Curate, connect, and discover
Totally agree, and I would also argue that connecting with other women is the most important first step. Actually taking time to build up the care and empathy for other women is huge. The patriarchy constantly pits woman against woman to prevent us from working together.
You can give up the makeup, love your body hair, abandon the need for male acceptance or approval - but if you don't teach yourself to care for other women, and give other women grace, and understand female socialisation, then all you're doing is partially freeing your physical self while upholding the patriarchy elsewhere.
Considering that the patriarchy also wants to crush us so that we're always kind to men and hyper critical of other women, centring women and actually saving that kindness for other women trains us to be kinder to ourselves, too, which builds our confidence and empowers us to stand up even taller against men.
It's admirable if one day, you can wake up and completely deprogram yourself from misogyny and the patriarchy in one go but it's also OK if:
You start wearing less makeup or wearing makeup less often rather than completely stopping
You start to let your body hair grow a little longer before shaving instead of never letting it grow more than stubble
You stop making new male friends but keep the ones that you have
You share resources online about community efforts before helping in person
You disengage from conversations where casual misogyny or full blown misogyny is used rather than challenging it
Everyone starts somewhere. We don't all have the ability to change our lives completely overnight.
But you have to put in the work to do more and get out of your comfort zone. Women's liberation doesn't happen if we all just do the minimum.
It's a good place to start but you have to learn how to push yourself to do more.