/6j8eqm00k

species: Ghost/Spectre, shapeshifter

age: Forever 26

personality: Chaos incarnate, sarcastic, hyperactive, silly, larger than life, often extreme, but easygoing. Surprisingly helpful when they need to be.

quirks: chews on everything they own. Cannot be trusted around scissors. Can be found rotating like a plate in the microwave when there is nothing else for dead to do. Shifts forms constantly, even if it’s just minor changes.

likes: Snakes, reptiles, and creepy crawlies.

dislikes: People who try to stop his chaos.

role: Aggressor🧟 https://pluralpedia.org/w/Aggressor , Contrarian advisor🧟 https://pluralpedia.org/w/Contrarian_Advisor , chaosnaut🧟 https://pluralpedia.org/w/Chaosnaut , internal self helper🧟 https://pluralpedia.org/w/Internal_Self_Helper , therapist🧟 https://pluralpedia.org/w/Therapist

sign off: 🧟❣️

This is literally so system coded

Splitting much??? 👀👀👀

@funnier-as-a-system

Reblog to kill it faster

I am Imtithal from northern Gaza. I live in very difficult conditions because of the war and I struggle to provide basic necessities. I was displaced with my children 17 times in search of a safe place. There is no safe place. We suffer from a shortage of water, food, medicine and milk. Because of the famine war that we have been going through for 10 months, I need your support so that we can survive. Even if the support is simple, it helps my family a lot. Please donate and participate.

their gofundme is linked in their bio

I can’t donate myself on account of I am poor and broke but if you can please help

plural lawyer call that a justice system

YOUR HATE ISN’T PUNK

There are no punk values in your exclusionism,

There are no punk values in demeaning the lived experiences of others,

There are no punk values in making people earn their right to exist,

There are no punk values in punching down the people who live adjacent lives to you,

There are no punk values in a strict idea of systemhood and enforcing conformity to it,

There are no punk values in upholding an abusive and biased psychiatric system,

Dissect your views, uphold your community, kill that fucking cop in your head.

THERE IS NO CHANGE FOR A BETTER FUTURE IF WE CANNIBALIZE ONE ANOTHER TO UPHOLD ARBITRARY IDEALS OF WHAT A “REAL” SYSTEM IS.

@funnier-as-a-system

the system experience

>type did system into youtube search bar

>first option is "did system cringe"

>go onto reddit and type did system

>first option is fake disorder cringe

>feel fucking awful

>do a did presentation in medical class

>someone raises their hand and asks how to know if someones faking

>feel fucking awful

>tell someone you have did

>they ask if you're faking because you have a fictive

>feel fucking awful

>feel fucking awful

>feel fucking awful

>tell a close friend you have did

>they get disgusted when you say we instead of I

>look at tiktok compilations

>did cringe compilation

>follow a funny youtuber

>video on people faking did

>feel fucking awful

>try and look for resources

>psychiatrist making a presentation on how did systems looking for community is a sign of faking, uses system content without their consent

>psychiatrist making a presentation on how did systems being open is a sign of faking

>go onto tumblr

>type plural

>find post about how "the future is plural" is traumatizing children and should never ever ever happen because fuck plurals we don't need acceptance that bad right?

oh my god when does it fucking end

i’m so glad earth only has one moon, if there were more i’d have to pick a favorite and that sounds too emotionally taxing to even fathom

I actually have afew questions, I hope you don't mind!

1)I just recently saw your post about Sophie and "tulpa" and other variants of the word being harmful. I was wondering if you could give me some other terms for tulpa/tulpamancy/tulpagenic/tulpamancer/etc, especially using the terms "Willow/willowgenic"!

2) I've felt less valid as a system because I have Aphantasia and I can't hear my headmates. We speak through opinions and emotions because that's the only way we can. Do you have any ways I can work on communication with my Dudes?

3) Lastly, I've been super confident lately! But when my male/masculine presenting Dudes are near front, their dysphoric emotions probect onto me. I was wondering if this was normal and if it had a name!

That's about all I have, if any of my questions step out of your boundaries/comfort zone I'm so so so sorry!

Have a lovely timezone!!! <3/p

we don’t mind, that’s what we’re here for :)

1) here are some other terms you can use besides “tulpamancy:”

parogenic/parogen

paro/paromancy/paromancer (this is what we use!)

thoughtform

willogenic/willomate/willomancy/willomancer (though we have seen issues with this term, as some paros (tulpas) were never willed into existence and function more like walk-ins)

2) communicating through emotions and opinions is totally fine - these are definitely valid ways of communicating, especially if it works well for your system.

we know aphantasia may complicate things, but we do have a post on establishing contact with headmates. you can check it out here. your system may benefit most from spending time working on external communication, and we have a section in that post on how to do just that.

3) we’re not sure if the phenomenon of experiencing another headmate’s dysphoria has a name, but we can definitely say that it is very common for headmates to feel the emotions of other members, especially if they’re blended or cofronting together. i know i get species dysphoria and sometimes our resident human alter will feel that dysphoria when we’re cofronting together, even if he still identifies as a human. our gender dysphoria and euphoria are all over the place, and it’s very normal in our system for us to feel each other’s emotions when we’re fronting together.

we hope this helps to answer some of your questions. thanks for reaching out :)

🐢 kip and 👻 ghost