at the insane stage of character obsession where i start getting the urge to post pngs of them every five seconds like im showing ppl a picture of my stupid ass boyfriend that nobody likes but me
I have a visceral disgust for people who say shit like "I don't care about this STUPID and MEANINGLESS pro/anti ship drama it's just FICTION and I am an adult with a job I don't have time for your FANDOM bullshit" like
Janet... people have been subjected to REAL cyberbullying, REAL death threats, REAL rape threats, REAL doxxing that made them lose their jobs, REAL harassment in the form of their own csem videos fished from the darkweb and thrown back in their faces, people have DIED Janet.
So really, I'm glad that you live in a comfy bubble so far removed from the realities some other folks have to go through and that you don't have to read gross/heart wrenching/downright scary stories, truly I think it would be lovely if we could all share a bit of that bliss-
But I think you got a little too detached and a little too entitled and I need you to be for fucking real a second and consider to maybe shut the fuck up forever about the subject if you're not willing to at the very least get informed on how much not "just fandom drama" this whole debacle has become in the past uhm FOUR YEARS? Not counting the first four when the whole shitshow started, mind you.
It's completely understandable to not want to engage with such a negative subject to preserve your own mental health!! But if you're going to "not engage" then do that. Do not engage. At all. And spare us your two cents.
"I'm an adult with a job" pfft, yeah, and?
part of being aroace is going "we're too young to date, we're just kids" for most of your life because it was true. and then you're in high school and suddenly everyone is dating, and you're still going "we're too young to date, we're just kids". and then your classmates are fucking in the school bathrooms and your friends are coming to school covered in hickeys and your best friend has a boyfriend that she plans to marry, and you're still going "we're too young for this, we're just kids." And then you realize that you're not a kid anymore, you're not too young for this, and that you're just... different
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oh man, this blog really benefits from that Overhau-
Reasons: Age Gap/Maturity Gap - Cops
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He/Him || 18 || Multifandom || No dni, I block freely || reblog heavy || No I will not click your link in bio
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