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chris fleming truly has his finger on the pulse of tumblr’s zeitgeist
Also, as an enby myself, the terms “amab” and “afab” are dumb as hell. It’s just dividing people without a gender, or with multiple genders, to the gender they were assigned at birth. The only people who need to know what you were born as are your doctors, and no. one. else. Not even friends, unless you actually want to tell them, in which case go ahead. You don’t owe anyone shit. Non-binary people are valid no matter what, and you have absolutely no obligation to “prove” yourself to others. You don’t need to transition, you don’t need operations; if just being called they/them or it/its or whatever the fuck else pronouns makes you feel good, then you’re enby enough. Chris is a wonderful example of how a lot of people *still* think in ‘man’ and ‘woman.’