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- I am the creator of my reality.
- I am worthy of all the good things life has to offer
- Everything I desire is already mine
- I am the hottest person ever.
- I'm litteraly model level gorgeous
- I am always on the pedestal, I am everyone first choice.
- I don't need to worry, everything always falls into places for me.
- Everything works out for me.
-I am worthy of everything I desire.
- I am always in the right place at the right time.
- I am successful and abundant
-I am the main character.
- I am the it girl, the trend setter, the one everyone admire and respect.
- The 3D world mirrors my inner state instantly.
- I am in perfect alignment with my desires, and they manifest without delay
- I'm so exited and passionate about anything I want that the 3d has no choice but to conform immediately.
- My energy is so magnetic, I attract the best possible outcomes for me.
- I'm living the perfect life
HIHIHI!! First off,I am so so so sorry for being so inactive! A lot has happened in my life (moving, mental health- not to mention im chronically ill 😭)
Anywho! I am bacckkkkk! So to start off again I am going to be giving myself a challenge and manifesting by just saying one word. (I picked turtle😭🐢)
Here are all of the things I am GOING to manifest! 🔮✨
Db (toned while being slim, bigger boobs, cleared acne, noticeable abs but not TOO noticeable, blue grey eyes, DEPUFF FACE basically make face slimmer, me but like 1000000x prettier)
Get official diagnosis for POTS
Super fucking smart and learn things easily I’m literally top of my class
Get accepted into my dream highschool for acting (after years of homeschool😣✊)
MONEY MONEY MONEY LITERALLY SO MUCH MONEY
Custom hot pink wheelchair!! And it all being covered by insurance!
Healthy relationship with sister and all family members
Wheelchair accessible wherever I go!
Good relationship with food, eating meals daily
MY MF OCD GETTING BETTER
Amazing gut and digestive health!
Finally start to heal from my chronic illness
Make lots of AMAZING friends at my new school!
Family starts making a lot more money than before!!
Amazing singing and acting skills
Once again, MONEY
Being able to go to school everyday and learn without getting burnt out!
I’ll be doing this all by saying one word (turtle) I literally just chose a random word and I decided that saying it will get me my desires 💖
BYE 🧚♀️
backstory: for the past 6/7 months, i’ve been having HORRIBLE menstrual cramps. now it may not seem like a big deal to someone who doesn’t have as bad cramps, but coming from someone who ends up at the ER every month, in and out of doctor’s offices in excruciating pain, it’s a big deal to me as it has effected my life—not for the better. (not even an iv helped the pain)
about a week ago, i was watching one of Rita Kaminski’s videos and i had decided to start affirming “my period is always painless.”
i didn’t even affirm it 24/7, just when the thought came to mind, and when i felt like it i would affirm the same affirmation as i fell asleep.
then a couple days later—just before my period had started i started to have an upset stomach, what usually happens before my period starts. the only difference was the pain had decreased by a lot, and i kept affirming “my period is painless” and decided that was the truth.
then, just three days ago, i woke up and started my period, yet i felt NOTHING!!! my stomach barely hurt at all, i was able to actually be active during my period—because i wasn’t in any pain!!!
i couldn’t be happier right now, knowing that i changed my reality just with one sentence !!
this is your sign to stop being miserable, even if it feels like forever, to start affirming and change your reality !! ♡
I've seen a bunch of people say that you can't look at the 3d and recognize that something hasn't happened or changed yet. You absolutely can, though.
Your desire manifests when it's your dominate thought. If you're manifesting a call and think for a single second 'omg he/she/they haven't called me yet' DON'T freak out.
It's fine. Take a deep breath and chill out. Recognizing and being upset over something for a small second of your day is fine, so long as you direct your thoughts in favor of having your desire again. Whether that be affirming, visualizing, or rampaging, direct your thoughts back to having your desire.
If having your desire is your dominate thought, then you are going to get it no matter what.
Love,
Effie
Listen, I'm a very literal and logical person. Crazy to think that I believe in manifestation, but I do.
I see bloggers say that time doesn't exist all of the time, but they never delve into the science behind that fact. Hence, this post.
