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on comfort viewing and trying new things

the thing is that mental health professionals everywhere are acknowledging that most people have "comfort shows" or "comfort movies". series and films we've seen hundreds of times, probably the closest we can get to reliving a good childhood memory. it's warm, it's comforting, it's known. there is nothing unexpected around the corner -- we know the storyline well, we know how it ends.

hollywood isn't "out of ideas". it's capitalizing on this phenomenon, documented by streamers, this rise in "rewatchability" becoming more important than giving the story room to breathe. producers have always been in the business of making money above all else, and now that most of our content comes from huge media conglomerates, it's only getting worse. capitalism has long infected film and tv but it is in the process of swallowing it whole, because fewer and fewer types of movies are getting made and shown in theatres and series are getting cancelled if they don't appeal to the whole, wide world. reboots, remakes, prequels and sequels are a product of our "comfort viewing". they are repackaged tropes and worlds and characters that we know and may very well love. they are selling us something we've seen before, without the discomfort of having to tolerate something new, something uncertain, something unpredictable.

the thing is that mental health professionals also recommend we go on daily walks, or meditate, or take the time just to sit outside without a screen. we can and should indulge in our comfort movies and series -- the world is cold and harsh and we deserve to take comfort where we can. but sometimes, maybe, rewatching the same things over and over again is the media equivalent of spending the day in bed. it's warm in there, it's safe, but it's not exactly helping any of us move forward.

and sometimes it's okay to stand still. necessary, even. but on days where you do have the energy and the willpower to take yourself on a little walk, or to cook a gorgeous meal for yourself, you might want to try watching something new, too.

film and tv is supposed to entertain. yes. but it's also supposed to make us feel things, to make us understand ourselves and the people around us in different ways. it's supposed to help us process doubt, uncertainty, pain, grief, growing pains. it's supposed to show us perspectives we don't come across in our day to day lives. entertainment for the sake of entertainment doesn't always negate that, but, because we're in an age of media monopolies eerily similar to the studio era of hollywood, marketability and rewatchability are always going to be prioritized over everything else -- over the humanity of it all.

and these "alternative" shows and movies that come out -- projects like yellowjackets and the bear and everything everywhere all at once -- are only successful because people gave them a chance. people took the media equivalent of taking themselves on a walk, and they gave new media a chance.

the breakfast club would never get made today. not because of its insensitive and inappropriate jokes and tropes, but because a movie about teenagers just being teenagers simply wouldn't happen. it has no marketability, no potential for a franchise. so, that story isn't getting told. and it's not the only story getting ignored.

i could go on and on about the damage brought on by franchises and streamers, but i'll instead finish this by wishing that on days where you may have the energy to, try watching something you haven't seen before. a new series with fewer artifice and a lesser known cast; a movie about being, and the joys and pains that go with it. rent older movies at your local library, buy used DVDs from goodwill, check out MUBI or the criterion collection. your comfort show isn't going anywhere.

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my friends r so talented. rb if ur friends are talented

do you guys wanna see how bs ‘’’bmi’’’ is?

let’s start with a few pictures of my body shall we

(please ignore messy room i’m in the process of packing)

okay so that’s the body of someone that eats healthy, literally my fave food is broccoli, and i work out 5 days a week, you’d think i’m at ‘’’healthy weight’’’’ right?????

BITCH NOPE

that bitch telling me to eat 1500 - 1900 calories a day are you fucking joking??? that’s fucking starving myself and i’m not doing that. fuck you.

Gotta remember this when I write another story 🤣

Words to replace said, except this actually helps

I got pretty fed up with looking for words to replace said because they weren’t sorted in a way I could easily use/find them for the right time. So I did some myself.

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GUILTY/RELUCTANCE/SORRY Admitted Apologized Conceded Confessed Professed

FOR SOMEONE ELSE Advised Criticized Suggested

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LOUD Announced Chanted Crowed

LEWD/CUTE/SECRET SPY FEEL Appealed Disclosed Moaned

ANGRY FUCK OFF MATE WANNA FIGHT Argued Barked Challenged Cursed Fumed Growled Hissed Roared Swore

SMARTASS Articulated Asserted Assured Avowed Claimed Commanded Cross-examined Demanded Digressed Directed Foretold Instructed Interrupted Predicted Proclaimed Quoted Theorized

ASSHOLE Bellowed Boasted Bragged

NERVOUS TRAINWRECK Babbled Bawled Mumbled Sputtered Stammered Stuttered

SUAVE MOTHERFUCKER Bargained Divulged Disclosed Exhorted

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LASTLY Concluded Concurred

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HAPPY/LOL Cajoled Exclaimed Gushed Jested Joked Laughed

WEIRDLY HAPPY/EXCITED Extolled Jabbered Raved

BRUH, CHILL Cautioned Warned

ACTUALLY, YOU’RE WRONG Chided Contended Corrected Countered Debated Elaborated Objected Ranted Retorted

CHILL SAVAGE Commented Continued Observed Surmised

LISTEN BUDDY Enunciated Explained Elaborated Hinted Implied Lectured Reiterated Recited Reminded Stressed

BRUH I NEED U AND U NEED ME Confided Offered Urged

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TOO EMO FULL OF EMOTIONS Croaked Lamented Pledged Sobbed Sympathized Wailed Whimpered

JUST SAYING Declared Decreed Mentioned Noted Pointed out Postulated Speculated Stated Told Vouched

WASN’T ME Denied Lied

EVIL SMARTASS Dictated Equivocated Ordered Reprimanded Threatened

BORED Droned Sighed

SHHHH IT’S QUIET TIME Echoed Mumbled Murmured Muttered Uttered Whispered

DRAMA QUEEN Exaggerated Panted Pleaded Prayed Preached

OH SHIT Gasped Marveled Screamed Screeched Shouted Shrieked Yelped Yelled

ANNOYED Grumbled Grunted Jeered Quipped Scolded Snapped Snarled Sneered

ANNOYING Nagged

I DON’T REALLY CARE BUT WHATEVER Guessed Ventured

I’M DRUNK OR JUST BEING WEIRDLY EXPRESSIVE FOR A POINT/SARCASM Hooted Howled Yowled

I WONDER Pondered Voiced Wondered

OH, YEAH, WHOOPS Recalled Recited Remembered

SURPRISE BITCH Revealed

IT SEEMS FAKE BUT OKAY/HA ACTUALLY FUNNY BUT I DON’T WANT TO LAUGH OUT LOUD Scoffed Snickered Snorted

BITCHY Tattled Taunted Teased

Edit: People, I’m an English and creative writing double major in college; I understand that there’s nothing wrong with simply using “said.” This was just for fun, and it comes in handy when I need to add pizzazz. 

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Day 4: Happy Eclipse y'all 🌑 🌷

shoutout to aros and aces and aro aces this june btw

So I saw this and thought:

💭 They kinda give me the same energy. Hmm 💭