I hate making posts like this but I need to move out extremely quickly as my situation has gotten increasingly unbearable. I'll save the sob story but I need money to move VERY far from my abuser within the next year or so.
I'm optimistic things will eventually get better but it'll take some effort on my part. For now, I have a GoFundMe and my Ko-Fi in case anyone would like to help:
Of course only donate if you're in a good position to !! I'd hate for anyone to donate and not have money for necessities :[
Bad batter, my OFF hyper fixation is back
And stronger than ever
i lost my job two months ago but luckily i’m about to start a new job on Monday. unfortunately i have to wait 4 more weeks since i get paid biweekly to get my first paycheck
we were just only barely able to pay rent with my girlfriends SSI so we’re struggling. i had to miss my last two testosterone doses and i feel horrible. we’ve been eating as little as possible to try to get by but it hasnt been enough
please boost if you see this, i really need to be able to get groceries and our prescriptions so i can be able to start work to support us
c*shapp: $frogiess
v*mno: @finchfrog
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I need every single person to understand how horrible tumblr’s tagging system is
I go into the tag for epilepsy and its all flashing lights. We can’t use our own tag because people without epilepsy fill it up with improper warnings.
Use ‘flashing’ in place of ‘epilepsy’ in your tags. You aren’t warning people of epileptics, you’re warning us of flashing lights. Please please tag properly. Epileptics say this endlessly and constantly and it’s ignored. You are risking lives by doing this.
Here’s proof of what I mean:
Morris redesign + ref sheet ya!
gentle reminder that people do not have to like/ship the popular ships in a fandom. widely popularized ships do not equal canon ships and even if they were, people are allowed to have different pairings they prefer. if one fandom creator popularized things, it does not mean that every single other creator has to also do that thing.
please be respectful and considerate of the people making free content for your enjoyment as well - you never know whats going on on the other end of the screen to cause an author to not upload a new chapter or why the artist hasn't posted new art in three weeks. their boundaries are just as important as anyone else's and deserve to be respected as a basic human right.
if you're a minor, do not participate in 18+ spaces! this is for your safety as well as the safety of everyone else. if anyone over the age of 18 insists its okay for you to participate in nsfw topics with them, run. be careful with what you're posting online, too. you never know who has ill intent when interacting with you.
be also incredibly mindful that not everyone wants to participate in fandom discourse. proship/antiship discourse, ship wars, "what are your thoughts on [insert problem here]", - these are good and fun in their own respects, but can be incredibly distressing if brought up out of nowhere.
fandom is supposed to be for fun, and it isn't fun if its stressful and dangerous.
I regret to inform you that Discord's new Terms of Service includes an arbitration clause. You can find it here https://discord.com/terms/#16. This clause includes an opt-out, which I have transcribed here:
You can decline this agreement to arbitrate by emailing an opt-out notice to arbitration-opt-out@discord.com within 30 days of April 15, 2024 or when you first register your Discord account, whichever is later; otherwise, you shall be bound to arbitrate disputes in accordance with the terms of these paragraphs. If you opt out of these arbitration provisions, Discord also will not be bound by them.
These clauses are underhanded ways that corporations seek to deprive you of your right to participate in class-action lawsuits and your right to a jury trial. (This does only apply to us users ,other people still spread the word though )