We made time. Sure, there's day and night, but that's it. We decided that there's sixty seconds in a minute and sixty minutes in an hour. We decided that there's twenty-four hours in a day. So, saying that manifesting is a process is inherently wrong.
Since time doesn't exist, the second that you decide you have your desire is when you have it. It doesn't show up because you believe that it hasn't yet. You believe that it's a process, which makes it a process for YOU.
You see people talk about instant manifestation and wonder how they do it, but it's truly simple enough that if you believe that time doesn't exist, then it doesn't. You believe that you manifest instantly, and you do. Those two beliefs are interchangeable.
Love,
Josephine
(Effie)
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GET A GRIP
JUST BECAUSE IT'S WHAT YOU SEE, DOESN'T MEAN THAT IT'S WHAT'S REAL
YOU MAKE THE RULES
EFFIE'S FOOL-PROOF GUIDE TO MANIFESTING
OBSESSION DOESN'T MATTER
STOP RELYING ON THE 3D FOR VALIDATION
TIME IS A SOCIAL CONSTRUCT
IT'S FINE TO RECOGNIZE THE 3D
Listen, I know that I said that I got pretty much instant results last Monday, but that isn't always the case. Movement sometimes decides to take baby steps. The 3d wants you to go back to affirming the old story because, sometimes, it doesn't like change.
Like, I haven't spoken to my man for almost twelve years—and back then, we were five and eight. I haven't physically seen movement since monday, but I know he's thinking about me. I know he's creeping on my Instagram, and I know that he broke up with his girlfriend yesterday. Why? Because I say so.
It's like learning about gravity or oxygen. You can't see it, but you know it's there, right? You know that it's keeping us on our feet/breathing. Movement isn't always right in front of your face. Sometimes, it decides to be a gas instead of a liquid or solid that you can physically see.
But it's still there. Even if you don't think that it is. If you are affirming and persisting in favor of your desire, then there is movement. Even if you don't believe that. The law is a law. If you are performing the steps—decide, assume, persist—then there is always going to be movement.
Love,
Josephine
(Effie)
Obsessing over the thing you want doesn't matter. It's not going to affect your manifesting unless you let it.
I started seeing movement from my SP when I realized how much I was obsessing and embraced it. The only time that it'll get in the way is if you are constantly looking at the 3d for validation.
So, obsess over your man/woman, obsess over how pretty you are with your desired appearance, obsess about how beautiful your house or apartment is!
If you find yourself looking to the 3d for validation, take a step back and stop affirming or visualizing for a few days. I promise that it'll help.
Love,
Josephine
(Effie)
+ one extra step that bloggers tend to leave out <3
1. DECIDE
now, this one might seem basic, but the first step is always going to be deciding what you want. Whether it be what you want to look like, what your dream relationship entails, or literally whatever you want! Nothing is impossible.
2. ASSUME
Once you decide what you want, you need to assume that you have it. It's truly simple. A good 'I have x' should suffice before you go onto step three.
3. PERSIST
Now, this isn't the last step, but it's the second most important one. You have to persist in your assumption. Whether this be by affirming, visualizing, or just knowing that it's yours.
Now, can we get a drum roll for my super secret yet necessary last step...
4. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
The belief in yourself needs to come before your belief in the law, in my opinion. It doesn't matter if you do or don't believe in the law if you don't believe that you yourself can do it. Now, some may be like, 'Oh, but I do believe in myself, Effie.' No, you don't, or you wouldn't be wondering what it is that's still holding you back from your desires.
You are your own worst enemy, but that's okay. You can fix it. Believing in yourself might be hard, especially if no one ever taught you how to, but you can learn. Start off with small things if you want.
Love,
Josephine
(Effie)
Hi, I recently lost an account that was extremely important to me. I wanted to recover it but I don't remember the password or email.... Would it be possible for me to have it back??? I'm desperate (I've already tried contacting Twitter and they said it wasn't possible to recover it) It seems impossible 💔💔💔
Nothing's impossible! Just affirm that you have your account back! And believe in yourself. I highly recommend my newest post.
