Vindiver - CG Vin

I never faked my care to someone.

Learn what it means to be a real dom, as it goes much deeper than you think. Especially if you're trying to be a daddy/dom. Even if you think you're a good one, each sub/little has their own needs and wants, and it's up to you to learn what that is, and most importantly, be respectful of her; or you will lose her.

New little "rage dumping"

IF you are a Dom, I'm assuming you are in control. But you aren't only controlling me.

If you want to be a Dom, you need to learn how to control yourself first. Self-control and stability from a Dom are the most important things.

When your sub says they don't want to do something or feel uncomfortable, you have to respect it. Don't be pushy. Don't dominate them with exhausting. That's not dominating. That's abusing. If you **really** want to do it, find an alternative you both like and agree with.

You are in charge, and commanding is much harder than obeying, so you need to know how to behave and not hurt your sub as a "mistake".

Learn before trying. Study what you wanna do before.

Another topic that I have been thinking of lately.

I always see the reasoning for why a girl wants an older man, and it always points to daddy issues. But what about someone like me, who wants to take care of a younger girl?

Well, I think I figured it out, at least for what applies to me. And it's really not all that different, just a little harder. The answer? Years of neglect, and not wanting someone else to feel the same pain that I have felt. Having absent parents, one physically was never there because the other left him. And the other was so focused on herself that she neglected her kids. Then onto adulthood. Neglected by partners, tossed to the side, emotionally ignored for no reason at all. So to be able to help save someone from that same trauma, I think that is what has developed me into who I am today.

Sure, it's not the overly aggressive Dom that everyone imagines, but that's not all there is to this lifestyle. It should be more about genuine care for your little, not just about abusing them. All that will do is break them, and they will eventually leave you for someone that actually cares.

You know, I've only ever had one thing come across my asks. Someone toss some my way.

There are so many better options than me

Clingy is much better than slutty. Be devoted, and crave my attention.

Where is my little one at?

Why is it so hard to find a man for which you won't be just one of many? I want someone to spend their time with me and be their only one </3

Maybe he helps you with your needs. Maybe he punishes you for being a naughty girl.

what if daddy walks in whilst i’m humping my stuffie🤭🤭

older father figure bf + silly stupid inexperienced gf <3