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It’s been a really long time since I came on tumblr, but I started thinking a bit about how difficult year 13 was for me and what I could have done differently. they’re lengthy but there’s a lot to be said!!

These are some things that helped me when I was studying with depression - I have to say these don’t always help, and nothing will replace getting medical help. These just helped me take each day as it came, so I hope they’re of some use!

Please, please, please think of your health and really take care of yourself whilst studying and even more so in exam season. 

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ lots of love

I feel it now

My brother was diagnosed with depression years before I was, and because of that he started therapy years before I did.

I still remember when I was a young teen and he was playing a Nirvana song and he stopped it at this one line: “I miss the comfort of being sad”

He told me that when you start to get better, there’s a part of you that misses being sad and that if you start feeling that way you have to be extra extra aware and careful because if you indulge the feeling you’ll go down a self-destructive spiral

And even though that was years and years ago, I think about it all the time. Especially when I’m reading discourse on the idea of getting so attached to mental illness as an identity that you don’t want to improve things because you feel safe in it and don’t know who you are without it

I always think of that line “I miss the comfort of being sad” and my brother’s warning

A 12 Million Year Old Praying-Mantis Encased in Amber.

it’s okay if you don’t love

yes, i mean at all.

people - including a lot of aros - talk about aros as if we’re okay because we still love. because we have platonic love and queerplatonic love and familial love and alterous love. but some of us don’t.

then they go to interests. you love your interests, right?? but some of us don’t. or at least not in the way they think.

and that’s okay.

we’re okay.

love ≠ value

INTP be like

You know, Yoimiya, you seemed to turn into a completely different person during the fireworks.

Ravenclaw / rainy days / technology moodboard for @toxicfireworks ! 

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