To quote Alice in Wonderland:
Sometimes, I've believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast.
adding onto this, that feeling wasn't a feeling of knowing that it was going to happen. No, it was a feeling of believing in myself. Everyone says that you need to know that it's gonna happen, but I truly believe that you only need to feel that belief in yourself.
Long post ahead
Listen, I probably sound like I have manifested tens of thousands of things, but I haven't. I've manifested my period going away a few times, and a better living situation. That's almost it.
Since actually discovering that that was the law of assumption, I've been chasing the feeling that I had when I manifested those things. Hell, just recently, I logged out to manifest my man, and I couldn't find that feeling, so I came back to figure out why.
Last Monday, I had therapy (#trauma) and talked so much about my childhood best friend and realized that he's the first person that I've truly loved. So, I decided to lock in. I felt good and started affirming.
Guess what?
Not even six hours later, he posted on his Instagram story, turned on his Facebook messages without adding me back, and posted on Instagram. Now, if you have Facebook, you know that you don't just go on there to turn your messages on and then close the app. He definitely creeped on me, which is the only reason I even posted on Facebook in the first place—so he could see a glimpse of who I am twelve years after we last saw each other and spoke.
After that? Absolutely nothing. In fact, I accidentally confirmed him having a gf last night!! But, I was reading a post by @hrrtshape and realized that I never truly believed in myself. When I manifested my period away those few times, I didn't know anything about the law of assumption, and it was the same when manifesting my current living situation. What was different about Monday? I genuinely believed in myself.
Now, as someone who grew up in an abusive household, I never resonated with the 'it's so easy, all you have to do is believe in yourself', because I didn't know how to do that. My parents never did, so how would I know how to do it?
Belief in yourself and your abilities truly is all you need, though. I believed my period wouldn't come a few times in 2023, and it didn't. I believed that my living situation would change, and it did. I believed that I would see movement from my sp, and I accidentally messaged him on Facebook when we weren't friends on there, and his messages were previously off!
I believed that I need to have the same feeling that I did then and that I can't be consistently freaking out about movement from my sp or it wouldn't come. I believed that I couldn't be crying or upset that he has a gf because then it wouldn't change.
You don't need to put those restrictions on yourself, though. You just need to believe that you make the rules. You decide what you need to do to manifest, not anything anyone on YouTube or Tumblr say you need. Tumblr and YouTube are best for the basics—decide, assume, persist—and the success stories and fun manifesting things.
So, when you say 'I have this' and don't see it, that isn't proof that you haven't gotten it unless you say that it is. It truly is as simple as 'persist and believe in yourself'.
Love,
Josephine
(Effie)
Long post ahead
Listen, I probably sound like I have manifested tens of thousands of things, but I haven't. I've manifested my period going away a few times, and a better living situation. That's almost it.
Since actually discovering that that was the law of assumption, I've been chasing the feeling that I had when I manifested those things. Hell, just recently, I logged out to manifest my man, and I couldn't find that feeling, so I came back to figure out why.
Last Monday, I had therapy (#trauma) and talked so much about my childhood best friend and realized that he's the first person that I've truly loved. So, I decided to lock in. I felt good and started affirming.
Guess what?
Not even six hours later, he posted on his Instagram story, turned on his Facebook messages without adding me back, and posted on Instagram. Now, if you have Facebook, you know that you don't just go on there to turn your messages on and then close the app. He definitely creeped on me, which is the only reason I even posted on Facebook in the first place—so he could see a glimpse of who I am twelve years after we last saw each other and spoke.
After that? Absolutely nothing. In fact, I accidentally confirmed him having a gf last night!! But, I was reading a post by @hrrtshape and realized that I never truly believed in myself. When I manifested my period away those few times, I didn't know anything about the law of assumption, and it was the same when manifesting my current living situation. What was different about Monday? I genuinely believed in myself.
Now, as someone who grew up in an abusive household, I never resonated with the 'it's so easy, all you have to do is believe in yourself', because I didn't know how to do that. My parents never did, so how would I know how to do it?
Belief in yourself and your abilities truly is all you need, though. I believed my period wouldn't come a few times in 2023, and it didn't. I believed that my living situation would change, and it did. I believed that I would see movement from my sp, and I accidentally messaged him on Facebook when we weren't friends on there, and his messages were previously off!
