HIYA.

Queer 👏 people 👏 are 👏 not 👏 all 👏 fucking 👏 activists 👏

Stop quizzing us on queer history and asking us questions we aren’t qualified to answer about the world and about politics and about our identities

Stop trying to back us into a corner so you can justify your discrimination on the basis that we don’t know what we’re talking about or can’t “defend” ourselves to you

Stop treating every queer person that stands up and says “I want to be treated like a person” as if they’re an activist

Cut that bullshit out

Marginalised people just want to exist and be happy

I don’t know everything, and that doesn’t make me undeserving of your respect or my human rights you fucker

I don’t even owe you the stuff I do know- I still am entitled to basic fucking respect

TLDR; Queer people shouldn’t have to be historians or scientists for you to not be a fucking dick

"life is infinitely stranger than anything which the mind of a man could invent" - sherlock holmes ( A case of identity)

I was coming back home this afternoon and it was so fucking hot so naturally I was feeling homicidal. No thoughts just rage and heatstroke. All my life I have only experienced hot,burn fuck you die hot, burn fuck you die hot deluxe version, blissful rain and flu winter. But when I looked up i saw so many trees full of gorgeous yellow, orange, violet, white flowers and the Bougainville (pink) which soothed my rage a little bit and made me realize oh hey it's spring not classic spring but I'm still grateful for you.

Some pictures I took while coming on the scooter I wish I could capture the orange and violet ones and lush green trees passage.

I find it so ironic when men make statements like ‘we fought the wars’, ‘we gave you rights’, ‘we invented the phone you’re using’ etc like.. so when it’s something you want to take credit for it’s fine to generalise men as a whole group but as soon as someone brings up rape, murder, assault etc and how men commit majority of those crimes it’s suddenly ‘not all men’ ? Right okay so now you’re individuals and can’t take credit for the entirety of your demographic?

desi academia has my heart ☕🖤

Thank you so much y'all for the many reblogs and likes I started posting seriously like over 2 weeks ago also thank you for being my mutuals it's crazy I mean let me count i know only like 4 people in real life here more than 60- that's crazy that used to be the strength of my class when I was in school lmao ( y'all have such cool blogs really i really would like to talk y'all- I be stalking and scrolling through blogs like my mother scrolls through whatsapp statuses) im really really grateful no kidding except for the porn bots and creepy men in my dms YOU all stay the fuck away no I'm not interested in sexting or an older daddy no thanks I'm not that desperate enough yet. Also no I don't wanna learn about trading from Tumblr as tempting making 50,000 dollars in one hour sounds i think I'll pass aheh.

But again thank you so much dhanywaad

Damn

I miss when I would get Tumblr asks that actually said things and weren't just digital panhandling scams.

Honestly, as a man, if you see a guy who thinks men have it so much harder they are not worth the time. Like, it is impossible to ignore the disproportional suffering of women in DV, the underrepresentation of women in positions of power everywhere, the stories of assault that most women of all ages have faced. It’s like “oh you are finding it hard to get a date?” but women have to deal with if the person on the date is going to threaten their safety.

Exactly! Like it’s okay to talk about some things men face, but doing it as a retort to women’s issues is so so tacky to me. I also think it’s become somewhat of a punchline between guys — like the “bc of woke!!” “bc of feminism!!!” w laughter soundtrack energy wafting off of men like this is so palpable it’s concerning… this is not the counterculture slay you think it is

I truly truly loathe those "brutally honest" people who are just disgustingly rude and hide behind the "straightforward, no bullshit" or "what you want me to sugarcoat things for you" no how about you just have some fucking decency. There is a difference between honesty and cruelty. People weaponize truth and think empathy makes them weak. But you know what's worse, the people around them who agree, laugh, walk on eggshells for these scumbags. You see it in their eyes they know it's wrong that it's fucking messed up but they choose to stay silent maybe they silently agree, maybe they need something or they're scared to speak up, maybe they were fooled at first but it's too late now. These people are often your family, friends, colleagues their silent betrayal is what cuts even more deeper than the insults masked as jokes. This is how the worst of the people thrive, what's even funnier or sadder is that these assholes have slightly higher chances of some redemption than the ones who enabled the asshole they will rot forever in that silence and agreement and perhaps it's deserved now I realize that's their punishment they inflicted upon themselves.