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Cw: abuse mentioned, long ass post

Hey, to everyone reading this post. This is a response to the callout post created by @/sweetlyticklish regarding me. I recommend reading it first, then coming to me.

First off: do not send any hate, anonymous or not, to my ex or anyone she has affiliated with. There's no reason to be spreading more vitriol in this weird ass community. Anything that has been or is being sent is done so without my knowledge. 

To anyone who has sent me anonymous hate: This is a serious matter, and it's always right to believe in someone claiming to be a victim of abuse or some shady shit when possible. I don't blame you. I also don't care that it was sent, and I'm not going to respond to asks, or any message that wasn't sent in good faith. And if you are uncomfortable with me or have any grievance of your own, that's your right.

Now, let's talk about it.

My ex is a compulsive liar. She won’t do so unless she knows she can get away with it and it gives her some type of sympathy or social standing.

We never seemed to be in sync, despite us both thinking otherwise. We had some massive arguments on a frequent basis. When we had some of our biggest fights, I received anonymous hate that had some information that only she could have known. From this, I knew she was telling other community members about that fight, and potentially others.

She has every right to talk to her close friends about relationship problems. But also, who would be sending me hate in that instance?

Second, I found messages to her friends in a discord I wasn’t in, with an assortment of strange false statements.

Here are some of those statements:

- She was pushed over by a homeless man at a target

Context: We were briefly harassed by a homeless man at a target. He was yelling about some random shit in the parking lot, and as we were walking towards our car, he started following and yelling at us about 100 feet back. He never touched either of us, and never got closer than 40 feet or so. I know it's the incident she was talking about because she messaged them about it the day this happened.

- She "made out with Flo Rida" (I'm not kidding)

Context: We were at one of her work events, and they managed to have FLO RIDA actually come and visit and perform for us? I have no idea how they managed to do it, but they did. It was a pretty huge event for work, they often went all out. Anyways, my ex got drunk and she went out to party in the mosh pit area, and Flo Rida was giving out drinks, and he ended up pouring some into her mouth. Idk how it went from that to making out with him? Maybe it was an indirect kiss with him taking a sip and then pouring into her mouth, idk.

- She mentioned that I was her "situation" and that I drove over to see her on her lunch break at work without asking and trying to "have a talk" with her

Context: I texted her: "hey do u want me to bring you lunch?"

She responded: "yeah definitely"

So I went and brought her lunch so we could eat during her break. We didn't "have a talk" we just sat in the car eating lunch together talking about our days. I'm not even sure she was mad at me during this time

I never knew she labeled herself "it's complicated" for her relationship status. This was before I even thought about being polyamorous, which was months later. My ex was living with my best friend, who confirmed to me later she was talking with this guy on calls and basically flirting with him nonstop.

Notice the pattern of these lies. They're based on real events that happen, but because I'm not there to say anything, they can be altered to a more extreme story and gain greater sympathy.

There were many instances where I've suspected some lie happening here and there, but was never able to prove it. She's also asked me to lie for her for seemingly innocuous reasons.

Real example:

-My friend saw her on the phone with someone while I wasn't there. They asked who she was talking to; said it was me.

-My friend messaged me asking what we were calling about. I said we never called.

-Friend confronts her, confused. She panics, begging me to tell her we actually were on the phone and I was the one who lied. I did it.

Sorry for any bad image quality. Do I know who she was actually talking to? I have no idea. She ended up telling me it was her family. Is it true? I dunno if I care to know.

There were other messages that involved her fear of my treatment of her, which I would contest but I cannot prove wrong as they were described very generally. We all have our secrets including myself, but this particular collection of statements were very strange to me.

I confronted her with these messages, to which she confessed were real. After a week of thinking, I broke up with her. Despite being angry with her lying, and confused why she would talk to her friends about me like this, I still loved her, and wanted to remain friends with her. I kept bonding with her, and we even had sessions which I seriously regret. It was deeply wrong of me to keep her attached, and I shouldn't have put her in that situation.

If you're someone who has talked to me in a sexual or otherwise intimate manner, it was likely after this point. We did eventually get back together, though.

I don't think she had any long-term character assassination plan or did anything out of malice, she simply wanted heightened sympathy from her peers. And I believe there were also parts where she genuinely did feel wronged or abused, which were reflected in other messages. It's not my right to tell her her own feelings.

To my old ex-friends, you are intelligent and kind. There is no shame in remaining friends with her, and I'm glad she's had the necessary support to get to where she is today. Your decisions only made sense based on the cumulative contempt that she's brought from her account of what happened. I hold no hatred over you for choosing her friendship. She is sweet, funny, highly spirited, speaks with candor when the time calls for it, and easy to talk to. It's why I fell in love with her back in the day.