I believed that I need to have the same feeling that I did then and that I can't be consistently freaking out about movement from my sp or it wouldn't come. I believed that I couldn't be crying or upset that he has a gf because then it wouldn't change.
You don't need to put those restrictions on yourself, though. You just need to believe that you make the rules. You decide what you need to do to manifest, not anything anyone on YouTube or Tumblr say you need. Tumblr and YouTube are best for the basics—decide, assume, persist—and the success stories and fun manifesting things.
So, when you say 'I have this' and don't see it, that isn't proof that you haven't gotten it unless you say that it is. It truly is as simple as 'persist and believe in yourself'.
Love,
Josephine
(Effie)
can i help afganistan girls and women with law of assumption?
yes!! you can do literally anything with law of assumption, including 'illogical' things!! I'd personally use something like 'everyone in the world is safe' or 'every woman in Afghanistan is safe' if you want to be specific, in case that's what you were asking!!
why law of assumption women need to manifest themselves a rich boyfriend when they can make themselves rich?
Not everyone manifests a rich bf?? Like, I'm manifesting that we're BOTH rich. It's not about the partner being a man and having to have money or whatever. It's just about being spoiled. A lot of girls who find loa tend to be in less than ideal situations and want someone to spoil them and give them princess treatment—to treat them how they deserve to be treated.
nasty pick me seeking male validation like a weak bitch
aww my first hateful ask!! Anyway, I'm not seeking male validation??? Is this just because I said that I was locking in after finding out my man has a gf? That's funny.
It's not like I'm sending him fucking inappropriate pictures. He's legit my childhood best friend??? Also, I'm not manifesting that they're gonna hate each other, just that they break up before he goes to see her in July.
But, also, be more creative with your shit and maybe don't do it anonymously??
Remember in history class, when your teacher taught you about Christopher Columbus and that he's an amazing person? I do. They were lying, though. He was a horrible person. I promise that this leads me into my point lol.
What you see isn't always what is true. You're taught that Christopher Columbus was an amazing person, but he wasn't. Just like how the 3d is telling you that you don't have your desires, but you do.
You look in the mirror and see that you don't have your desired appearance? Yes you fucking do. You see that your sp hasn't called or text you or asked you out yet? Uhm, yes, they have, girl, get with the program.
The 3d is like your school history books, incorrect and misinforming. So, ignore it!
the things that get you to lock in are crazy. I just found out that My Man™️ has a girlfriend and immediately went 'uh, no, fucking lock in girl. That's your man."
logging out for a bit to manifest something I've had resistance on <3
you are the creator of your reality!! nobody decides what happens besides YOU!! If you decide that you want something and persist in the belief that you have it, then you have it!!
There is no difference between the 3d and 4d. You can't say that if you have something in the 4d that you have it in the 3d, too, but say that the 3d lags at the same time!! The second that you decide that you have something in the 4d, then you automatically have it in the 3d. The only reason that you don't see it is because you decided that you don't. You decided that the 3d lags, so it does.
Please realize that you are the creator of your reality and that there doesn't have to be a time delay! Manifesting is sooo simple, and people on here really overcomplicate it.
You are limitless
any limits you see are only there because of your assumptions. change your assumptions.
you can manifest anything ♡
Remember, the past doesn’t truly exist. 𓂃
𓏲 The only proof of the past is your memories and the memories that others have. But memories are always changing.
and guess what! ♡
₊ You can manifest anything, including people having different memories of things.
Completely altering situations in the past is very possible and real.
You can be living a completely different life; having always had your desired face or body, living in your desired city, the list is endless.
