Our “rules” for both for a loving tease and denial relationship.
For Her
1. Don’t feel guilty about telling him no to coming. He craves your control.
2. Don’t ask him if he wants to cum (unless you’re just teasing). It’s not up to him.
3. Don’t feel guilty about calling an end to sex play. He’s going to still be horny since you didn’t let him come, so it’s up to you to say it’s time for play to end and for you to rest.
4. There is no “just right” schedule for how often or how long to deny him an orgasm. If you don’t feel like denying him at all, or you want to make him wait an hour or a month, it doesn’t matter to him. He’s happy all the same that it’s up to you.
For Him
1. When she tells you no coming, make sure she knows you’re happy and thankful for the attention and teasing, and the denied orgasm would have been just icing on the cake.
2. Don’t send mixed signals. When she tells you not to come, no pouting, begging, or getting mad. It’s negative and confusing. No means no.
3. At some point you need to let her rest. Just because you’re still horny and ready to go, doesn’t mean she is. She’s not the one who didn’t get to come.
4. Don’t be peanut-butter-and-jealous. Men and women are inherently different. She has a pussy and he has a cock. She has breasts and he doesn’t. He has a refractory period and she doesn’t. She’s usually will come and he usually will not. Accept these differences without angst, move on, and be happy.
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Tease Your slave to get him to the point where he’ll “Do Anything to please You”
-Make him strip naked while You keep Your clothes on… -Have him kneel before You and kiss Your feet… -Have him address You as ‘Mistress…’ -Have him kiss Your ass…make him beg to kiss Your ass… -Tie his hands and have him undress You with his mouth/teeth… -Don’t let him masturbate or touch his cock without Your permission at any time… -Tie his hands behind his back. Have him kneel with knees spread naked in front of You while You read or watch TV… -Either order him to stay erect, or don’t give him permission to have a hard on… either way, punish him if he fails! -Use some strong string (kite string), tie a slip noose in the end and tighten it around the head of the penis, tug on it, pull it, shake it, lead him with it, whatever pleases You… -Show Your slave Your panty crotch, make him smell it, but no touching without permission… -Tie Your slave spread eagle to the bed and tease him for hours. Make sure he has a big hard on, but once he does only touch it when he needs just a little more encouragement, don’t let him cum… -Put on his favorite lingerie and tease him with Your beauty… -Scratch him with Your finger nails… -Tickle him. Pinch his nipples… -Sit on his chest and find out what he would do to be allowed to kiss Your nipple. Let him almost kiss it but pull away, make him beg… -Take a break, put some worn panties over his face and leave the room for a while and let him think about what else You might do… -Squat above his face, make him reach with his tongue to taste the crotch of Your panties…get more promises… -Blindfold him and make him lick You to several orgasms. Take a break, cum back and do it all again… -Rub his face against Your pussy or sit on his face, but gag him with Your panties or a gag so that he can’t lick You… -Tie his balls off to something behind him so he has to tug on them to smell Your panties or kiss Your ass…stay just out of reach… -Masturbate in front of him. Use a dildo or a vibrator… -Put the base of the dildo in his mouth and make him satisfy You with it. Do it so his nose presses between Your ass cheeks. He’ll be Your little brown noser and love it… -Make him lick the dildo clean… -Tie him down to the bed and tie his hands to his penis but do not give him permission to cum with harsh punishments for disobedience… -Put Your worn panties over his head so he can smell your odor… -Make him wear a cock ring…
In the morning I get to fuck my wife, but only if I clean up the mess her lover left behind last night…