Thinking About The Time I Was Trained With A Shock Collar By A Dom Who Sat On The Sofa, Completely Relaxed

now more than ever it is so fucking important for everyone to be normal about weird kinks. there is such a fucking weird push towards puritanism from all angles especially against trans folks. trans women are getting nuked on this site at an alarming rate especially the women who are generous enough to supply us with works of writing or selfies or whatever. everyone needs to get weirder and louder about supporting people NOW.

reblog the horny posts you like stop hiding them in likes. follow people that make the content you like. interact with people. venmo someone five bucks if you came to their posts.

also, quit picking and fucking choosing who to support. if you have the capacity to tolerate kinks like incest and cnc and kidnapping, then you can also tolerate shit like feederism and age play and rape play and whatever the fuck else. NOBODY IS SAYING YOU MUST LIKE/ENGAGE WITH IT. but you have GOT to stop othering people who aren’t fucking hurting anyone because making other queers out to be scapegoats is going to kill us all.

dumb things that are weirdly hot:

- someone leaning over and buckling my seatbelt

- tying my shoe for me (especially if you pat it afterwards??)

- zipping up my jacket

- making me hold ur hand before crossing the street

- handing me my water bottle to make me drink it

- slightly condescending nicknames

- moving me by my belt loops/waist

- “why don’t you be a good girl and *instructions*?”

- brushing my hair out of my face

- opening my drinks for me

- lifting my chin to make me look you in the eye

daydreaming about

promise rings 🥰🥰

day collars 🥹🥰☺️☺️

..good shit.

You make a girl feel safe & secure enough, she'll do literally whatever the fuck you want

Right now, I have students who are crying in class.

Students who won't even come to class, who I'm sincerely not sure will come to class again for the rest of the term.

Students who say they're leaving the country and will find a way to get me out too if I'd like.

Students who are texting, e-mailing, and Discord-ing me saying that they can't stop crying, that they can't cope with the uncertainty and chaos anymore.

Students who are asking me what to do and how to cope. My job is to help students learn, and a big part of learning is learning how to interpret and contextualize things, and how to approach problems in a productive and meaningful way.

I don't know how to approach this. I don't know what advice to give them. I don't know how to stop them from crying beyond telling them it's okay to cry, even though they're all adults and they know that already.

If you voted for him, you did this. If you put the price of bread or imaginary boogeymen or some abstract "need for change" above the well-being of your countrymen, you did this. If you didn't vote, or voted for an unwinnable third-party candidate because of some moral purity bullshit where it's more important to be right than practical, you did this.

If you did this, you've traumatized an entire generation with your selfishness and short-sightedness.

If you did this, I don't want you anywhere near my students, and I don't want you anywhere near me. Unfollow me, block me, blacklist my tags, fuck off to your closed-minded corner of the Internet and get the hell away from me. My obligation is to myself, humanity, to my LGBTQ+ and biracial family members, to my friends from all walks of life and all countries, to the students of color in my research group, and to my fellow women.

Not to you. Not to him.

„My brain feels so light and fuzzy”

„Good. I’m gonna take away your ability to think, my mindless little whore”

We should treat every young man who wants to buy a gun like every woman who wants to get an abortion - mandatory 48 hour waiting period, parental permission, a note from his doctor proving he understands what he's about to do, a video he has to watch about the effects of gun violence, and a mandatory invasive ultrasound procedure. Let's close down all but one gun shop in every state and make him travel hundreds of miles, take time off work, and stay overnight in a strange town to get a gun. Make him walk through a gauntlet of people holding photos of loved ones who were shot to death, with people shouting at him that he's a murderer, begging him not to buy a gun.

It make more sense to do this with young men and guns than with women and healthcare, right? I mean, no woman getting an abortion has killed a room full of people in seconds.

So the police aren't obligated to protect children, but they can handcuff parents trying to protect their children and they can shoot rubber bullets at peaceful protesters...but defunding the police is a radical idea?