Penetration is a gender-neutral act. Topping is gender-neutral. Bottoming is gender-neutral. You are not more or less of a man or a woman depending on how you fuck. You are not “fake trans” for having sex a certain way. You are not any less masculine for bottoming or any less feminine for topping.
hate when people don’t give my personality enough time to defrost like i swear you’ll love me just give me 2 weeks
and this is when i started lying. let me make your misunderstandings easier for you <3
“I stopped explaining myself when I realized people only understand from their level of perception.”
— Unknown
I always remind myself if I wasn’t me I would want the things I have now.
“She had felt that way during her own childhood; she’d felt like a watchful, wary adult housed in a little girl’s body. And yet nowadays, paradoxically, it often seemed to her that from behind her adult face a child about eleven years old was still gazing out at the world.”
— Anne Tyler, Clock Dance
legs* but yeah
fuck spotify wrap. let me wrap my arms around you.
the struggle isn’t being a good liar during the interview
it’s keeping the lies up after you get the job