As for stalking: Have you ever looked at an old friend's social media, with a wistful sigh of wishing things were different? Cause I sure have every once in a while. I’m not here to keep tabs on you. I don’t look at your account if you’ve blocked me.

As for twisting the narrative: I've told a grand total of 2 close friends I've made on this horny ass app about these types of stories of my ex. If you think I've been spreading some type of misinformation, you'd be wrong cause I haven't truly talked to people on this app much at all since the first breakup. I was just now working up the courage to spread out a bit more, which she probably noticed.

If there's some type of dirt she has on me, I'm happy to talk about it. Anyone who has sent me some type of content, rest in the fact that if there's something I have saved on my computer, I have no idea it's there lol. Saving someone's photos/content is not okay, and I've never had any intention of keeping anything. 

There are more things that happened in our relationship, but this post has gone on long enough.

I helped pack your things with your family into their truck. You asked for a goodbye kiss in front of them. I did it. I watched you all drive away. You wanted me to have your life360 on your drive to Texas so I'd know you got home safe.

And now you're spreading more bullshit about me. I'm tired of it. I'm not going to make another response post. Keep your friends, I don't mind them having you. I hope you and your new partner are doing well. I assume it’s B*****n? You know, the one you said you had  mutual feelings for, and they were telling you to leave me for them? Or maybe you’re with someone else. Like Carrot, the other B*****n who “called everyone bb” on the server where you set your relationship status to “it’s complicated” without my knowledge. The one where my friend told me they heard you flirting with someone on the phone, or the one you were texting while we were watching movies together in a group.

ALSO, does anyone have some type of tech that will let me gain access to texts from my old phone that I no longer have? It would help me with more concrete evidence on this.

I'm keeping my accounts btw. I'm not running away from being blocked or trying to avoid conflict, I'm keeping the username on here and FetLife. If it ever changes, I’ll update my tumblr to reflect that. I don't hide and leave servers when things get a bit uncomfortable.

Anyways, BOUNDLESS LOVE TO YOU ALL GOODBYE

@happydayz101 🤤🤤🤤 yeah what if I -

What if i put my hands behind my head and you tickle my nipples until i can't take it anymore or until you make me cum ~

Dope asf 😎

@cutelittleswitch Ruthless and gentle eh? Sounds like a recipe for…yeah I’m outta here *runs*

As for me…🥴 I wanna say a 1/3rd mixture of Teasing, Athletic, and Squirmy Lee. I love to tease and provoke, I generally feel like my endurance is pretty high and I love the chase game aspects, I have been recently fantasizing about the usage of thigh spreader straps, and I will squirm around (or try too) like a madman while secretly loving it.

Types of Lee's and Ler's in the Tickle Community

Types of Ler’s:

Gentle Ler: Asks where you wouldn’t feel comfortable being tickled and tries to steer clear, light touches, doesn’t like to scratch or use brushes because they are scared to hurt you, fantasies about feathers, loving eyes when the Lee catches their breath, tries not to tickle for too long so the Lee feels comfortable, loves the idea of cheering the Lee up by hug tickles on the tummy and sides/tingly neck kisses, traces shapes and words in the Lee’s skin, likes squeeks and giggles more than tickled-to-tears laughter, likes to tickle with the fabric of your shirt first so you can feel the difference in sensitivity once they put their hand under your shirt

Shy Ler: Asks if they can tickle you, takes time to get to know someone before finally tickling them, is the type to giggle while to Lee is just /dying/ laughing, CANNOT SAY THE T WORD WITHOUT FEELING AWKWARD OR BLUSHING OMG, makes them just MELT if they hear you squeal, fantasies about pinning someone’s arms above their head to have eeeverything out in the open, their heart starts to swell when they find the sweet spot that makes the Lee sound incoherent, LOVES when the Lee tries to curl in a ball/rocks back in forth because it tickles SO BADLY, wants cuddles after tickles

Cheeky Ler: Teases the Lee ALL THE TIME, sometimes using baby talk/calling themselves the tickle monster, will wait to the last moment to tickle the Lee’s worst/favorite spot, SMIRKS WITH DIRECT EYE CONTACT, tries to make the Lee blush in embarrassment, TRIES TO GET THE LEE TO SAY THE T WORD, kisses the Lee while their still giggling from the attack, tickles you to wake you up in the morning, pokES SENSITIVE PLACES IN PUBLIC TO MAKE YOU JUMP, likes to play tickle games like “miscounting” the ribs, hovers their fingers riiight above a tickle spot making the Lee squirm or giggle in anticipation, like to chase the Lee around the house until they’re cornered

