It’s odd that Batman, who fights crime from the shadows and wears a dark suit to be unseen in the night, chose such a bright coloured uniform for his sidekick
I NEED THEEEEESE—
Dice Sets
URWizards on Etsy
putting pressure against ur chest when u arent binding bc its comforting
the Thing™ with ur shirt where u pull it away from ur chest and shake it a bunch
doing that like every two seconds when ur dysphoria is particularly bad
[waiter/waitress comes by] [voice drops an octave] “yeah i’d like the…”
baby face
every male adult stranger calling u “bud” bc they think ur a prepubescent boy
insecurities manifesting in unconventional places (lack of body hair or feet size for example)
“be honest with me…. do i look flat in this shirt?”
pre-op, owning exactly 1 (one) bra bc ur only ever wearing a binder or nothing otherwise
getting unnecessarily excited to buy super boring stuff (cologne, mens underwear, etc)
feeling like a stereotypical 13 y/o boy when, post-starting t, u get ur First Facial Hair
the moment of intense fear when u hear someone say “ma’am” or “she” and the immense amount of relief when u realize theyre talking to someone else
getting mistaken for ur cis friends baby brother bc u look so much younger than them
other trans dudes, feel free to add stuff!
Embroidered Bird Pins / Earrings / Ear Cuffs
Julia Gorina on Etsy
Self Assembly Kits
Puzzle Collection on Etsy
he steals
Eeveelutions Pins
Jackal and Hare Art on Etsy
people who use baby naming websites:
- expecting parents - trans people changing their names - writers - that guy outside my dorm room who was arguing with his buddy on whether the name Zach was in the bible and then very loudly announced that “behind the name dot com says its biblical in origin so fuck you”
There is no “faking” being trans. There is no being trans “enough.” You’re always real and you’re always enough.
Don’t put a pad on boxers! It doesn’t work and makes a mess
To feel more masculine wear boxers over your //pad holding underwear//
Don’t beat yourself up, you are totally rad and cool, you’re body is doing something, but that’s okay, it’s not your fault and it doesn’t make you less valid!
If your cheast starts to hurt, don’t bind, some guys get tender breast tissue when it’s that time of the month, listen to your body, don’t push yourself!
Treat yourself to some chocolate!
Tea!!! It’s so good!!!! And green tea can help with cramps!
Advil! I use it when my cramps get bad, sometimes I get headaches and it helps with that too! Don’t take more than six though!
Go under warm blankets with nothing but your underwear on, preferably soft blankets, it makes me feel like I’m in a soft cacoon
Oversized sweatshirts! Always good! Especially for dysphoria!
Wear comfy cloths, always good to feel good
Eat warm soup, feels nice in the tum tum
Don’t eat super greasy foods, it can make your skin break you even more! And there are already so many hormones making your skin do crazy thing you don’t want it to get worse! Also it can make cramps worse
Most of all listen to your body, don’t push yourself, and try to forgive it, it’s confused and doesn’t know that it shouldn’t be doing what it’s doing
just remembered last summer when one of our old lady neighbors realized i was on testosterone and asked me if i liked cars and when i said no she was like “oh haha you will”