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Watching Say Yes to the Dress with my grandmother right now and it's so nerve-wracking because they have a amab non binary bride as the main bride they're following.
So far she hasn't said anything too terrible though. Obviously she doesn't understand they/them pronouns, but really her main concern is what they're going to do with their hair if they get a dress. They have it cut really short, and she doesn't think there will be a good way to stylize it to match a wedding dress.
Her homophobia is outwayed by her belief that a bride should be in full glam on their wedding day.