Ruthless Ler: Needs a safe word (you don’t even KNOW), loves the idea of tying you down to have FULL range, loves to stretch you out enough so you can’t squirm AT ALL, uses tools (brushes, feathers, nails/claws, toothbrushes, paint brushes, maybe even gags), will linger in your worst spots until your vision is BLURRY, fantasies about hour long sessions, will continue lightly tickling you while your catching your breath just so you’ll keep laughing, makes up challenges such as “don’t laugh or I’ll add more time”, CAN and WILL make you BEG, loooooves to get the Lee to say something embarrassing, is a ruthless Ler but turns into an instant sweetheart after tickling

Tactful Ler: Knows EXACTLY where you’re ticklish and figures out what type of tickling gets the best reactions, likes to pick on the Lee with dorky lines like ‘Don’t!’ ‘Don’t what?’ ‘Tickle me!’ ‘Tickle you? Well if you insist!’, figures out what kind of tickle talk will get you to just /die/, will go from one tickle spot to another when the Lee is trying to block them, fantasies about sitting on the Lee’s legs to have FULL access, WILL TICKLE YOU WHEN YOU ARE STRETCHING/GETTING SOMETHING FROM THE TOP SHELF, likes to nibble and kiss on their Lee’s neck/tummy/sides, will somehow find a REALLY bad tickle spot that the Lee didn’t even know about

Types of Lee’s:

Teasing Lee: Will show off tickle spots that will embarrass and provoke the Ler (like lifting their shirt up, putting their feet in the Ler’s lap), knows what to say to literally make you blush, flirts SO MUCH before being tickled (but as soon as you even mention the t word they go silent and get embarrassed), has a tickle spot but wants the Ler to find it, making cute smarty pants comments in between tickling so they can be WRECKED, wants you to make them squeal (!!!), will stretch just to see if someone will tickle them

Tough Lee: Wants to be ticked only by people they trust the most (because they feel so vulnerable), will claim they aren’t ticklish when they’re actually the moST SENSITIVE PERSON, will hold their breath to try and not laugh, will put up a hard exterior but as soon as you say the t word they GET SO FLUSTERED, doesn’t like being tickled when they’re sad or angry (is frustrates them more… very emotional), buuut they DO have a favorite spot (which if you linger there long enough they’ll turn into a cute pile of mush)

Bashful Lee: They cannot flipping handle being teased (!!!), they blush 7 different shades of red because they are so easily embarrassed, they love and hate tickle games and their heart flutters every time someone suggests to play one, their laugh is so airy and contagious that the LER has a laughing fit, their weakened so easily when tickled that their knees will start to buckle, above all else they won’t mind doing anything you tell them to (like holding there arms up shyly, or if you say “don’t laugh” which, try as they might, causes them to break down even faster)

Athletic Lee: Will poke/tickle the Ler’s sides to start WAR, will full out tickle the Ler so the Ler gets major revenge, not only deserves to be pinned down but ASKING FOR IT, asking to be tickled in general, likes to be chased around the house instead of just taking it, can be tickled for the longest time and still not be winded from it, like they can literally be tickled five times in the same day and aren’t tiered from it, fantisies about being tied down, their biggest weakness are tools (brushes, feathers)

Squirmy Lee: Can’t even sit still when simply MENTIONING the t word, is the type to start laughing just by wiggling your figures at them, will buck and try wiggle out of the Ler’s grasp (even though they still love it), will curl in a ball or lay on their stomach just to limit the open tickle spots (yet will somehow make it worse for themselves by letting bad spots be out on the open), will find themselves falling over or end up on the ground when the tickling gets SO INTENSE

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Feel free to add some more! :)

Who’s “we”? 😝 The only truth I know is that your oiled feet with my brushes deserve this treatment way more then mine do 😏 @happydayz101

HEY DONT YOU MAKE ME TEAR UP!

You both deserve it, seriously, I can’t stress that enough! All the support and love to you both, I say! And technically, we say 😉❤️❤️❤️

wait who just sent me $110 for my NEST fund im tweaking i cant remember your tumblr handle and im terrible with names please dm me so i can grovel and sob ????? i need to thank u

Yes she definitely needs to stay in her ler mood as long as humanly possible

#LerMoodSupport

❤️❤️

I feel it, you feel it.

Share in the sensation, embrace every second.

@happydayz101 Not the only thing that gets hot and heavy and “explodey” when hands get shown 😈😏

Happy Halloween…it’s been a while. This was a fun one 😈

Sitting at campus today studying and sitting on a few pieces of paper is this feather…

1st thought running through my mind is how nice this feather would be sawing though some toes

@happydayz101 would say my toes but in reality it should be her toes 😉

#LeeMoodWent📈

I only spread TRUTH and ACCLAMATION wherever I go! Don’t lie! You’ll only get it worse for lying 😉💀

It’s @a-switch-and-his-feather’s 25th birthday! Everyone go wish him a happy birthday and send him lots of tickly teases on his special day! 😉

Especially @happydayz101, @southernbellelee, and @flusteredyapping 😏