Hey! Do You Use Terms For Your System Besides "headmate", "alter", Or "facet"? This Post Is For You!

pondering my orb

SYSTEM / ALTERS ALTERNATIVE TERMS

[ 🧪 ] SCIENTIST THEMED

[ system ] — laboratory, study, observatory, amalgamation, department, cranium, organism, test site, cerebrum, nucleus, composite, datum, synthesis

[ alters ] — experiments, tests, chemicals, subjects, labrats, reactions, atoms, vials, beakers, cells, variables, theories, particles, synapses, hypotheses, creations, modules, molecules

( @disrealities was the epic inspiration btw really cool system terms )

Hot take! anti endo rhetoric is like the whole transmed rhetoric of the 2010s Internet and it’s probably going to be treated as such few years.

Think about it before the Anthony Padilla video about DID a few years ago I don’t really think anybody cared about endogenic systems. Yes some people didn’t like them but I think most people didn’t really care about systems origins because nobody really knew or cared about systems at all after the video plurality gained quite a lot of traction more people are learning about it. More people were discovering themselves systems and as a result a lot of people develop an anti endogenic mindset because of whatever reason but that really reminds me of the transmedicalism mindset of the 2010s where it was the normal to invalidate shame transgender people who has a different identity and a different experience with transgenderness.

I believe in the next few years there will be more knowledge about plurality and people will no longer feel the need to shame and invalidate endogenic and mixed origin systems systems maybe even willowgenic systems. maybe not anytime soon but maybe in the next few years I genuinely think this is the case and it will happen

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Name: Cerulean Grove

nickname: Siren

pronouns: she/her it/its/itself ae/aer 🦋/🦋s/🦋self 🪼/🪼s/🪼self

gender: Paragirl (girl makes up anywhere from 51% to 99% of aer identity), Oceangender (Xenogender with strong ties to the ocean), girlby (nonbinary woman)

orientation: Diomi (omnisexual and omniromantic whose gender preferences vary depending on whether your talking about their sexual orientation or romantic orientation)

species: A humanoid shark mermaid

age: 19

personality: Spunky and energetic but secretly very insecure.

quirks: humming to herself while swimming

likes: hunting fish

role: Any

sign off: 🪼✨

i wonder how they're doing now...

FATED MATES．   ➷

pt: fated mates. end pt.

⚘   ⌣   definition．

 a flag for mates who are fated to be together / who's fates are linked in some way!

pt: definition, a flag for mates who are fated to be together/who's fates are linked in some way! end pt.

COINER．  the sweetest boy．  ➷

⚘   ⌣   fated + mates．

TAGS．  @radiomogai @omegarchive @omegai @misceverchive @seapupz @angeltism @jigumis @zoeynovie @crossstains @chivalrynt @wailingclowns．  ➷

Please. I want to be a creature.

The final stage of every OC's creation is having to go through websites like this to name it:

Name: Avery, Connie, Grayson, Kay, Kat, Ray

nickname: Con-Con, sonnie, sunny, kit-kat, Av

pronouns: likes any and all, prefers she/her and neopronouns

typing quirks: Putting multiple exclamation marks in sentences, using lots of run on sentences and not caring about punctuation. Uses a lot of emoticons to react to things like: :3 :0 :( :) :,( :,)

gender: Genderfluid✨, Amicagender✨ https://pin.it/4MZZrHU2g , gendersylphen✨ https://pin.it/167RKPumy , genderrund✨ https://pin.it/1hB9uioqJ , gender hoarder✨ https://pin.it/4569BFOC6 , cottoncandygender✨ https://pin.it/6d9sQ2cQI , maverique✨ https://pin.it/7KzvchLLW , gummysharkic✨ https://pin.it/1ROJw4HkR , Hypergender✨ https://pin.it/7aRA8OqCV , WEBTHiNG✨ https://pin.it/PfGuckagz , SillyMusicGender✨ https://pin.it/6Tx1hVaJE , softstaric✨ https://pin.it/5Q1bKWjGG , Techoric✨ https://pin.it/64J25TubN , goofygender✨ https://pin.it/54Pf4qx8u , :3gender✨ https://pin.it/hchJbZYRu

orientation: Lesbian✨, sapphic✨ , Embrouillesexual✨ https://pin.it/J1epk7i3z , Bambi Sapphic https://pin.it/6qavR70py , KEYCHAiNALLION✨ https://pin.it/2YR1F6i7L , GIRL LOVER✨ https://pin.it/4PRLfV2Wa , Mellow-oriented sapphic✨ https://pin.it/XeK5ReD1j

species: Human

age: 17

personality: Bright, bubbly, hyper, talkative, and hugely social. A big hugger too. Exudes confidence like an aura.

quirks: Bounces a lot, often doesn’t realize how loud she is, often doodles on things while talking on the phone

likes: Yellow, bright colorful things, kandi, Stardew Valley, hyperpop music, scenecore music, and 8bit music.

dislikes: slow music, classical music, and despises being alone and bored.

role: Social Alter, Admirer https://pluralpedia.org/w/Admirer , Confidence holder, beauheur https://pluralpedia.org/w/Beauheur

sign off: !!!✨✨

Sometimes you have to be yourself on purpose. What I mean by this is that sometimes we lose touch with ourselves and start coasting and just going through the motions. Which is fine for a while because we get tired and/or depressed and that's fine. Happens to everyone. But eventually it starts to feel bad and you get a specific kind of brainweird that's hard to describe but means that you've lost sight of who you are, what your values are, and what you love.

Leaning really hard into something that makes you go "this is the most me thing ever" helps that specific type of brainweird quite a bit! But maybe you don't know what the most you thing ever is. You are not alone! I get depressed and forget every interest I have. 100% understand that.

When this happens, it helps to remind yourself what you like and enjoy. So what do you do? Well for me, it helps to think about 1. Things I used to enjoy and 2. Things my friends Know Me For.

Like I've been feeling not myself lately and I haven't really knit or created much this month at all. But I'm the Makes Things Guy. I like making things and many of my friends not only know me as someone who makes things but a lot of my friendships specifically come from communities of People Who Make Things.

So I forced myself to pick up an old project, and that helped a bit. But what really helped was coming up with a project that combined my interests (leather jackets, art, and teapots) for me to look forward to and get really into planning for! The most ME I've felt in weeks has been the last hour I've spent planning on painting a famous fine China design on the back of my leather trenchcoat. Because not ONLY am I the Makes Things Guy, I am also The Teapot Guy. I finally feel like myself again.

I wish I had more concrete advice in regards to how you remember your own interests when you get disconnected from them, but a solid place to start is things you used to like and things your friends know you like. If you struggle consider asking a friend what things they know you like. Sometimes friends can see us better than we can see ourselves and it helps to use them as a mirror to see yourself through.