ive seen a lot of people talk about after care on here but only mention it to the extent of some cuddles and a bath and i just want to remind everyone that aftercare shouldnt be limited to that.
if you have a harder session, tend to your subs bruises, scratches, and marks. put ice on bruises and welts to help with inflammation and pain.
if you do bondage, take care of rope burn and help them do some stretches. their body is going to be stiff from being restricted in one position for a long time. also a heating pad can help with sore muscles.
if they have any cuts or are bleeding, dress their wounds properly. make sure to put on antibiotic ointment on before a bandage if needed.
if they have burns for whatever reason, run them under cold water and maybe use ointment on those to help them heal.
make sure they pee after sex to help prevent a UTI. their legs may be shaky so help them get to the bathroom if needed.
give them advil or some other pain med to help with any aching or discomfort.
make sure they drink water. they need it and i cant stress how important this is. also give them some food even if its just a little snack.
give them verbal assurance and praise. tell them they did good and that youre proud of them.
still run a bath, get them cleaned up, give them kisses, cuddle them, etc but dont forget about the rest of aftercare, its so important. take care of your subs and always remember consent, communication, and safety are key.
also give your doms aftercare and affection too, theyre people with emotions and need it
aftercare is just as, if not more, important than the actual scene and should never be skipped, rushed, or disregarded
just a reminder that BIGOTS AREN’T PUNK
YOU CAN’T BE PUNK AND RACIST
YOU CAN’T BE PUNK AND SEXIST
YOU CAN’T BE PUNK AND HOMOPHOBIC
YOU CAN’T BE PUNK AND TRANSPHOBIC
YOU CAN’T BE PUNK AND ABLEIST
YOU CAN’T BE PUNK AND AN ASSHOLE
okay so my father had offered to take me out of the house (YAY) and to take me to a new fly fishing store (DOUBLE YAY) but i’m wondering if that means that i won’t be able to go to michael’s too (would like charms for my wheel of the year beads) so i will definitely ask <33
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