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this is a self indulgent post but to nonsharers that can’t help but lurk on a double’s blog: don’t. it will bring you more pain and though i understand the feeling, it isn’t isn’t worth it. you don’t deserve that.

what i personally do if i see a double, i block them immediately and then:

listen to music (bonus points if it’s your selfship playlist)

watch youtube

write / draw

hoard their pictures on pinterest boards

read x reader fics (if there’s any)

create a whole new selfship au

shitpost lol

go eat, drink water, cook, clean

talk to friends/family members about anything

consume their source like a madman (/lh)

remind myself that my f/o(s) wouldn’t dare because they wouldn’t lol

ramble about my selfship on the dash (i kinda spam whoops)

imagine myself doing tiktok pranks with them

edit my self insert’s backstories and headcanons

literally, anything else but stalk their blog. distract yourself with things that you like and enjoy. your feelings are completely valid yes but we have to pull ourselves out of that instead of delving deeper :,) besides, your f/o(s) need your attention more than anything, do not leave them hanging (/lh)