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not necessarily but I do have an intense aversion to other people using dishes that are mine and claimed by me
like what if they don't wash them right/break them/misplace them
then I eye them suspiciously and get upset whenever i see someone use them because ive asked them not to
'house' dishes are fair game tho like they're everyone's so I know they aren't gonna be misused/Im not attatched to them
on the flip side of this if I am using other people's dishes I clean them super well and dry them and try not to use very many because like,,, those are theirs. their thing. i would hate to disrespect their thing because if someone disrepected mine id get super upsetti
Anyone else here autistic and have a weird aversion to silverware and dishes that arent your own?
Especially bowls and spoons and cups for some reason (in order of untrustworthyness)
Like, no, i won't eat out of the tupperware bowl. It has spagetii stains, it is untrustworth