Curate, connect, and discover
Using ambiguous labels/being unlabeled has genuinely been so freeing for me as a queer dude.
I get that for some, more specific labels and identities are affirming, but for me, when I was still trying to find "my label" ©️ I ended up constantly questioning every feeling I had about myself, my gender, my attraction, etc.
I became obsessed with finding the "correct" collection of terms that could fully encompass me as a person.
But I can't be contained in any number of labels. No one flag or idenity will truly be able to tell others who I am. Only *I* can tell you who I am.
I'm genderqueer, trans, and achillean. What does that mean? Just ask me! Let me use my words and my experiences to connect with you and tell you who I am.
Anyway queerness is beautiful, and I am beautiful, and so are you, no matter how you choose to define yourself.