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In their defense, the Mindflayer's Terminal entry refers to their forms as "female" and "male," so they are just using the latter as a prefix since that is how they're described.
Also, immediately wanting to rip people to pieces for this sort of thing is not exactly a good mindset to go by.
can we please god not call them male mindflayers im gonna rip you all to shreds