45/M, switchy, and single. Starting now (late January, 2025), I’m limiting my reblogs to posts that cover at least TWO of the above topics.
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I want to do both of these things!
@myheartinherhands
I absolutely do. ❤️
Feed me pussy when I’m good. ❤️
Ladies, get as many locked as you can!
Always.
A favorite fantasy of mine: make me cum in you, then make me eat you out.
Love this. She decides on lockups and has a hall pass during them. Fantastic!
One of my top fantasies: a partner who tells me in no uncertain terms to lick her.
That’s the dream, right?
This is an important part of understanding the chastity fetish IMO. It’s as much about the partner as it is about the device.
I agree with all of these.
Do you want that too? You only get it if you tell me you want it.
Looking for a woman to give me permission…
It’s the little things he does now without me even asking for that makes me feel I made the right decision.
op is a monogamous person who felt they haven't seen enough posts acknowledging this part of the queer community outside of non-monogamous circles and blogs
casual survey: reblog if you want to kiss a girl right now
Never saying “I don’t know”. Like many other subjects BDSM is always evolving so no matter how experienced you think you are you can always still learn and should regularly do your research on your interests. Also watch out for the 20 year old Doms with 10 years experience that will “train” you. It’s common sense , be careful.
“You don’t need a safe word/signal”. Yes you do. Always. And it’s sacred. It’s not a mood killer. It’s not weakness. It’s necessary so you can enjoy a nice time while being SAFE.
Refusing to provide or receive any form of aftercare. Aftercare should be present in all forms of sexual interaction, even sexting, for both sides.
Comparing you to a previous partner or saying things like “my last sub would have done what you said no to”. Shows zero respect for your limits , boundaries and you as a person. It’s one of the early stages of abuse. Stay away.
Punishing you outside of a sexual act or acting like he owns you 24/7 without this being discussed and agreed upon beforehand.Another clear sign of abuse. Leave.
Pushing your limits without your permission. Physically or mentally. It’s something that should never happen if you are not feeling completely safe and ready for it.
Getting punished for saying no. You can say so to anything you are not feeling ok with. And a real Dom will respect it.
I think it's pretty clear what she wants
@myheartinherhands