Vindiver - CG Vin

It's me, but who is going to be her.

I need a man who won’t use me for nudes or ask for them all the time, a man that doesn’t want to be sexual at all times. I need a man who can take care of me, keep me safe and make me feel loved. A man who will listen to my struggles and comfort me when I need it.

Just as a heads up to everyone. I'll be a little limited through the weekend for the holiday. I'm traveling to visit family, and maybe visit a couple old friends. So my responses will most likely be exclusive to a few people until I get back home, and won't be as often as normal.

idc what anyone says age gaps are so hot

To reassure her;

Got a bad grade? ”you did a good job baby, it’s okay if the grade isn’t what you wanted, you tried your best”

Sad? ”I know angel, it’s alright, let your feelings out”

”I’m here for you.”

”I will always love you don’t worry.”

”I’m so proud of you baby.”

”It’s gonna be okay.”

”No baby i’m not mad at you and I don’t hate you because we had a disagreement. I still love you silly.”

Insecure? ”Your body is so beautiful, you don’t need to be sad over it, you don’t have a single flaw, little one”

Pouty? ”Aw baby you’re so cute sweetheart. But let’s talk about what made you feel this way, yeah?”

Hugging them tight and kissing their forehead <33333

Goals

which tumblr do you want to dm the most and want to have a talk with?

No clue. I'd love to find someone who matches the post I made, but I don't know of any that do. There was only one, but it wasn't meant to be in the manner that I wanted. I'm open to talking to just about anyone though.

hi , here's something i'd like to address !

My dm's are open, and i do appreciate being messaged, but i do not appreciate being treated as an object by someone i dont know/am comfortable talking to ! I don't appreciate being told "hi' and immediately being asked very rude, sexual things immediately after. I am human too, i never thought i'd have to remind anyone of that, haha.

My preferences in age and anything else shouldn't make me less of a human to you, some of you guys messaging me are in your late 20's-40's, which isn't a problem, but it is a bit of a problem when you then treat someone my age as some of you do. I have only came across two people who have messaged me with an ounce of kindness, out of at least 7.

Yes I am young, but I dont like being treated that way, and i do have boundaries ! thanku so much for readingggg ! <3

Another topic that I have been thinking of lately.

I always see the reasoning for why a girl wants an older man, and it always points to daddy issues. But what about someone like me, who wants to take care of a younger girl?

Well, I think I figured it out, at least for what applies to me. And it's really not all that different, just a little harder. The answer? Years of neglect, and not wanting someone else to feel the same pain that I have felt. Having absent parents, one physically was never there because the other left him. And the other was so focused on herself that she neglected her kids. Then onto adulthood. Neglected by partners, tossed to the side, emotionally ignored for no reason at all. So to be able to help save someone from that same trauma, I think that is what has developed me into who I am today.

Sure, it's not the overly aggressive Dom that everyone imagines, but that's not all there is to this lifestyle. It should be more about genuine care for your little, not just about abusing them. All that will do is break them, and they will eventually leave you for someone that actually cares.

What superpower would you have and why? Don't be boring either...

pyrokinesis. The ability to create and control fire. I could use it in my job, and be more efficient at it. Or I could use it to destroy my enemies with a burning wrath.