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i have my desired face and i still get exponentially prettier every single day
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i am the epitome of beautiful inside and out. it is impossible for me to put into words how much i value and love myself. i know that prioritising and caring about myself is not selfish. i don’t need anybody’s validation. i know myself and constantly explore new hobbies and interests. i give myself time to grow as a person and evolve every single day. i know how to use the law and i am not scared of change. on the contrary i am constantly changing and bettering myself. i trust myself fully.
my aura is calming, wholesome and considerate. i remind people of jhené aiko’s songs and i make people smile easily with my loving demeanour. i truly care about other people and myself. i will be happy no matter what happens. i am so proud of myself and i know that i deserve only the best in life. whatever the circumstances are i am safe and secure with myself. i thrive all the time.
i am never alone because i have an incredible support system. my family and friends are understanding, loving and caring. they stand by my side and empower me no matter what. whenever they need my help i am there for them. i love helping people, it makes me so happy. people trust me enough to open up to me and when they need my advice it is always helpful and useful.
i am known for being calm and patient. but i am not scared to cut someone off if they treat me wrong. i am so brave and strong. i have healthy coping mechanisms. my favourite thing is going out on a walk because it always cheers me up. i love waking up early to birds chirping yet i always get enough sleep. my lifestyle is the definition of health and happiness.
i know how to make the best out of even the worst situations. luckily for me i never have to use that knowledge since everything works out so well for me. it is a fact that everything is always going to work out for me. i believe in silver linings, happy endings and i never lose faith. miracles happen to me on the daily.
jealousy, what is that? i never compare myself to others or engage in drama. i could never bring myself to have hate in my heart. instead i focus on myself and people treat me the same way i treat them, with love and care.
i care about our earth. animals love and feel safe around me. i am a huge animal friend and i am environmentally conscious.
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what if you got quiet. what if you got so quiet and you curled up in a little ball in your bed with a stuffed animal or a blanket or a pillow and you said, “god, can we talk?” and because god is you and you are god you didn’t have to wait and you didn’t have to go anywhere at all and—“yes,” god said. and you said, “god, i want an apartment with floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking the city.” “god, i want the boy with the kind eyes and tattoo-covered arms and exquisite taste in music.” “god, i want to feel alive again.” “god, i want to travel first-class to switzerland.” “god, i want a hound dog named finn.” and god said, “yes.” and you said, “but how can you make this happen?” and god said, “i can make anything happen.” and you said, “quickly?” and god said, “i love you. why would i not make this rapid?” and you said, “i can trust you?” and god said, “like your life depends on it.” and you said, “my life does depend on it.” and god said, “i know. i’ve got it now. you’re safe. let me take care of it.” and you hugged god. and god hugged you. and you hugged yourself. and you drifted off to sleep saying, “i have it. i’m safe. i have it. i’m safe. i have it. i’m—” and you woke in the morning and the world was new. because you knew it was done. because god said yes. and god never goes back on a yes unless you tell god “no.” and any time throughout the day you thought, “is anything happening?” god said, “it’s all happening.” and you said, “but i can’t see a thing.” and god said, “i am your eyes.” and you said, “but i don’t have to do anything?” and god said, “you did the only thing needed.” and you said, “but what about my thoughts and my state and acting as if?” and god said, “i love you.” and you knew what that meant. so instead of worrying or wondering or obsessing another second, you went to the bakery and bought a slice of chocolate cake and drove home and sat on your back deck and ate and ate and watched the sunset and celebrated.
୨୧ clean girl? pink pilates princess? i invented that!
୨୧ discipline is my middle name
୨୧ my energy is calming, captivating, luxurious and enchanting
୨୧ i look like royalty
୨୧ my beauty is one of a kind
୨୧ everyone always asks for my skincare routine
୨୧ i am constantly getting spoiled with gifts and all my favorite brands want to work with me
୨୧ my hair is long, glossy and super princessy!
୨୧ why am i such a cutie pie? everything i do is simply adorable!
୨୧ i know for a fact that i will always stand out
୨୧ i always look amazing in both photos and videos
୨୧ i'm a breath of fresh air
୨୧ i'm the epitome of elegance
୨୧ i have the beauty and the brains. i'm truly the whole package!
୨୧ i'm the best at everything i do
୨୧ i'm in love with taking care of myself
୨୧ i'm the definition of perfect
୨୧ i am living the life of my dreams
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✨concept✨
I am THAT GIRL I’ve always known myself to be. I embrace my originality. I thrive in my authenticity. I flaunt my strong personal brand that fearlessly reflects my energetic signature. I love myself, my routine, my transformation. I honour my progress and pat myself on the back at the end of each day. Every day is a good day to be alive. Every day I work joyfully towards building my empire. I know with certainty my Divine Timing is just around the corner. I am THAT GIRL I’ve always known myself to be.
