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i'm on the ace spectrum but still enjoy sex sometimes depending on the partner. i won't delve too deep into explaining it because it might take up the whole word limit haha but i was wondering what frank would think about that? like i still do it and i enjoy the closeness and the making out and cuddling afterwards so in a sense, i do like it. just wondering what your take on frank's reaction would be🙈
Ok I've actually got these headcanony thoughts on this situation!
So if you felt comfortable with sex occasionally, he'd be his usual king of consent. He's never gonna assume it's a yes. Even if it was a yes yesterday or a yes an hour ago, he's not making any assumptions. He's asking a lot of questions like "S'ok when I touch you like this?" or "This spot ok sweetheart?" or "Tell me to stop if it's feelin' like too much."
I think he'd even get a teensy but teasing with it. Maybe you were being cuddly or guiding his hand to spots you wanted touched, he'd say "Nah I can't touch there til you give me permission doll" and he'd make you grant him permission before any touch until you were no longer giving permission but instead begging him for it.
And then he'd go so so so heavy on the aftercare and cuddling. He's already good about that but when he knew it was necessary for your comfort, he'd be so vigilant in making sure you felt secure and connected. Phones away, TV off, skin to skin-- just lots and lots of intimacy.