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It was my idea to to visit a swing club and my girlfriend was not into it. She drank to much because of anxiety and we went to a room and had sex with a couple. We then had sex with eachother. It was the best sex we ever had. She told me it was great. She was glad we had went. She wanted to stay and have another drink. Another couple talked her into going to a group room. I couldn't get it up a third time. She had sex with the couple and then two single men while I couldn't perform. I just watched. She wanted to go back to the club the next weekend. We couldn't afford it. Went three weekends later. She was not drunk and wanted to watch people. We had sex in public in a group room. A guy hit on her and she was ok with it. She started blowing me and he fucked her from behind. Another guy was touching her boobs and the guy fucking her and me came at about the same time. It was hot but then the other guy fucked her and I watched only. I can't get up three times. Later she had is go to a room with a couple. I couldn't perform. I ate the other woman out as my girlfriend got fucked. Then my girlfriend ate her out and told me to lick her. I found that one of the guys hadn't used a condom. On the way home I asked if she knew and she did. I'm not happy about that or her making me just watch. I didn't have sex with anybody. She had lots of sex. She likes the club. I don't now. She wants to go all the time and I said I was not into it. Her compromise she say is once a month and says it is not fair I talk her into something she didn't want to do and that she likes it so I take it away. If she could do it for me after I talked her into it I can do it for her now she says. She is very horny now all the time which is a plus. More than before. I want her only have sex with as many as me if we go. She says the many makes her feel sexy like never before and if we go she do as she want. I don't know.
From thw 2021 - not sure why, but found it funny. responses range from more communication needed , should let her do her thing if she does yours first, shouldn't be doing it at all.
RE/Denial-games-03 We each make rules each new year that we promise to follow. Mine was that he could only have sex with one person in a 24hour period unless I tell him otherwise. He gets really hot for me when I've fuckex somebody else. When we have a mfm threesome or I do the hotwife play he is hot for me and gets me. If we do a couple he can't touch me afterwards until the 24hours is over. Couples are now my favorite because I like making him beg and wait. The sex we have together after the wait is intense. Sometimes I make him wait longer.
watches?
nial-games-03why not just do that all the time? I see hotwives denial as a common fetish. Husbands wanting to be denied for months even. Those cages.
RE/Denial-games-03 He's a voyer and sex addict, not a cuck. I do the hotwife thing just for his voyerism and to get him hot. Couples are better for me because I get girl on girl play too. He gets hot from watching me. We want eachother satisfied. It is a comprise that let's him get some and still leaves him hot for me.
al-games-03 just make him jack it for his satisfaction 🤣 Ever play with couples and he just watches?
RE/Denial-games-03 We do that sometimes. It is not easy finding couples for that. Seems mostly newbies that are jealous and insecure in their relationships are wanting that. I pick the couples. He picks the singles. Another rule I made.
/Denial-games-03 because if it is singles I don't care as much. It is a show for him. What he is looking at is important. If it is couples I pick because I want to find both people fuck worthy. He wasn't good at that. He gets what he gets. He mostly is paying attention to me.
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I've had sex with a total of seven men. Five were since I've been married with my husband watching. I was very picky before getting married with who I'd date. I'm not picky at all as a hotwife except that the men are clean, in decent shape, and respectful. I do this mostly for my husband. He loves to watch me. He chooses the men. Even if they aren't great in bed it feels good and I always have my husband for sex. We have met only one guy who was worth getting together with more than once. You can't take it very seriously. It is like being in a play with your husband the audience. You try to give him the best performance you can while having as much fun as you can.
Sounds to me like she enjoyed it the way she should. Probably as he'd sold it to her. He'd not separated reality from fantasy before moving forward.
Pandora's box has been opened. No going back.
Mine is funnier. We've had about half the single guys we've set up flake out on us over the years. Usually last minute. It is bullshit.
We started setting up double dates. One at 6 or 7 for when a guy would be getting off work and one for 10 or 11. That way we'd get to play with a guy almost for sure and worse case was I'd play twice in one night which actually turned out to be great.
My funny story though is that my husband's biggest fantasy is a gangbang on me. It isn't mine. The things we do for our husbands. After him begging enough I said I'd do it. 4 guys. He set it up. Not a single guy showed. I was both annoyed and relieved. He moped for days. We try again. Invited 5 guys with the idea we'd get a flake and I've set the limit at 4. We got one guy. No moping husband this time. No fantasy filled. The guy said he regularly tried to be involved in gangbangs and most times guys flaked. Stage fright and being intimidated. Made the suggestion that if we were going to go about it like we were we should invite a dozen guys and maybe we'd get our 4. probably not. Said to get on certain swinger sites and talk to married men with permission slips and lots of testimonials instead of single guys off the sites we were using. My husband got to work on it and it was a long project. He invited 10 guys including our friend with the advice. You know what happened. My hubby followed both bits of advice and we had 1 guy text the day before apologizing, but 9 guys showed. It was intimidating and our friend with the advice saved us by suggesting it be 2 guys on the bed at once and the others waiting. Instead of a disaster it was fun and one of the most memorable things I've done in my life. I've since done it again with 4. Fun or not it was a 1 time thing.