✨stability✨
To become a fabulous girl, I gotta believe in myself. I have faith in the choices I make. With that, I free myself from background noises that are criticising every single step I take. I heal myself from all and any kinds of trauma from childhood, adolescence, as well as adulthood. I silence all demonic voices that are telling me I’m doing something wrong. I’m not. I’m learning and I’m making progress at a pace that matches me. I’m comfortable with the idea of making mistakes because that’s how I learn to discern what’s right and wrong. I don’t sweat the small things. I don’t punish myself for mishaps. I’m happy to learn. I’m proud of myself, always. I am a fabulous girl. I believe in me.
✨productivity✨
I have the energy to do everything I want, everything that matters to my happiness. I am productive at a pace that is comfortable to me. I don’t let other people rush me. I am in my centre, always. I create, study, exercise and work at a pace that is rational and with a calm mind. I am happy and energised when I work create, study, exercise and work on things that I know matter to me. I look forward to my results on a 24-hour basis. I am always happy with whatever progress I have made within a 24-hour basis. My physical health is taken care of. My mental health is honoured and prioritised. I am a happy girl/boy~ I have the energy to do everything I want, everything that matters to my happiness.
✨magick✨
Money makes me happy because I love what I do to earn it. Money flows to me easily and effortlessly, in a way that is both expected and delightfully unexpected. I always have more than enough money in my possession. With the money I make, I am able to live a comfortable life that suits me. The money I make help me be in touch with my true spirituality. I always know what good I can do with my money, both for myself and those I care about. I am rational when spending money. I spend money wisely to take care of myself and those I care about. I have amazing money management skills. Money is not something I chase, rather it is attracted to me because of my abundance mindset. I make a lot of money and I am worth every cent.
✨manifesting✨
I speed up my positive manifestations via the elimination of disbelief. I dissolve right here and right now all remnants of lack mindset and all remnants of constrictive traumatic experiences. I dissolve penchant for drama. I dissolve karma. With my superconscious power I eliminate all background noises that are telling me I don’t deserve to live fabulously. I am deserving of everything I wish to see manifest in my physical reality. I am always deserving to have good things. I am deserving of a clean and healthy life. I deserve to be happy and pretty. My mind is now filled with butterflies and rainbows. My subconscious mind is paradise, forever free from parasites. My mind is strong and sure. My self-esteem is high and healthy. I regenerate my faith in my Self and the benevolence of the Universe.
✨miracles✨
I am a divine being having a Human experience. I don’t let logic get in the way. My way is the way of magic and miracles. My logic helps me get through challenges but my magic is what manifests favourable outcomes in spite of adversity. I believe in miracles. I am a miracle. I magnetise good luck and rare opportunities. I have what it takes to become a vibrational match to good luck and miracles. My skills are top notch. My knowledge is abundant. I work well with others and have great social skills. I easily distinguish professional and personal situations. I don’t let people hurt my feelings or traumatise me. Whatever others say, that’s a reflection of their own mindset. I get on with my own miracle mindset. The world is full of miracles because I am here.
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if you're struggling with manifesting rn, please give this a read. you deserve some peace 🫂
i was watching a video by edward art on youtube last night and he read this quote from Neville that i loved sm:
"should one little doubt enter your mind after you felt the feeling of the wish fulfilled, do this: just remember 'but i experienced it. i experienced ownership. so i don't care if something at this very moment denies it, i experienced it."
1. know what you deserve and never settle for less
2. do what needs to be done to help yourself
3. learn to detach
4. drop the people pleasing
5. never underestimate your ability to create your own reality
6. stop thinking and speaking about others as if they’re better than you
7. never entertain those who try to bring you down or talk down to you
8. don’t lower your standards for anyone or anything
9. “failure” doesn’t have to discourage you
10. drop the victim mentality
11. don’t be afraid of being called selfish