It Was My Idea To To Visit A Swing Club And My Girlfriend Was Not Into It. She Drank To Much Because

It was my idea to to visit a swing club and my girlfriend was not into it. She drank to much because of anxiety and we went to a room and had sex with a couple. We then had sex with eachother. It was the best sex we ever had. She told me it was great. She was glad we had went. She wanted to stay and have another drink. Another couple talked her into going to a group room. I couldn't get it up a third time. She had sex with the couple and then two single men while I couldn't perform. I just watched. She wanted to go back to the club the next weekend. We couldn't afford it. Went three weekends later. She was not drunk and wanted to watch people. We had sex in public in a group room. A guy hit on her and she was ok with it. She started blowing me and he fucked her from behind. Another guy was touching her boobs and the guy fucking her and me came at about the same time. It was hot but then the other guy fucked her and I watched only. I can't get up three times. Later she had is go to a room with a couple. I couldn't perform. I ate the other woman out as my girlfriend got fucked. Then my girlfriend ate her out and told me to lick her. I found that one of the guys hadn't used a condom. On the way home I asked if she knew and she did. I'm not happy about that or her making me just watch. I didn't have sex with anybody. She had lots of sex. She likes the club. I don't now. She wants to go all the time and I said I was not into it. Her compromise she say is once a month and says it is not fair I talk her into something she didn't want to do and that she likes it so I take it away. If she could do it for me after I talked her into it I can do it for her now she says. She is very horny now all the time which is a plus. More than before. I want her only have sex with as many as me if we go. She says the many makes her feel sexy like never before and if we go she do as she want. I don't know.

From thw 2021 - not sure why, but found it funny. responses range from more communication needed , should let her do her thing if she does yours first, shouldn't be doing it at all.