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oh my god I don't know you, but I'm so proud of you! Coming out can be a struggle, I wish you good luck in life fellow transmasc of the internet.
Guys.
I did it.
I came out as trans to my father today.
He said he wants me to be happy, and that's the most important thing for him. He was also a bit upset because I already told so many people and didn't tell him earlier. And he has to let it sink in (which is understandable). He was more concerned what my mum will think, because she might react negatively (he said she may think I'm only trans because my ex is also trans) but he said when I'm ready to come out to her, he will be with me and help.
I'm just. I'm so like. Still kinda in shock that I actually did it. I don't know. I'm also happy - a huge weight has been lifted off of me.
you speak the truth, a trans woman is beautiful whether she has boobs or not.
i don’t see literally any positivity or rep for trans women without boobs so. if youre a pre-hrt transfem (regardless of if you intend to get hrt or not!) and you are flat chested, i love you. having boobs doesnt make you any more or less trans and certainly doesnt make you more or less beautiful. you deserve to see yourself represented in trans women and transfems in art and media too! transfems arent just suddenly pretty when/if they sprout titties!! your body is woman/fem/trans enough. i love you.
yall have got to be more normal about Southern people and I'm not kidding. enough of the Sweet Home Alabama incest jokes, enough of the idea that all Southerners are bigots and rednecks, and enough of the idea that the South has bad food. shut up about "trailer trash" and our accents and our hobbies!
do yall know how fucking nauseating it is to hear people only bring up my state to make jokes about people in poverty and incestuous relationships? how much shame I feel that I wasn't born up north like the Good Queers and Good Leftists with all the Civilised Folk with actual houses instead of small cramped trailers that have paper thin walls that I know won't protect me in a bad enough storm?
do yall know how frustrating it is to be trans in a place that wants to kill you and whenever you bring it up to people they say "well just move out" instead of sympathizing with you or offering help?
do yall understand how alienating it is to see huge masterposts of queer and mental health resources but none of them are in your state because theyre all up north? and nobody seems to want to fix this glaring issue because "they're all hicks anyways"
Southern people deserve better. we deserve to be taken seriously and given a voice in the queer community and the mental health space and leftist talks in general.
It's not a NECKLACE it's an AMULET ok it's a WIZARD thing IM MASC IM MASC IM MASC